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Be honest. It is a verification that the other user is genuine, that they exist and they are who and what they say they are.
If you cannot honestly verify the above points, don't leave a verification. |
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"Be honest. It is a verification that the other user is genuine, that they exist and they are who and what they say they are.
If you cannot honestly verify the above points, don't leave a verification."
This: that's all it's for:
"1.Yes this person exists: I have met him/ her/ them and;
2. They are the sex they said they are on the profile ( or the couple they said they were)
3. Bonus information; They bear at least a passing resemblance to the description/( or photos if there are any)"
That's all that is required. Anything else is just uneccesary bullshit. |
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over a year ago
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I like it when a veri contains a typo that has been missed by both the writer and the recipient. Saw one the other day that said something like 'I wouldn't jump at the chance to meet them again' |
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"Be honest. It is a verification that the other user is genuine, that they exist and they are who and what they say they are.
If you cannot honestly verify the above points, don't leave a verification.
This: that's all it's for:
"1.Yes this person exists: I have met him/ her/ them and;
2. They are the sex they said they are on the profile ( or the couple they said they were)
3. Bonus information; They bear at least a passing resemblance to the description/( or photos if there are any)"
That's all that is required. Anything else is just uneccesary bullshit."
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I'd agree and add something chiefly about their personality rather than about sexual antics and prowess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing worse than reading about how a person (male or female) managed to suck you dry.. or has such a wet pussy etc.
It spoils everything, try saying nice things about them.  |
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"Be honest. It is a verification that the other user is genuine, that they exist and they are who and what they say they are.
If you cannot honestly verify the above points, don't leave a verification.
This: that's all it's for:
"1.Yes this person exists: I have met him/ her/ them and;
2. They are the sex they said they are on the profile ( or the couple they said they were)
3. Bonus information; They bear at least a passing resemblance to the description/( or photos if there are any)"
That's all that is required. Anything else is just uneccesary bullshit."
In your opinion ....
Verifications are not just a validation as you describe for some of us .
They can be a reminder of a wonderful meet .
And indeed , anything a verifier wants to write about their experience .
To suggest they are unnecessary bullshit is a somewhat bullish attitude , and an arrogant , unnecessary take on what some of us like .
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There is no possibility of converting a pure subjective experience into an objective fact to be passed on to other people! (who by definition are all different)-- philosophical tautology springs to mind perhaps?
and is correctly described as bullshit, i agree.
In my opinion it pure ego-boosting vanity consistent with the lowest form of hollywood celebrity shit of the anglo-american mass monoculture variety -- sadly so often prevelant on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me it's more of a proof the person exists and an official message "thanks for last night, it was fun". We don't like detailed verys or the ones that sounds like a review of a rental car "good engine and easy manouvered.." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how does one write a decent vari thats not too crass or cliqueish?
what are peoples tips?"
Don't put best oral I've had in years. Other half doesn't like that. |
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"There is no possibility of converting a pure subjective experience into an objective fact to be passed on to other people! (who by definition are all different)-- philosophical tautology springs to mind perhaps?
and is correctly described as bullshit, i agree.
In my opinion it pure ego-boosting vanity consistent with the lowest form of hollywood celebrity shit of the anglo-american mass monoculture variety -- sadly so often prevelant on here! "
But apart from that, you love em. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In your opinion ....
Verifications are not just a validation as you describe for some of us .
They can be a reminder of a wonderful meet .
And indeed , anything a verifier wants to write about their experience .
To suggest they are unnecessary bullshit is a somewhat bullish attitude , and an arrogant , unnecessary take on what some of us like .
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This
"I love it when I get a new verification and I have to admit I enjoy giving them too xx "
And this
We enjoy giving and receiving them. We do enjoy going back through the few that we have and reminding ourselves of the fun we have had. |
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"There is no possibility of converting a pure subjective experience into an objective fact to be passed on to other people! (who by definition are all different)-- philosophical tautology springs to mind perhaps?
and is correctly described as bullshit, i agree.
In my opinion it pure ego-boosting vanity consistent with the lowest form of hollywood celebrity shit of the anglo-american mass monoculture variety -- sadly so often prevelant on here! "
The phrase "pretentious pseudo-intellectual attention-seeking twaddle" springs to mind...
What the hell does "the Anglo-american mass monoculture" even mean? ....Nothing!
If you ever wrote a verification it'd never get displayed if it contained such horseshit... |
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"There is no possibility of converting a pure subjective experience into an objective fact to be passed on to other people! (who by definition are all different)-- philosophical tautology springs to mind perhaps?
and is correctly described as bullshit, i agree.
In my opinion it pure ego-boosting vanity consistent with the lowest form of hollywood celebrity shit of the anglo-american mass monoculture variety -- sadly so often prevelant on here! "
Huh?
The person is real, they turned up, they seemed nice. Look like facts to me  |
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"There is no possibility of converting a pure subjective experience into an objective fact to be passed on to other people! (who by definition are all different)-- philosophical tautology springs to mind perhaps?
and is correctly described as bullshit, i agree.
In my opinion it pure ego-boosting vanity consistent with the lowest form of hollywood celebrity shit of the anglo-american mass monoculture variety -- sadly so often prevelant on here! "
Perhaps you should remove your verification if you feel so strongly about it? |
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"There is no possibility of converting a pure subjective experience into an objective fact to be passed on to other people! (who by definition are all different)-- philosophical tautology springs to mind perhaps?
and is correctly described as bullshit, i agree.
In my opinion it pure ego-boosting vanity consistent with the lowest form of hollywood celebrity shit of the anglo-american mass monoculture variety -- sadly so often prevelant on here!
Perhaps you should remove your verification if you feel so strongly about it? "
Good suggestion.
The veri carries a strong hint of Anglo-american mass monoculture.....
Sheeeeesh! |
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"Be honest. It is a verification that the other user is genuine, that they exist and they are who and what they say they are.
If you cannot honestly verify the above points, don't leave a verification.
This: that's all it's for:
"1.Yes this person exists: I have met him/ her/ them and;
2. They are the sex they said they are on the profile ( or the couple they said they were)
3. Bonus information; They bear at least a passing resemblance to the description/( or photos if there are any)"
That's all that is required. Anything else is just uneccesary bullshit.
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I'd agree and add something chiefly about their personality rather than about sexual antics and prowess"
Exactly'. I avoid profiles where they have left cringe worthy veris. Some things should be kept private.  |
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"Be honest. It is a verification that the other user is genuine, that they exist and they are who and what they say they are.
If you cannot honestly verify the above points, don't leave a verification.
This: that's all it's for:
"1.Yes this person exists: I have met him/ her/ them and;
2. They are the sex they said they are on the profile ( or the couple they said they were)
3. Bonus information; They bear at least a passing resemblance to the description/( or photos if there are any)"
That's all that is required. Anything else is just uneccesary bullshit.
(thumb
I'd agree and add something chiefly about their personality rather than about sexual antics and prowess
Exactly'. I avoid profiles where they have left cringe worthy veris. Some things should be kept private. "
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"I like it when a veri contains a typo that has been missed by both the writer and the recipient. Saw one the other day that said something like 'I wouldn't jump at the chance to meet them again'"
Yeah, read it and re read it before you send it. Someone verified us and said they met "Simon and Saggy"
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"I like it when a veri contains a typo that has been missed by both the writer and the recipient. Saw one the other day that said something like 'I wouldn't jump at the chance to meet them again'
Yeah, read it and re read it before you send it. Someone verified us and said they met "Simon and Saggy"
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"There is no possibility of converting a pure subjective experience into an objective fact to be passed on to other people! (who by definition are all different)-- philosophical tautology springs to mind perhaps?
and is correctly described as bullshit, i agree.
In my opinion it pure ego-boosting vanity consistent with the lowest form of hollywood celebrity shit of the anglo-american mass monoculture variety -- sadly so often prevelant on here! "
Know your audience!  |
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"There is no possibility of converting a pure subjective experience into an objective fact to be passed on to other people! (who by definition are all different)-- philosophical tautology springs to mind perhaps?
and is correctly described as bullshit, i agree.
In my opinion it pure ego-boosting vanity consistent with the lowest form of hollywood celebrity shit of the anglo-american mass monoculture variety -- sadly so often prevelant on here!
The phrase "pretentious pseudo-intellectual attention-seeking twaddle" springs to mind...
What the hell does "the Anglo-american mass monoculture" even mean? ....Nothing!
If you ever wrote a verification it'd never get displayed if it contained such horseshit..."
I'd have to agree with you.  |
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"I like it when a veri contains a typo that has been missed by both the writer and the recipient. Saw one the other day that said something like 'I wouldn't jump at the chance to meet them again'
Yeah, read it and re read it before you send it. Someone verified us and said they met "Simon and Saggy"
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Sorry, but  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In your opinion ....
Verifications are not just a validation as you describe for some of us .
They can be a reminder of a wonderful meet .
And indeed , anything a verifier wants to write about their experience .
To suggest they are unnecessary bullshit is a somewhat bullish attitude , and an arrogant , unnecessary take on what some of us like .
This
I love it when I get a new verification and I have to admit I enjoy giving them too xx
And this
We enjoy giving and receiving them. We do enjoy going back through the few that we have and reminding ourselves of the fun we have had. "
One of the main things I find with veris is that it allows you to build a better picture of the person, especially when used in conjunction with their profile abd any forum posts.
Yes a veri is subjective, but if you have several saying similar complimentary things (assuming the writer is telling the truth) then it may help you to make a more informed decision as to wether to meet that person. For example if a lady had several veris saying she had left bite or scratch marks I would avoid that person as its a hard limit for me... |
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"In your opinion ....
Verifications are not just a validation as you describe for some of us .
They can be a reminder of a wonderful meet .
And indeed , anything a verifier wants to write about their experience .
To suggest they are unnecessary bullshit is a somewhat bullish attitude , and an arrogant , unnecessary take on what some of us like .
This
I love it when I get a new verification and I have to admit I enjoy giving them too xx
And this
We enjoy giving and receiving them. We do enjoy going back through the few that we have and reminding ourselves of the fun we have had.
One of the main things I find with veris is that it allows you to build a better picture of the person, especially when used in conjunction with their profile abd any forum posts.
Yes a veri is subjective, but if you have several saying similar complimentary things (assuming the writer is telling the truth) then it may help you to make a more informed decision as to wether to meet that person. For example if a lady had several veris saying she had left bite or scratch marks I would avoid that person as its a hard limit for me..."
You make a very fair point.
Verifications can corroborate views and opinions about an individual made in other veris and build up a clearer picture of the person, and quite without the need to include graphic or salacious description. |
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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago
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"There is no possibility of converting a pure subjective experience into an objective fact to be passed on to other people! (who by definition are all different)-- philosophical tautology springs to mind perhaps?
and is correctly described as bullshit, i agree.
In my opinion it pure ego-boosting vanity consistent with the lowest form of hollywood celebrity shit of the anglo-american mass monoculture variety -- sadly so often prevelant on here! "
or skand-noir eutalitarian hipsterism. lol just joking
i take it you are not a fan of tge vari? |
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"There is no possibility of converting a pure subjective experience into an objective fact to be passed on to other people! (who by definition are all different)-- philosophical tautology springs to mind perhaps?
and is correctly described as bullshit, i agree.
In my opinion it pure ego-boosting vanity consistent with the lowest form of hollywood celebrity shit of the anglo-american mass monoculture variety -- sadly so often prevelant on here!
or skand-noir eutalitarian hipsterism. lol just joking
i take it you are not a fan of tge vari? "
Oh no..its not that at all.
I just see these multi-syllable declarations as pseudo-intellectual willie-waving.
That's all. |
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over a year ago
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When we were here previously ......and much more active with play friends, we would always come home and write our veri to them straight away. That way the smiles were still on our faces. The memories were still clear. And our words of a great time meant every word.
But I must admit, the other day I came across a recent veri and it was soooo detailed. And I mean detailed. Nothing left to the imagination. I did feel it was a little much.
Another profile we have seen tends to copy and paste every veri they leave everyone they meet. Not personal at all.
But everyone has their own style.
There is no right or wrong. Providing you have actually met and not just doing a veri for the sake of it.
Mrs xx |
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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"There is no possibility of converting a pure subjective experience into an objective fact to be passed on to other people! (who by definition are all different)-- philosophical tautology springs to mind perhaps?
and is correctly described as bullshit, i agree.
In my opinion it pure ego-boosting vanity consistent with the lowest form of hollywood celebrity shit of the anglo-american mass monoculture variety -- sadly so often prevelant on here!
or skand-noir eutalitarian hipsterism. lol just joking
i take it you are not a fan of tge vari?
Oh no..its not that at all.
I just see these multi-syllable declarations as pseudo-intellectual willie-waving.
That's all."
fair enough i see. |
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