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What to do once restrained?
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over a year ago
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So I've got a meet lined up this evening and she's told me she wants to be restrained with this under bed restraints.
Never really had much experience with them and therefore looking to the fab community for suggestions on what to do to her once restrained?
I assume lots of gentle caressing, perhaps some ice play, but anything I'm missing?
Thank you |
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"you should really have an in-depth talk as to what she wants to happen and have a safe word so you know to stop what ever you are doing "
Yes I agree with this, get ideas from us but talk to her first.
Have you got a fur glove, some textured items (we have a kind of rubber ball with spikes), leather with studs etc for contrasting textures? Vibrators a wand that you can use? Have a chat with her about those things.
Hope you both enjoy. |
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"So I've got a meet lined up this evening and she's told me she wants to be restrained with this under bed restraints.
Never really had much experience with them and therefore looking to the fab community for suggestions on what to do to her once restrained?
I assume lots of gentle caressing, perhaps some ice play, but anything I'm missing?
Thank you"
Your 39yrs old
Use your imagination |
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Your 39yrs old
Use your imagination "
Not sure what the point of that post was.
To everyone else, thanks for the suggestions, it's not a first meet and someone I've known for a while and played with a number of times.
All good and helpful stuff, much appreciated. |
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"Stuff her knickers in her mouth
She can't use the safe word then  "
She could choke on them though so if she stops moving do be sure to check for a pulse first |
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Your 39yrs old
Use your imagination
Not sure what the point of that post was.
To everyone else, thanks for the suggestions, it's not a first meet and someone I've known for a while and played with a number of times.
All good and helpful stuff, much appreciated. "
You're welcome. I'm sure she'll love my suggestion  |
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"you should really have an in-depth talk as to what she wants to happen and have a safe word so you know to stop what ever you are doing
Yes I agree with this, get ideas from us but talk to her first.
Have you got a fur glove, some textured items (we have a kind of rubber ball with spikes), leather with studs etc for contrasting textures? Vibrators a wand that you can use? Have a chat with her about those things.
Hope you both enjoy."
i agree with all the above but both enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Your 39yrs old
Use your imagination
Not sure what the point of that post was.
To everyone else, thanks for the suggestions, it's not a first meet and someone I've known for a while and played with a number of times.
All good and helpful stuff, much appreciated. "
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"So I've got a meet lined up this evening and she's told me she wants to be restrained with this under bed restraints.
Never really had much experience with them and therefore looking to the fab community for suggestions on what to do to her once restrained?
I assume lots of gentle caressing, perhaps some ice play, but anything I'm missing?
Thank you"
Tie her to the bed. Blindfold her. Put earphones in her ears and music on to cut out that sense too.
Then use items of different textures to tease her with. Occasional use of the crop or paddle to spice things up a bit.
If you think she is up for it sometime - invite a third person to join in - that'll blow her mind... |
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