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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I've been thinking.... Although I wouldn't dream of unsafe sex with others in a club..... Would it be frowned upon if I played with my partner bareback (he also plays safe with others)....
Would it put you off?? What do you guys do??
Advice only please, no lynching!!
Ta xx |
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"So I've been thinking.... Although I wouldn't dream of unsafe sex with others in a club..... Would it be frowned upon if I played with my partner bareback (he also plays safe with others)....
Would it put you off?? What do you guys do??
Advice only please, no lynching!!
Ta xx"
It has always worked for us, never noticed anyone having any issues with it. Just do what you want to do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I've been thinking.... Although I wouldn't dream of unsafe sex with others in a club..... Would it be frowned upon if I played with my partner bareback (he also plays safe with others)....
Would it put you off?? What do you guys do??
Advice only please, no lynching!!
Ta xx"
I for one think it's an outrage for anyone to have bareback sex, with anyone, ever. It's compete russian roulette.
Even if you wanted to get pregnant with your partner, people on the forums believe you can get pregnant by anal so there's still no excuse.
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Don't be silly, hardly anyone uses condoms with their partner - it's fine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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me and him never use condoms with each other - but do with others - and ive never even given it a thought as to what people at a club might think - we do what we want to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"me and him never use condoms with each other - but do with others - and ive never even given it a thought as to what people at a club might think - we do what we want to do "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I personally wouldn't play bareback with a partner in a club, but everyone enjoys different things.
But you would in private? Then why not in a club?"
1. I don't personally like the feeling of come dribbling out of me.
2. I think it's marginally unhygienic to go in pools or sit in social areas - even with a towel under me - with come dripping down my leg.
3. In my experience if someone sees me bareback with a partner, it makes them more likely to hassle me for bareback or even try and decieve me into having bareback with them (slipping the condom off before entry, etc).
4. I think it would be great for clubs to more heavily promote safe sex. All play in clubs, IMO should default to 'safe'. If people want to negotiate non-safe sex play then that should be an additional conversation. At the moment I personally find that quite a few people assume that unsafe sex is ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I personally wouldn't play bareback with a partner in a club, but everyone enjoys different things.
But you would in private? Then why not in a club?
1. I don't personally like the feeling of come dribbling out of me.
2. I think it's marginally unhygienic to go in pools or sit in social areas - even with a towel under me - with come dripping down my leg.
3. In my experience if someone sees me bareback with a partner, it makes them more likely to hassle me for bareback or even try and decieve me into having bareback with them (slipping the condom off before entry, etc).
4. I think it would be great for clubs to more heavily promote safe sex. All play in clubs, IMO should default to 'safe'. If people want to negotiate non-safe sex play then that should be an additional conversation. At the moment I personally find that quite a few people assume that unsafe sex is ok."
Oh and...
5. I don't think it's ok to have bareback sex with my partner and then have protected sex with someone else. There's too much risk of my partners come transferring to the other person and that just seems rude. |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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" I personally wouldn't play bareback with a partner in a club, but everyone enjoys different things.
But you would in private? Then why not in a club?
1. I don't personally like the feeling of come dribbling out of me.
2. I think it's marginally unhygienic to go in pools or sit in social areas - even with a towel under me - with come dripping down my leg.
3. In my experience if someone sees me bareback with a partner, it makes them more likely to hassle me for bareback or even try and decieve me into having bareback with them (slipping the condom off before entry, etc).
4. I think it would be great for clubs to more heavily promote safe sex. All play in clubs, IMO should default to 'safe'. If people want to negotiate non-safe sex play then that should be an additional conversation. At the moment I personally find that quite a few people assume that unsafe sex is ok.
Oh and...
5. I don't think it's ok to have bareback sex with my partner and then have protected sex with someone else. There's too much risk of my partners come transferring to the other person and that just seems rude."
2. Do you not shower after sex or before you go into the wet area, or put knickers on when sitting on the communal sofas? Not just for cum leakage but you're own sex juice 
3. I have never seen anyone push for unprotected sex after seeing a couple have unprotected sex.
4. The clubs I've attended in the northwest do promote safe sex but I think suggesting that couples/partners/people in some form of relationship need to have safe sex is inappropriate.
5. I've had threesomes where I've not used a condom with a boyfriend but he has used a condom with the female joining us. No one has objected and everyone has been happy with the level of protection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't use condoms with Marc, whether at home or a club. Do what you feel comfortable with.
I wash up after sex, so the cum isn't an issue. If it was he could just finish in my mouth 
And I've never had anyone try to have unprotected sex with me in a club, whether Marc and I played bareback or not.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" No one has objected and everyone has been happy with the level of protection. "
This the crux of everything. I would not be happy doing the things I listed (and yes I shower - but no I don't douche inside my vagina).
I would not be happy doing those things, therefore I would not do them. If other people are happy doing them, then they should go ahead and do them - within the rules of the club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I personally wouldn't play bareback with a partner in a club, but everyone enjoys different things.
But you would in private? Then why not in a club?
1. I don't personally like the feeling of come dribbling out of me.
2. I think it's marginally unhygienic to go in pools or sit in social areas - even with a towel under me - with come dripping down my leg.
3. In my experience if someone sees me bareback with a partner, it makes them more likely to hassle me for bareback or even try and decieve me into having bareback with them (slipping the condom off before entry, etc).
4. I think it would be great for clubs to more heavily promote safe sex. All play in clubs, IMO should default to 'safe'. If people want to negotiate non-safe sex play then that should be an additional conversation. At the moment I personally find that quite a few people assume that unsafe sex is ok.
Oh and...
5. I don't think it's ok to have bareback sex with my partner and then have protected sex with someone else. There's too much risk of my partners come transferring to the other person and that just seems rude.
2. Do you not shower after sex or before you go into the wet area, or put knickers on when sitting on the communal sofas? Not just for cum leakage but you're own sex juice
3. I have never seen anyone push for unprotected sex after seeing a couple have unprotected sex.
4. The clubs I've attended in the northwest do promote safe sex but I think suggesting that couples/partners/people in some form of relationship need to have safe sex is inappropriate.
5. I've had threesomes where I've not used a condom with a boyfriend but he has used a condom with the female joining us. No one has objected and everyone has been happy with the level of protection. "
 I doubt anyone would expect partners to do safe sex with each other. And can't say I've ever seen it either.
Personally I do love the feeling of cum inside me but would wash up if we were playing with others. To be fair normally we leave finishing each other off till just before we leave.
I have never had a club push for couples to play safe together x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"me and him never use condoms with each other - but do with others - and ive never even given it a thought as to what people at a club might think - we do what we want to do
Same for us."
And same here |
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"So I've been thinking.... Although I wouldn't dream of unsafe sex with others in a club..... Would it be frowned upon if I played with my partner bareback (he also plays safe with others)....
Would it put you off?? What do you guys do??
Advice only please, no lynching!!
Ta xx"
It wouldn't bother me if I knew he was your long term partner but I wouldn't know so wouldn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I've been thinking.... Although I wouldn't dream of unsafe sex with others in a club..... Would it be frowned upon if I played with my partner bareback (he also plays safe with others)....
Would it put you off?? What do you guys do??
Advice only please, no lynching!!
Ta xx
I for one think it's an outrage for anyone to have bareback sex, with anyone, ever. It's compete russian roulette.
Even if you wanted to get pregnant with your partner, people on the forums believe you can get pregnant by anal so there's still no excuse.
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Don't be silly, hardly anyone uses condoms with their partner - it's fine! "
That is right and that is the difference when its a couple, it is usually ok barebacking lol. |
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If you were in a public room I would say use a condom even if with your partner.
Even although unpretected sex is fine between you both not everyone there will know your together and it could put some people off you.
Xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you were in a public room I would say use a condom even if with your partner.
Even although unpretected sex is fine between you both not everyone there will know your together and it could put some people off you.
Xxxxxx"
we only really play public and would it never seems to have put people off us... To be honest in all the years of playing in couples rooms we have rarely seen any couples using condoms.
I have been lucky enough to be under a lady just as her partner came all in her and as he pulled out it spilled all over me ... Was amazing experience x
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Musing here but it may well be possible to get pregnant from anal if an errant spermie ouzed out and slid home...
We have played bare many times at Chams with each other and no one has commented and there is no reason they should.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the only thought I've had about this was I didn't want to cum inside her just in case we played with someone else. Washing or not someone else's jizz does nothing for me. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"me and him never use condoms with each other - but do with others - and ive never even given it a thought as to what people at a club might think - we do what we want to do "
Here here same as us, its down to what we want and are happy with so just go for it and enjoy
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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago
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As a club . . .
We promote safe-sex at all times.
However it really is for individuals and couples to make informed decisions about how they do things with each other and with others.
As a couple we never use condoms with each other but would not dream for a moment not to do so with others.
It has surprised us over the years just how many people there are who are still prepared to take a risk . . . 
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Something worth remembering . . .
'You might be dying for a fuck, but is it really worth dying for a fuck?' 
Hygiene wise we moved away from vinyl tops on beds - they just cannot be cleaned as thoroughly as machine washable (and instantly changeable) cotton tops beneath those we have washable waterproof mattress covers - also instantly changeable. Vinyl covers are convenient but NOT nearly as hygienic.
As swingers we wouldn't expect a club to provide everything so we take our own wipes and condoms and anything else that might be needed for a FUN but SAFE night out. Keep all that stuff in a bag and keep plain old common sense in your head.
Cat X
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love having sex with my OH in clubs
Sometimes we lock ourselves in a room alone, sometimes we allow a single in with us.
If just us, bareback. If anyone else involved, any penetration is safe only. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never actually thought about this but hubby and I don't always use condoms with each other in a club! Obviously for us we always do it like that with each other but I never thought about what others may think!!
We are always protected when playing with others though!! |
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Interesting topic and question, I initially thought benign, until I thought about it. Unless if you are not going to play with others afterwards, I do not see any problem with it. However, if you are, then for the sake of others, please glove up. I wouldn't want to play with a woman who is filled to the brim with another bloke's cum...I know they are men who have this kink, but this where the topic becomes messy. Swinging is not easy if you think too hard about it, hang on, I am not a swinger...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have played bare with my wife in clubs when we started but no longer do so any more.
Firstly because we had a guy not realise we were together in a group situation and thought she was happy to play bare with him too.
Secondly, she doesn't want to be dribbling cum from her vagina ages after. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I've played with and without a condom with my partner in clubs. We've never discussed it but seem to have an unwritten rule between us where if we're playing with others (even if he's only fucking me) or may do later then we use condoms. If we're just enjoying each other then we don't. Just seems sensible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I've been thinking.... Although I wouldn't dream of unsafe sex with others in a club..... Would it be frowned upon if I played with my partner bareback (he also plays safe with others)....
Would it put you off?? What do you guys do??
Advice only please, no lynching!!
Ta xx"
Of course not, lots of couple do that - many couples play group & use protection with other then go bareback with own partners....X |
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We've never used condoms together. We use condoms with new people but bareback with good friends and have done that in clubs as well as in our homes. We often see people barebacking in clubs but that's their business. Why should what others do be any concern of ours? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I've been thinking.... Although I wouldn't dream of unsafe sex with others in a club..... Would it be frowned upon if I played with my partner bareback (he also plays safe with others)....
Would it put you off?? What do you guys do??
Advice only please, no lynching!!
Ta xx"
I can imagine a lot of guys wouldnt want to slop about in your partners cum
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"So I've been thinking.... Although I wouldn't dream of unsafe sex with others in a club..... Would it be frowned upon if I played with my partner bareback (he also plays safe with others)....
Would it put you off?? What do you guys do??
Advice only please, no lynching!!
Ta xx
I can imagine a lot of guys wouldnt want to slop about in your partners cum
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You do make a fair point. For us Melv usually only cums at the end of the evening so it isn't an issue
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"So I've been thinking.... Although I wouldn't dream of unsafe sex with others in a club..... Would it be frowned upon if I played with my partner bareback (he also plays safe with others)....
Would it put you off?? What do you guys do??
Advice only please, no lynching!!
Ta xx
I can imagine a lot of guys wouldnt want to slop about in your partners cum
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Yep, put me in that group. I don't like following anyone, hence my dislike of gangbangs or any other group activity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I've been thinking.... Although I wouldn't dream of unsafe sex with others in a club..... Would it be frowned upon if I played with my partner bareback (he also plays safe with others)....
Would it put you off?? What do you guys do??
Advice only please, no lynching!!
Ta xx
I can imagine a lot of guys wouldnt want to slop about in your partners cum
Yep, put me in that group. I don't like following anyone, hence my dislike of gangbangs or any other group activity."
Welcome to fab SWINGERS |
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"So I've been thinking.... Although I wouldn't dream of unsafe sex with others in a club..... Would it be frowned upon if I played with my partner bareback (he also plays safe with others)....
Would it put you off?? What do you guys do??
Advice only please, no lynching!!
Ta xx
I can imagine a lot of guys wouldnt want to slop about in your partners cum
Yep, put me in that group. I don't like following anyone, hence my dislike of gangbangs or any other group activity.
Welcome to fab SWINGERS "
I have consistently confirmed I am not a swinger but I am confident that those that consider they are don't all indulge in gangbangs, bukkake etc. |
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"If you were in a public room I would say use a condom even if with your partner.
Even although unpretected sex is fine between you both not everyone there will know your together and it could put some people off you.
Xxxxxx"
That's why you talk to people lol. |
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"... Would it be frowned upon if I played with my partner bareback (he also plays safe with others)...."
It's known as "partner privilege", isn't it?
Everyone else has a good time and clears-off. Whereas the partner deals with it 24/7. You respect the partner.
In swinging meets the announcement is often made along the lines of "condoms every time - except Adam and Eve who are partners".
Not heard of a swinging venue which didn't have "partner privilege".
Cheerful stuff - when I {male} follow-up finishing off the play and make some huge effort, the "players" are usually there gathered around saying things like "yeah, go for it mate" and "give it to her - she needs it from you", and patting you on the back saying "that was brilliant mate" when you {male} have just sprayed your load off into female.
Comment about spunk/fluid - I've often commented as someone is about to condom-up "Are you sure you want to do that? I've just spunked-up in there" and they've said something like "Yeah that's fine with me".
Definitely though you should avoid indiscriminately mixing and spreading fluids. Eg. if you wank a woman, you should wash hands before putting your fingers in the next woman. etc. |
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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago
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"So I've been thinking.... Although I wouldn't dream of unsafe sex with others in a club..... Would it be frowned upon if I played with my partner bareback (he also plays safe with others)....
Would it put you off?? What do you guys do??
Advice only please, no lynching!!
Ta xx"
it all depend how far you go with you partner, I for one would not like to preform oral with a fanny full of another guys cum. The other point that someone else touched on is is cum floating around the hot tub, very nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is entirely my choice who I have sex with and indeed who I bareback with. Obviously I bareback with my wife in clubs but if we chose to bareback with others it is only an issue for those actually involved.
If a bystander was silly enough to voice any disapproval he/she would get told where to stick it.
In reality we have seen people bareback in clubs and if anyone feels that it is poor form they have never been silly enough to voice their opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would it be frowned upon if I played with my partner"
What, you mean actually have sex with the person you arrived with? Seen some kinky stuff on this website, but that is extremely!
Honest answer, nobody will mind, but if L is hoping for oral with another woman (always) after, we use a condom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3. In my experience if someone sees me bareback with a partner, it makes them more likely to hassle me for bareback or even try and decieve me into having bareback with them (slipping the condom off before entry, etc)."
If anyone tries to ever force someone into bareback by slipping off the condom before penetration they should be kicked the hell out of that club and banned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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3. In my experience if someone sees me bareback with a partner, it makes them more likely to hassle me for bareback or even try and decieve me into having bareback with them (slipping the condom off before entry, etc).
If anyone tries to ever force someone into bareback by slipping off the condom before penetration they should be kicked the hell out of that club and banned. "
Agreed. And by kicked I do mean "kicked"!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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3. In my experience if someone sees me bareback with a partner, it makes them more likely to hassle me for bareback or even try and decieve me into having bareback with them (slipping the condom off before entry, etc).
If anyone tries to ever force someone into bareback by slipping off the condom before penetration they should be kicked the hell out of that club and banned.
Agreed. And by kicked I do mean "kicked"!!"
Would you liked them to be kicked anywhere specific? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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3. In my experience if someone sees me bareback with a partner, it makes them more likely to hassle me for bareback or even try and decieve me into having bareback with them (slipping the condom off before entry, etc).
If anyone tries to ever force someone into bareback by slipping off the condom before penetration they should be kicked the hell out of that club and banned. "
. Do what I did... Grabbed him by his balls and dragged him down to the staff where they then threw him out.
I do not think people seeing you have bare sex with your partner will assume bare is ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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3. In my experience if someone sees me bareback with a partner, it makes them more likely to hassle me for bareback or even try and decieve me into having bareback with them (slipping the condom off before entry, etc).
If anyone tries to ever force someone into bareback by slipping off the condom before penetration they should be kicked the hell out of that club and banned.
Agreed. And by kicked I do mean "kicked"!!
Would you liked them to be kicked anywhere specific? "
Mmm. I have one idea for that kind of behaviour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We couldn't care less what people think.
we have had unprotected before.people don't like it fuck off somewhere else."
Bareback with others that is also. Same opinion applies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We couldn't care less what people think.
we have had unprotected before.people don't like it fuck off somewhere else.
Bareback with others that is also. Same opinion applies. "
So have we. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We couldn't care less what people think.
we have had unprotected before.people don't like it fuck off somewhere else.
Bareback with others that is also. Same opinion applies.
So have we. "
It's all up to the person.
if people are so risk averse to sti's. Don't swing.
It contradicts their trust in condoms.
if they use them to protect themselves they should trust that they work as a barrier.if they don't trust them .don't swing.
Every single person on here would have had unprotected sex . Only some are bold enough to admit it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3. In my experience if someone sees me bareback with a partner, it makes them more likely to hassle me for bareback or even try and decieve me into having bareback with them (slipping the condom off before entry, etc).
If anyone tries to ever force someone into bareback by slipping off the condom before penetration they should be kicked the hell out of that club and banned.
Agreed. And by kicked I do mean "kicked"!!
Would you liked them to be kicked anywhere specific?
Mmm. I have one idea for that kind of behaviour. "
The correct amount of extreme I hope. We want him to learn from the ass kicking experience not die from it lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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3. In my experience if someone sees me bareback with a partner, it makes them more likely to hassle me for bareback or even try and decieve me into having bareback with them (slipping the condom off before entry, etc).
If anyone tries to ever force someone into bareback by slipping off the condom before penetration they should be kicked the hell out of that club and banned. . Do what I did... Grabbed him by his balls and dragged him down to the staff where they then threw him out.
I do not think people seeing you have bare sex with your partner will assume bare is ok. "
Lool seems appropriate... Wouldn't want to get on your bad side.
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I personally wouldn't play bareback with a partner in a club, but everyone enjoys different things.
But you would in private? Then why not in a club?
1. I don't personally like the feeling of come dribbling out of me.
2. I think it's marginally unhygienic to go in pools or sit in social areas - even with a towel under me - with come dripping down my leg.
3. In my experience if someone sees me bareback with a partner, it makes them more likely to hassle me for bareback or even try and decieve me into having bareback with them (slipping the condom off before entry, etc).
4. I think it would be great for clubs to more heavily promote safe sex. All play in clubs, IMO should default to 'safe'. If people want to negotiate non-safe sex play then that should be an additional conversation. At the moment I personally find that quite a few people assume that unsafe sex is ok."
Sex with my wife is safe.
If anyone tried the underhand method of fucking nikki by deciept. I would without doubt let him chat with my fist. He would never report it to the police so might give him a full on conversation with both hands. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I personally wouldn't play bareback with a partner in a club, but everyone enjoys different things.
But you would in private? Then why not in a club?
1. I don't personally like the feeling of come dribbling out of me.
2. I think it's marginally unhygienic to go in pools or sit in social areas - even with a towel under me - with come dripping down my leg.
3. In my experience if someone sees me bareback with a partner, it makes them more likely to hassle me for bareback or even try and decieve me into having bareback with them (slipping the condom off before entry, etc).
4. I think it would be great for clubs to more heavily promote safe sex. All play in clubs, IMO should default to 'safe'. If people want to negotiate non-safe sex play then that should be an additional conversation. At the moment I personally find that quite a few people assume that unsafe sex is ok.
Sex with my wife is safe.
If anyone tried the underhand method of fucking nikki by deciept. I would without doubt let him chat with my fist. He would never report it to the police so might give him a full on conversation with both hands."
What you could do is if he tried to enter her without permission, you enter him without permission haha |
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" I personally wouldn't play bareback with a partner in a club, but everyone enjoys different things.
But you would in private? Then why not in a club?
1. I don't personally like the feeling of come dribbling out of me.
2. I think it's marginally unhygienic to go in pools or sit in social areas - even with a towel under me - with come dripping down my leg.
3. In my experience if someone sees me bareback with a partner, it makes them more likely to hassle me for bareback or even try and decieve me into having bareback with them (slipping the condom off before entry, etc).
4. I think it would be great for clubs to more heavily promote safe sex. All play in clubs, IMO should default to 'safe'. If people want to negotiate non-safe sex play then that should be an additional conversation. At the moment I personally find that quite a few people assume that unsafe sex is ok.
Sex with my wife is safe.
If anyone tried the underhand method of fucking nikki by deciept. I would without doubt let him chat with my fist. He would never report it to the police so might give him a full on conversation with both hands."
Violence is such a desirable trait in a friend or partner... |
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