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Female half of the couple here. I'm just wondering if there is actually any bisexual females out there who aren't so fussy about hair. Single or couples with a bi female. It's so hard to find any and I know it's mostly females that are fussy because we get a ton of messages from males all the time. Most females on here seem to be more bothered about looks and appearance than how they get on with someone like this is some beauty contest or something.
So I was just wondering if there are actually any open minded females that exist on this site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure there are plenty, but they aren't all going want to have sex with you and arguing people are fussy isn't going to help. Why on earth would someone fuck someone they didn't fancy?? |
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"I'm sure there are plenty, but they aren't all going want to have sex with you and arguing people are fussy isn't going to help. Why on earth would someone fuck someone they didn't fancy??"
Why on earth does looks make a difference on how they perform in bed? Someone could be really "attractive" but not be what you're wanting in a sexual experience. Someone could be "unnatractive" but be really likeminded socially as well as sexually.
Personally I'd rather just see who I get on better with so I feel more comfortable around them.  |
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over a year ago
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"Female half of the couple here. I'm just wondering if there is actually any bisexual females out there who aren't so fussy about hair. Single or couples with a bi female. It's so hard to find any and I know it's mostly females that are fussy because we get a ton of messages from males all the time. Most females on here seem to be more bothered about looks and appearance than how they get on with someone like this is some beauty contest or something.
So I was just wondering if there are actually any open minded females that exist on this site?"
I'm bisexual with a female body, and I don't shave anywhere. I don't find it a problem to attract bi women, and I am actively looking for bi women (and have no preference as to their body hair). |
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over a year ago
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I presumed as you mentioned hair you mean pubic hair and being attracted to someone who has it rather than general attraction.
Attraction is a bit thing obviously and my preference is very neatly trimmed or shaved/waxed.
No matter how attractive I found someone I would be turned off by lots of pubic hair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone could be really "attractive" but not be what you're wanting in a sexual experience."
Yeah, but personally if I find someone attractive then they probably are someone that I want in a sexual experience. |
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over a year ago
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"Female half of the couple here. I'm just wondering if there is actually any bisexual females out there who aren't so fussy about hair. Single or couples with a bi female. It's so hard to find any and I know it's mostly females that are fussy because we get a ton of messages from males all the time. Most females on here seem to be more bothered about looks and appearance than how they get on with someone like this is some beauty contest or something.
So I was just wondering if there are actually any open minded females that exist on this site?"
It really isn't a beauty contest. Some folk like pubic hair and some don't. We don't but that does not make us fussy. It is just our preference. It leads us to reject many proposals and, yes, that is limiting but we are more than happy to accept that limitation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What someone looks like will ALWAYS come first, for us anyway
Then would decide upon learning personality
And that much hair is a def no no for us "
This
I couldn't play with someone I didn't find attractive. Pubic hair is a huge turn off for me |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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I am a bit confused by this thread. OP, are you suggesting that bisexual women should want to play with you, even if they find pubic hair unattractive, because you have something to offer which goes way beyond looks? Maybe you need to be much more explicit about what this 'something' is, and why you think it should over-ride appearance, when people are considering who they want to play with. Because most people won't play with someone who they aren't attracted to.
The obvious alternative, of course, is to make yourself appealing to more people, by some judicious topiary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there are plenty, but they aren't all going want to have sex with you and arguing people are fussy isn't going to help. Why on earth would someone fuck someone they didn't fancy??"
Wanting to fuck someone you fancy doesn't make you less open minded. |
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"I am a bit confused by this thread. OP, are you suggesting that bisexual women should want to play with you, even if they find pubic hair unattractive, because you have something to offer which goes way beyond looks? Maybe you need to be much more explicit about what this 'something' is, and why you think it should over-ride appearance, when people are considering who they want to play with. Because most people won't play with someone who they aren't attracted to.
The obvious alternative, of course, is to make yourself appealing to more people, by some judicious topiary. "
Nah, I was just wondering if there were generally any bisexual females who don't judge by looks and don't request that everyone shaves. I've just noticed it's written in a lot of profiles so was just curious. sorry, I just started rambling when writing it so can see why people would be confused about what I'm interpreting there. |
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By *CCoupleCouple
over a year ago
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I'm a bit confused too like an earlier post said. Are you saying that you're only "open minded" if I like a face full of pubes??? It's a like or dislike. Your initial analogy is a bit like saying you're only opened minded if you let someone shit on your face then stick their cheesy rimmed cock down your throat....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been looking for a nice female for a ffm and it's actually torture. I'm not overlay fussy just want someone similar to myself who's up for a bit of banter thrown in. The search continues x |
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By *CCoupleCouple
over a year ago
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"I presumed as you mentioned hair you mean pubic hair and being attracted to someone who has it rather than general attraction.
Attraction is a bit thing obviously and my preference is very neatly trimmed or shaved/waxed.
No matter how attractive I found someone I would be turned off by lots of pubic hair."
Ditto. Our closet friends are a couple who we swing with but if they haven't trimmed, I'm not going near it. Picking loose pubes out at every lick, eeeeeuw. It's like eating a bony fish and spitting the bones out  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there are plenty, but they aren't all going want to have sex with you and arguing people are fussy isn't going to help. Why on earth would someone fuck someone they didn't fancy??"
Charity F**ks Inc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs is bi sexual and as you can see from the veris prove she is real . As a cpl 4 of you need to get along and most people us included do not take one for the team |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And another here...
Looks isnt my main priority but there has to be an instant physical lust/attraction to make me want to find out more.
I can usually 'feel' it by a few face pics, and witty repertoire and conversely if it's not happening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bi lady here who loves the female forms regardless of size, hair on the other hand, like it trimmed or bald. It would restrict my willingness to go down on a lady im afraid, ive had hairs in my mouth and its just something that outs me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bi fem here, just starting to think about meeting on my own, and whilst it's nice to connect on more than sex, you do need a sexual spark to have good sex in my opinion. And too much hair does put me off too sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personality goes a really long way with us but there has to be some level attraction even at a basic level.
Your not going to be having sex with their personality after all...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I presumed as you mentioned hair you mean pubic hair and being attracted to someone who has it rather than general attraction.
Attraction is a bit thing obviously and my preference is very neatly trimmed or shaved/waxed.
No matter how attractive I found someone I would be turned off by lots of pubic hair."
Same here |
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"I presumed as you mentioned hair you mean pubic hair and being attracted to someone who has it rather than general attraction.
Attraction is a bit thing obviously and my preference is very neatly trimmed or shaved/waxed.
No matter how attractive I found someone I would be turned off by lots of pubic hair.
Same here "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Female half of the couple here. I'm just wondering if there is actually any bisexual females out there who aren't so fussy about hair. Single or couples with a bi female. It's so hard to find any and I know it's mostly females that are fussy because we get a ton of messages from males all the time. Most females on here seem to be more bothered about looks and appearance than how they get on with someone like this is some beauty contest or something.
So I was just wondering if there are actually any open minded females that exist on this site?"
we are hiding from the unicorn hunters  |
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It isn't hard to find bi fems, either single, or as part of a couple, who want to play.
We have played with loads of them, cant turn around without tripping over one or two lol.
Your problem is twofold.
First, I'd guess way more than 90% of swingers shave their pubic area, and prefer their meets to do likewise.
Second, you are chasing a label, instead of having fun with actual people.
I keep saying it, we've never played with a "single bi fem", however, we have played with loads of friends who also just happen to be female, single, and bi!  |
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How do I get rid of this topic? I didn't word any of it right and was only meant to have this up for a short time out of curiosity. I didn't know you can't delete this once it's been made and I've reported it a couple of times but it this isn't being deleted for some reason. |
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"How do I get rid of this topic? I didn't word any of it right and was only meant to have this up for a short time out of curiosity. I didn't know you can't delete this once it's been made and I've reported it a couple of times but it this isn't being deleted for some reason. "
Unless your post is contrary to the forums rules then there would be little reason for admin to delete the post at all even at your request.
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"I presumed as you mentioned hair you mean pubic hair and being attracted to someone who has it rather than general attraction.
Attraction is a bit thing obviously and my preference is very neatly trimmed or shaved/waxed.
No matter how attractive I found someone I would be turned off by lots of pubic hair.
Same here
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And me |
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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago
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"I presumed as you mentioned hair you mean pubic hair and being attracted to someone who has it rather than general attraction.
Attraction is a bit thing obviously and my preference is very neatly trimmed or shaved/waxed.
No matter how attractive I found someone I would be turned off by lots of pubic hair.
Same here
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And me "
and me. been shaved since I was 12. Never changed.
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"How do I get rid of this topic? I didn't word any of it right and was only meant to have this up for a short time out of curiosity. I didn't know you can't delete this once it's been made and I've reported it a couple of times but it this isn't being deleted for some reason.
Unless your post is contrary to the forums rules then there would be little reason for admin to delete the post at all even at your request.
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Really wish they let people know this before hand. I've also never been on a forum before where you can't edit your posts. |
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"How do I get rid of this topic? I didn't word any of it right and was only meant to have this up for a short time out of curiosity. I didn't know you can't delete this once it's been made and I've reported it a couple of times but it this isn't being deleted for some reason.
Unless your post is contrary to the forums rules then there would be little reason for admin to delete the post at all even at your request.
Really wish they let people know this before hand. I've also never been on a forum before where you can't edit your posts. "
you can remove your own post and resubmit it, but only after you have posted it for a small window of time |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"Female half of the couple here. I'm just wondering if there is actually any bisexual females out there who aren't so fussy about hair. Single or couples with a bi female. It's so hard to find any and I know it's mostly females that are fussy because we get a ton of messages from males all the time. Most females on here seem to be more bothered about looks and appearance than how they get on with someone like this is some beauty contest or something.
So I was just wondering if there are actually any open minded females that exist on this site?
we are hiding from the unicorn hunters "
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"How do I get rid of this topic? I didn't word any of it right and was only meant to have this up for a short time out of curiosity. I didn't know you can't delete this once it's been made and I've reported it a couple of times but it this isn't being deleted for some reason.
Unless your post is contrary to the forums rules then there would be little reason for admin to delete the post at all even at your request.
Really wish they let people know this before hand. I've also never been on a forum before where you can't edit your posts.
you can remove your own post and resubmit it, but only after you have posted it for a small window of time"
Which people should be let known BEFORE posting something.
This forum doesn't even have sticky threads about rules on here. Seriously, who designed this forum? -_-
Like I said, I only started this one out of curiosity and if I had known before that you can't even edit it after a few minutes I wouldn't of even started this in the first place. |
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Bi Fem half of a couple here.
I don't mind if women or men have hair, it isn't the end of the world for me.
I do *prefer* it is kept neat or shaved but I wouldn't turn someone down for being natural if I got on with them and found them attractive. But I do understand that for some people it is a turn off, so I wouldn't expect them to make an exception for me if they wanted to only play with shaved people and I wanted to keep it bushy.
We each have our own preferences for various things, height weight skin colour, hair colour etc. when it comes to finding playmates, sometimes we can make exceptions for people and sometimes it is just a hard limit for some. I don't take it personally when someone isn't attracted to me. |
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"How do I get rid of this topic? I didn't word any of it right and was only meant to have this up for a short time out of curiosity. I didn't know you can't delete this once it's been made and I've reported it a couple of times but it this isn't being deleted for some reason.
Unless your post is contrary to the forums rules then there would be little reason for admin to delete the post at all even at your request.
Really wish they let people know this before hand. I've also never been on a forum before where you can't edit your posts.
you can remove your own post and resubmit it, but only after you have posted it for a small window of time
Which people should be let known BEFORE posting something.
This forum doesn't even have sticky threads about rules on here. Seriously, who designed this forum? -_-
Like I said, I only started this one out of curiosity and if I had known before that you can't even edit it after a few minutes I wouldn't of even started this in the first place. "
Maybe you should have done a bit of research before submitting your post ! |
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"Female half of the couple here. I'm just wondering if there is actually any bisexual females out there who aren't so fussy about hair. Single or couples with a bi female. It's so hard to find any and I know it's mostly females that are fussy because we get a ton of messages from males all the time. Most females on here seem to be more bothered about looks and appearance than how they get on with someone like this is some beauty contest or something.
So I was just wondering if there are actually any open minded females that exist on this site?"
Openminded?
Is that some code for not fussy?
Nikki is very open minded in our eyes.as in she will try things. Fussy? Yeah, very.
I guess the hair comment you make means you don't shave. That could well cost a few potential meets |
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"Yeah.just seen your part of pic.
that hair would turn most people off.
get it whizzed off and try again.people may be more likely to meet then."
I disagree. Don't shave just to get laid. Don't compromise to meet people that wouldn't like you the way that you like yourself. |
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"Yeah.just seen your part of pic.
that hair would turn most people off.
get it whizzed off and try again.people may be more likely to meet then.
I disagree. Don't shave just to get laid. Don't compromise to meet people that wouldn't like you the way that you like yourself."
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"Maybe you should have done a bit of research before submitting your post !"
Well even now that I know about it I still can't find much information on this site about this. That's the problem here. The lack of information or if there are information to do with the forums, it's pretty hard to find. |
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"Yeah.just seen your part of pic.
that hair would turn most people off.
get it whizzed off and try again.people may be more likely to meet then.
I disagree. Don't shave just to get laid. Don't compromise to meet people that wouldn't like you the way that you like yourself."
Exactly there's plenty that will like it! |
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"Female half of the couple here. I'm just wondering if there is actually any bisexual females out there who aren't so fussy about hair. Single or couples with a bi female. It's so hard to find any and I know it's mostly females that are fussy because we get a ton of messages from males all the time. Most females on here seem to be more bothered about looks and appearance than how they get on with someone like this is some beauty contest or something.
So I was just wondering if there are actually any open minded females that exist on this site?"
You can't expect people to change their preferences regarding hair just to suit you.
Many people here, me included, wouldn't meet anyone who wasn't at the very least well trimmed.
I can't bear the thought of getting a mouthfull of pubes hence we state our preferences in our profile. Many people here have similar preferences to us. If you want to appeal to more people then you could trim or shave. However no one is forcing you to do that but you probably would get more interest .... your choice |
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"Yeah.just seen your part of pic.
that hair would turn most people off.
get it whizzed off and try again.people may be more likely to meet then.
I disagree. Don't shave just to get laid. Don't compromise to meet people that wouldn't like you the way that you like yourself."
Oh no, I definitely wouldn't do that. I only trim for me and my partner. Funny thing is I do trim sometimes (it's actually trimmed right now) and I do have it written in my profile. Just too many females here have judged too much on that one picture and not our profile as a whole, which has also proved my theory right. :D
I think that's why if new pictures get uploaded I think I'll still use the same picture as my default picture.
We're looking for like minded people and people who care too much about looks and appearance are definitely not for us. Even if they saw my face they'd probably still be unimpressed anyway. Haha
Yes I get that everyone has a preference with certain things. We have some ourselves although that's mostly to stop us from being bombarded with messages and to find the right experience we're looking for. We do go out of some of our limits if we find the right person/people though.
Either way though, I wish I could get rid of this whole thread. Dx |
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"You could have started a thread asking though. I'm sure there are plenty who would have answered you "
I know. I was in a rambling mood so it was basically bad timing to make this thread. I just get loads of people trying to give me advice on here. XD |
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"Yeah.just seen your part of pic.
that hair would turn most people off.
get it whizzed off and try again.people may be more likely to meet then.
I disagree. "
quelle surprise  |
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"Yeah.just seen your part of pic.
that hair would turn most people off.
get it whizzed off and try again.people may be more likely to meet then.
I disagree. quelle surprise "
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"Yeah.just seen your part of pic.
that hair would turn most people off.
get it whizzed off and try again.people may be more likely to meet then.
I disagree. quelle surprise "
Must suck to have someone disagree with your personal opinions on random internet forums, eh?
(Or are you just sad that someone doesn't want to bow down to your sexual preferences?) |
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"You could have started a thread asking though. I'm sure there are plenty who would have answered you
I know. I was in a rambling mood so it was basically bad timing to make this thread. I just get loads of people trying to give me advice on here. XD"
It is a bit weird to ask a question and then object to receiving replies. |
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By *CCoupleCouple
over a year ago
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Hahahahahaha this post is quite clearly a matter of opinion and yet so many are getting on their high horse and being abusive to others because they don't conform.......... First world problems??....  |
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"I am a bit confused by this thread. OP, are you suggesting that bisexual women should want to play with you, even if they find pubic hair unattractive, because you have something to offer which goes way beyond looks? Maybe you need to be much more explicit about what this 'something' is, and why you think it should over-ride appearance, when people are considering who they want to play with. Because most people won't play with someone who they aren't attracted to.
The obvious alternative, of course, is to make yourself appealing to more people, by some judicious topiary.
Nah, I was just wondering if there were generally any bisexual females who don't judge by looks and don't request that everyone shaves. I've just noticed it's written in a lot of profiles so was just curious. sorry, I just started rambling when writing it so can see why people would be confused about what I'm interpreting there. "
Personally I find the request or demand that I shave my body just as unattractive as some find body hair, so wouldn't be bothered about their opinion anyway. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't, sometimes I have red hair and other times pink, blue or purple. I treat my body hair the same as I do the hair on my head, subject to change but always because of the mood I am in that particular week. My legs and underarms are well hairy atm and there is not a hope in hell I would shave just for a meet. Might feel like shaving some time who knows. Same applies to who I meet, has to be right for me, there has to be a physical attraction, again depends on my mood at the time. Great thing about fab and NSA is that it is fun and we can afford to be fickle. xxxxxxx |
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"I am a bit confused by this thread. OP, are you suggesting that bisexual women should want to play with you, even if they find pubic hair unattractive, because you have something to offer which goes way beyond looks? Maybe you need to be much more explicit about what this 'something' is, and why you think it should over-ride appearance, when people are considering who they want to play with. Because most people won't play with someone who they aren't attracted to.
The obvious alternative, of course, is to make yourself appealing to more people, by some judicious topiary.
Nah, I was just wondering if there were generally any bisexual females who don't judge by looks and don't request that everyone shaves. I've just noticed it's written in a lot of profiles so was just curious. sorry, I just started rambling when writing it so can see why people would be confused about what I'm interpreting there.
Personally I find the request or demand that I shave my body just as unattractive as some find body hair, so wouldn't be bothered about their opinion anyway. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't, sometimes I have red hair and other times pink, blue or purple. I treat my body hair the same as I do the hair on my head, subject to change but always because of the mood I am in that particular week. My legs and underarms are well hairy atm and there is not a hope in hell I would shave just for a meet. Might feel like shaving some time who knows. Same applies to who I meet, has to be right for me, there has to be a physical attraction, again depends on my mood at the time. Great thing about fab and NSA is that it is fun and we can afford to be fickle. xxxxxxx "
I don't expect anyone to shave or trim just because that is my preference ... however i wouldn't meet them and i don't wish to have a mouthful of pubes ... our preference which we stick to but we aren't forcing anyone to do it, they just won't be meeting us |
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