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Am I the only one who does this to guys asking for advice?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the person messaging is asking for a meet, we check if they to swingers clubs as thats the only time we play, if they are not asking for a meet that would be a pointless exercise lol |
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By *ilk_Tre OP Man
over a year ago
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"Check their profile to see if they have "Swingers Clubs" as one of their interests... 
it all depends what they ask advice on  "
Okay... 
How about when they ask for advice on how to get verifications/profile advice/or just generally complain that they aren't getting anywhere on fab. |
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Any guy that has to ask for advice is going to struggle getting meets.
They don't get meets because they either look wrong, talk wrong or act wrong and any advice given is not going to help that problem.
The guys that have the most verifications on here generally don't ask for sex or message everyone. They just get to know people in the chat rooms and forums and reply nicely to meet requests and statuses.
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"Any guy that has to ask for advice is going to struggle getting meets.
They don't get meets because they either look wrong, talk wrong or act wrong and any advice given is not going to help that problem.
The guys that have the most verifications on here generally don't ask for sex or message everyone. They just get to know people in the chat rooms and forums and reply nicely to meet requests and statuses.
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If their profile is short and dull and messages are one liners, some advise may well help with the problem. |
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"Any guy that has to ask for advice is going to struggle getting meets.
They don't get meets because they either look wrong, talk wrong or act wrong and any advice given is not going to help that problem.
The guys that have the most verifications on here generally don't ask for sex or message everyone. They just get to know people in the chat rooms and forums and reply nicely to meet requests and statuses.
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This is the truth!!! most of the contacts I've had are from random forum threads or witty status comments. Strange thing about it is you go look for the wham bam and you get a red card and a lot of guys don't get this :S you chat be nice and get to know someone over time and strangely you find your the one getting the message looking to meet.
Afraid it's kind of a case of you got it or you don't :S you need to be able to chat be patient and keep someone's interest enough for them to want to meet, advice cant really help with that aspect  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Check their profile to see if they have "Swingers Clubs" as one of their interests...
it all depends what they ask advice on
Okay...
How about when they ask for advice on how to get verifications/profile advice/or just generally complain that they aren't getting anywhere on fab. so are you advocating paying to get a veri because that's what he would be doing !!  
Oh wait a minute. Aren't you the guy who's not too keen on the whole swinging club thing? Lol
So if I paid for coffees and cake during a social would THAT be the cost of my verifications?  "
it would be a lot cheaper than meeting at a club |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Check their profile to see if they have "Swingers Clubs" as one of their interests...
it all depends what they ask advice on
Okay...
How about when they ask for advice on how to get verifications/profile advice/or just generally complain that they aren't getting anywhere on fab. "
then I would advise that they take themselves to a social....there are always some advertised on the forums...and introduce themselves to one or more people, and maybe have a drink and a laugh with people who are fully dressed asking someone to meet you in a club just because they have it as an interest on their profile is a bit ridiculous really, as that is an indication of INTEREST and doesn't actually mean that they visit clubs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just cos they are on a swinger site doesn't mean everyone likes to go to clubs, one reason I guess is the sky high rocket prices for men. I always give the advice about having patience lol. |
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