 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
I get viewed a lot but not many messages!
Try to not message women as imagine they get hundreds and I'm not the pushy or harass a woman type.
Any suggestions ladies or maybe this site isn't for me? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I get viewed a lot but not many messages!
Try to not message women as imagine they get hundreds and I'm not the pushy or harass a woman type.
Any suggestions ladies or maybe this site isn't for me?"
Only you can answer that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I get viewed a lot but not many messages!
Try to not message women as imagine they get hundreds and I'm not the pushy or harass a woman type.
Any suggestions ladies or maybe this site isn't for me?"
I think you should take the bull by the horns and send a few messages out  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I get viewed a lot but not many messages!
Try to not message women as imagine they get hundreds and I'm not the pushy or harass a woman type.
Any suggestions ladies or maybe this site isn't for me?
I think you should take the bull by the horns and send a few messages out "
To those that viewed you....be up front..ask if they liked what they saw? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
I would suggest you DO send messages out. Go through profiles, and identify your top 10 where you are a perfect match (you're what they want, they're what you want). Read the profile carefully, and send a polite introductory message, mentioning things to show that you've read the profile (not just looked at the pictures). Make each message at least 3 short paragraphs. Ask if they would be interested in getting to know each other better.
Your profile shows that can write in an intelligent and humorous way, so you might get a response. But you might not.
Repeat on week 2, with the next 10 profiles, and keep repeating each week until you have some success.
Meanwhile, 'put yourself about a bit'. Check for socials in your area. Think about going to a swingers club. Keep posting in the Forum. Take time to chat in your regional chat room. The more times people see your name, the more likely you are to attract attention in a positive way.
Good luck! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
Oh, and don't target the people who have viewed your profile. They looked, they didn't get in touch, in all probability, they're not interested in you. Don't - whatever you do! - say "I see you looked at my profile"... That just forces women and couples to look in stealth mode.
Oh, and don't obsess about the status of your sent messages. The only thing that is important is whether they reply, not whether they read it, deleted it etc. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I get viewed a lot but not many messages!
Try to not message women as imagine they get hundreds and I'm not the pushy or harass a woman type.
Any suggestions ladies or maybe this site isn't for me?"
you get out what you put in...
no pain no gain...
see who has looked and try messaging them... you have got to be in it to win it blah blah blah  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Send 1,000 cut and paste messages....that's always a winner
does that work for you then fabmsfox I like New avatar "
blimey I didn't recognise you without your emojis |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I get viewed a lot but not many messages!
Try to not message women as imagine they get hundreds and I'm not the pushy or harass a woman type.
Any suggestions ladies or maybe this site isn't for me?"
in all seriousness can I ask how you think meets happen on here? if you don't send a message and they aren't telepathic then its not going to happen...try doing a search in the browse section and start targeting |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
