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hotel meet.....how long?
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Depends. If you had a good social before hand then generally after the sex you can have a good chat and maybe a drink . But if you get straight into sex as you enter the room then it's unlikely the other person will stay when it's finished . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it wasn't discussed before hand maybe that's what they thought was wanted.
Personally I wouldn't want people hanging around for ages after... Single guys id expect to leave pretty much as soon as possible.. (to be honest unless long term friends I would prefer that with most meets lol )
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I normally discuss this before hand as my time is quite limited. I think it's best to be upfront about any expectations that way no one is left feeling disappointed.....unless I'm really shit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes...it's a tough call and thanks for the opinions.....but I'm still left feeling a tad let down
Oh well, you live and learn eh?"
On here you really have to say what you want. As some women want a guy to hang about, maybe cuddle up, kiss and go for round two. Then others want a guy to zip up and go. And all things in-between.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet a married lady with her hubs approve was supposed to be for a few hrs but after a phone call to him she left with. When we checked out the following morning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your on your own be careful xx
Oh thank you. I'm fine. Got a bottle of wine and crisps for company now lol....so it's not all bad " get another meet lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If your on your own be careful xx
Oh thank you. I'm fine. Got a bottle of wine and crisps for company now lol....so it's not all bad get another meet lol "
It has crossed my mind lol |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"If your on your own be careful xx
Oh thank you. I'm fine. Got a bottle of wine and crisps for company now lol....so it's not all bad get another meet lol "
I may or may not have done this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your on your own be careful xx
Oh thank you. I'm fine. Got a bottle of wine and crisps for company now lol....so it's not all bad get another meet lol
I may or may not have done this. " we may have done this |
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well if you have all made a effect to turn up its got to be fun,meaning you cant just walk in cum your load then leave,i have meet a few time in hotels etc and always stayed for atleast a couple of hours so we have something to remember lol |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"well if you have all made a effect to turn up its got to be fun,meaning you cant just walk in cum your load then leave,i have meet a few time in hotels etc and always stayed for atleast a couple of hours so we have something to remember lol "
I think 2 hours is about right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A hotel for a few hours isn't something I have been interested in, If I do book one I for one will be spending the night there, Would be nice if she wanted to stay as well |
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I have a strict time limit due to life and the fact that it is nsa and I dont want it to be anything more than an almost faceless fuck. If I wanted anything else, I would get into a relationship and have found that if someone wants to drag it out, they are often wanting more of me than I want to give. I do make it clear that there is a time limit. I have also been known to slot two in, one after the other, sort of fun ..... |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I'm staying over in London in March. I have asked a chap to come and see me but I told him I would like him to stay the night. After some of these comments I might change my mind on that!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have hotel meets where we've stayed all night it's much nicer and more relaxed and very hot too !!
I've also had a hotel meet with a couple and we played in their room for a few hours then I left which I felt was the best thing no one mentioned me staying which I wouldn't of been comfortable doing anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My last hotel meet we stayed overnight and didn't wake up until late afternoon the next day. My regular hotel meet usually lasts about 4-5 hours,anything less is a waste of money. |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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I'd be offended if it was only an hour or two. I'd want that just in foreplay. Then I'd be hoping for round 2 or 3.
I wouldnt want to be spooned all night long (unless it was someone i knew well) but if I booked a hotel I would want at least 4 or 5 hours of fun.
If I'm meeting it should be fun and laughter filled. Relaxed and not hurried. However I would always have a social first to make sure I'd be happy spending that long with them lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well....planned hotel meet....was good....but should they fuck and go?? "
Not done this yet, its on my list and I have some time off in April, any offers lol ? |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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It depends - I met a couple on Friday night had splay and went home. I was willing to stay but it hadn't been discussed so I left
If I had booked the hotel specifically for a meet then I would want the lady to stay over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done a couple of hotel meets where I've stopped the night and some where it's meet socially and then leave after the action. It's all about defined boundaries |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've done a couple of hotel meets where I've stopped the night and some where it's meet socially and then leave after the action. It's all about defined boundaries"
In the cold light of day and after a discussion....it's seems it was a misunderstanding! !
Oh well you live and learn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I used to meet as a single lady and did hotel meets most of them were overnight. If it was a short meet sometimes I would arrange another one few hours later.
Dollx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't often stay overnight or have someone stay over with me. I like it when I can, but I don't mind if they have to go or I have to go either.
It doesn't have to be wham bam thankyou ma'am OR spooning all night long, there is a comfortable middle ground and I usually find it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then? "
Because we can fuck in our own bed??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a couple of friends that I'm happy to meet up with as soon as we can check in until we check out,I like very long sessions
Guys that I dont know so well I'd meet in the evening but it would still be an allnighter
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed??? "
So why do you need a single guy to book one then? If you want to meet a single guy in a hotel, book a hotel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed???
So why do you need a single guy to book one then? If you want to meet a single guy in a hotel, book a hotel."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed??? "
Well do that then?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed???
So why do you need a single guy to book one then? If you want to meet a single guy in a hotel, book a hotel."
Because won't meet a single guy at ours? And they have a habit of not turning up?
Jesus why are we having to explain ourselves!! It's not rocket science the reason why but let's be awkward on a post, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed???
Well do that then?!"
Thanks for the advice
Ours is seeing your status, just ignore guys asking for a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed???
So why do you need a single guy to book one then? If you want to meet a single guy in a hotel, book a hotel." we do this.. If no one turns up we just enjoy it ourselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"they have a habit of not turning up?
Jesus why are we having to explain ourselves!! It's not rocket science the reason why but let's be awkward on a post, lol "
I can see why, but let's blame the fella, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed???
So why do you need a single guy to book one then? If you want to meet a single guy in a hotel, book a hotel.
Because won't meet a single guy at ours? And they have a habit of not turning up?
Jesus why are we having to explain ourselves!! It's not rocket science the reason why but let's be awkward on a post, lol "
I'm not being awkward - just wondering. You don't have to explain yourselves, it was a simple question.
Oh, and as for not turning up - you may find that's why the single guy is reluctant to book the hotel himself. Especially since if you guys don't show he's there on his tod. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I assume of course if you do get a single man to book you'll be sharing the costs 3 ways, rather than expecting him to foot the bill for somewhere for the two of you to fuck...? Yep... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed???
So why do you need a single guy to book one then? If you want to meet a single guy in a hotel, book a hotel.
Because won't meet a single guy at ours? And they have a habit of not turning up?
Jesus why are we having to explain ourselves!! It's not rocket science the reason why but let's be awkward on a post, lol
I'm not being awkward - just wondering. You don't have to explain yourselves, it was a simple question.
Oh, and as for not turning up - you may find that's why the single guy is reluctant to book the hotel himself. Especially since if you guys don't show he's there on his tod. "
Guess so, but hence why would we want a hotel room on our Todd! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed???
So why do you need a single guy to book one then? If you want to meet a single guy in a hotel, book a hotel.
Because won't meet a single guy at ours? And they have a habit of not turning up?
Jesus why are we having to explain ourselves!! It's not rocket science the reason why but let's be awkward on a post, lol
I'm not being awkward - just wondering. You don't have to explain yourselves, it was a simple question.
Oh, and as for not turning up - you may find that's why the single guy is reluctant to book the hotel himself. Especially since if you guys don't show he's there on his tod.
Guess so, but hence why would we want a hotel room on our Todd!"
Why wouldn't you want to be on your own together? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed???
So why do you need a single guy to book one then? If you want to meet a single guy in a hotel, book a hotel.
Because won't meet a single guy at ours? And they have a habit of not turning up?
Jesus why are we having to explain ourselves!! It's not rocket science the reason why but let's be awkward on a post, lol
I'm not being awkward - just wondering. You don't have to explain yourselves, it was a simple question.
Oh, and as for not turning up - you may find that's why the single guy is reluctant to book the hotel himself. Especially since if you guys don't show he's there on his tod.
Guess so, but hence why would we want a hotel room on our Todd!
Why wouldn't you want to be on your own together? "
Why pay £40 to be alone tho? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed???
So why do you need a single guy to book one then? If you want to meet a single guy in a hotel, book a hotel."
So he can pay for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed???
So why do you need a single guy to book one then? If you want to meet a single guy in a hotel, book a hotel.
So he can pay for it "
Again we offer half, the lack of knowledge people have before jumping to a conclusion is quite amazing on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed???
So why do you need a single guy to book one then? If you want to meet a single guy in a hotel, book a hotel.
So he can pay for it
Again we offer half, the lack of knowledge people have before jumping to a conclusion is quite amazing on here"
Treat the other half....i mean fb
Or being suck a cheap skate maybe the back of your carc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed???
So why do you need a single guy to book one then? If you want to meet a single guy in a hotel, book a hotel.
So he can pay for it
Again we offer half, the lack of knowledge people have before jumping to a conclusion is quite amazing on here
Treat the other half....i mean fb
Or being suck a cheap skate maybe the back of your carc "
It's not about the money for us, it's someone showing us they are committed as you get a lot of people wasting your time on here. We can fuck anywhere we like, at least we have eachother. Just nice to have a little bit of extra fun thrown in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A hotel meet should be for a few hours. I like to start with drinks and a snack or meal and then start with a sensual massage in the bedroom before letting go and going wild! I would feel like a hooker in a hotel room if the meet.only lasted for 30 mins! |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed???
So why do you need a single guy to book one then? If you want to meet a single guy in a hotel, book a hotel.
So he can pay for it
Again we offer half, the lack of knowledge people have before jumping to a conclusion is quite amazing on here
Treat the other half....i mean fb
Or being suck a cheap skate maybe the back of your carc
It's not about the money for us, it's someone showing us they are committed as you get a lot of people wasting your time on here. We can fuck anywhere we like, at least we have eachother. Just nice to have a little bit of extra fun thrown in. "
Tbh I did read that as he can pay for it all - which I wouldn't do. I would expect the other party to at least say would you like half before arranging it - I might say as I am staying the night anyway not to worry about half |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Social meet for drinks and chat, then if all willing and happy a scamper up to Hotel room, but I would expect after fun he'd leave me and Paul to it. Is that "fuck and go" I'm not sure, but it works for us and those we have invited back to our room. Donna x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well....planned hotel meet....was good....but should they fuck and go?? "
It's not for me. I really only enjoy overnight meets. I wouldn't feel satisfied with a fuck and go. |
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"Getting a single guy to book one for Thursday is proving impossible, so at this rate 0 hours
Why don't you book one yourselves then?
Because we can fuck in our own bed???
So why do you need a single guy to book one then? If you want to meet a single guy in a hotel, book a hotel.
So he can pay for it
Again we offer half, the lack of knowledge people have before jumping to a conclusion is quite amazing on here
Treat the other half....i mean fb
Or being suck a cheap skate maybe the back of your carc
It's not about the money for us, it's someone showing us they are committed as you get a lot of people wasting your time on here. We can fuck anywhere we like, at least we have eachother. Just nice to have a little bit of extra fun thrown in.
Tbh I did read that as he can pay for it all - which I wouldn't do. I would expect the other party to at least say would you like half before arranging it - I might say as I am staying the night anyway not to worry about half "
We would've explained that to someone if they messaged privately. We would never expect anyone to pay full price for the room. |
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We so lots of hotel meets and explain that what we want is turn, play and leave.
We specifically want guys who act as an accessory to our own fun together.
We often find ourselves chatting for maybe an hour relaxing on the bed afterwards though if there lovely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Happened to me once we had good sex then he left but I wanted more so I arranged a all night meet a couple of hours later shame to waste the room x"
Sounds a great idea |
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