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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Suz used to have such a 'high' that she felt very flat the next day.
I have only felt like that once after playing with a 'dream lady' lol (some one I always though of as way out of my league). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I can't remember what it's called though. post-coital depression? Something like that.
Many people experience it at different points of their life. It's something that used to hit me quite hard a few years ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say sub drop can be a real thing. There are good strategies for it though which help.
Plus I guess after great sex, whatever type of play - it's back down to earth with a bang at times. All to do with endorphins I imagine.
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By *ouble C OP Couple
over a year ago
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Maybe because I'm feeling fat, hairy (wax and threading due next week!) and just meh. I haven't been dressed up to the 9s for ages and been out for the evening, Vanilla or otherwise.
Meh, this too shall pass.....Miss C. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who suffer from sex addiction usually do. It's like a vicious circle, they enjoy the hunt and the meet and then feel terrible afterwards, the only way they know how to lose the bad feelings is to start hunting for their next meet. |
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We'll I heard about sub drop can b very down putting . Feel very down n it may not happen for a day r so after ur play . I've heard this from a sub I chat to n beleive me she know all about it . Subspace is another feeling a sub gets into bye a proper sir n a sub does not feel pain in subspace but if they cum out of subspace it' can b a bitch as I was told . |
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I've had this feeling twice - The 1st time was a bit of a shocker. I felt really lost & weepy but was a bit more prepared the 2nd time & made sure I pampered myself & had treats in the cupboards!!
JG |
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OK, time for a bit of Classical input! Galen, the Greek doctor who lived about 200AD, is meant to have said "post coitum omne animal triste est, sive gallus et mulier",. Being translated this comes out as: "After sex all animals are sad except the cock and the woman". By cock he means the rooster (there's no cock/penis pun in Latin), and by woman - he means the woman. The idea is that post-coital depression is linked to the realisation that merging with your partner was just a temporary thing and then afterwards the separation between you is like an invisible wall. This results in a feeling of solitude and depression. Would any woman care to comment? |
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I've had some in the distant past as well as crazy orgasms that persist and persist, leaving me feeling emotionally in minor turmoil.
It's a wider phenomenon than we think and also understandable if someone has perhaps lost another, connecting sex with them. |
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By *ouble C OP Couple
over a year ago
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I've cried after intense orgasms before, this felt different though. Like I felt weepy and lost. Really really strange feeling. Maybe it hormones. Tomorrow I bet I will be horny as all he'll. Lol. Miss C. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure about sad but I (her) have been known to cry buckets after an intense session. However, I frequently feel fat, frumpy and old but there's probably more than an element to truth to one or two of those  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've cried after intense orgasms before, this felt different though. Like I felt weepy and lost. Really really strange feeling. Maybe it hormones. Tomorrow I bet I will be horny as all he'll. Lol. Miss C."
Unless it's a 9 month hormones thing? |
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By *ouble C OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I've cried after intense orgasms before, this felt different though. Like I felt weepy and lost. Really really strange feeling. Maybe it hormones. Tomorrow I bet I will be horny as all he'll. Lol. Miss C.
Unless it's a 9 month hormones thing?"
Ha ha ha! Don't think so. Would be a bit awkward if it was a 9 month sadness. Miss C. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this a real thing? Miss C.
I've never felt sad after sex xx"
Don't think I have, always felt elated and leg trembling, feels bloody marvellous to be honest, maybe it's a female thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this a real thing? Miss C.
I've never felt sad after sex xx
Don't think I have, always felt elated and leg trembling, feels bloody marvellous to be honest, maybe it's a female thing?"
Well im female lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this a real thing? Miss C.
I've never felt sad after sex xx
Don't think I have, always felt elated and leg trembling, feels bloody marvellous to be honest, maybe it's a female thing?
Well im female lol x"
True but let's say maybe it's something only females can or sometimes feel, just to confirm the point lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this a real thing? Miss C.
I've never felt sad after sex xx
Don't think I have, always felt elated and leg trembling, feels bloody marvellous to be honest, maybe it's a female thing?
Well im female lol x
True but let's say maybe it's something only females can or sometimes feel, just to confirm the point lol"
I've met a man and he gets this, as soon as he's cum a big depression comes over him. He doesn't talk and has actually left me in a hotel alone and not come back because of how he feels. He called it 'sexual malaise' |
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Cheered me up a bit. Miss C. 
