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No show at hotel. What do you do?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I had a no show at a hotel meet. Obviously I'm very unhappy about it but it's not life ending. Even so what do you do next?

I like Fab but I just don't like it when I make the effect to arrange something and get nothing in reply.

It just leaves me disappoint.

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By *andy57TV/TS over a year ago

york

You are lucky before Christmas I had 7 no shows in on night i thought out of the 7 one guy would turn up if all 7 had well happy days

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a no show as I sat waiting in a hotel once. All that effort to look good wasn't going to waste so I posted a meet now. Changed my status to say I was ready and waiting and had a replacement within the hour

God it's great being a girl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have put up to see if anyone was interested in joining us as some idiot had let us dwn x

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

Flagrante

I would have gone to the bar, talked to people and enjoyed myself....and who knows??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I benefitted from this once as I was a last minute replacement. I always talk on the phone before meeting to verify there is a woman there and haven't been stood up yet. Good communication is the key. If a couple are real I am sure they would want to talk to me on the phone too. Better luck next time.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I turn on my 'who's near' and select replacement.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a no show as I sat waiting in a hotel once. All that effort to look good wasn't going to waste so I posted a meet now. Changed my status to say I was ready and waiting and had a replacement within the hour

God it's great being a girl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

God it's great being a girl

Like she said it's great being a girl!

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By *histler21Man over a year ago

Ipswich

"I had a no show at a hotel meet. Obviously I'm very unhappy about it but it's not life ending. Even so what do you do next?

I like Fab but I just don't like it when I make the effect to arrange something and get nothing in reply.

It just leaves me disappoint. "

I went to bed early...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hey my friend you will have many ,I have had a few just move on next one will be great

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I turn on my 'who's near' and select replacement.

My point exactly

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By *piritsonfabCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"I turn on my 'who's near' and select replacement.

My point exactly

See now that's useful advice. .m I didn't know that function existed. .. thank you I'm sure it will be useful at some point; )

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That is why I don't do hotel meets, no money wasted or time lol.

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By *van ArdenMan over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

What's a hotel meet lol ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

God it's great being a girl

I tried that myself but I think I posted to late. It was ashame because I had a really sweet room. I think I'm going to sick to club meets from now on until have more of a confirmation from people that are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I would have gone to the bar, talked to people and enjoyed myself....and who knows??

I did that I meet someone new. She great very down to earth and we hit it off. Meeting next week hopefully

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I benefitted from this once as I was a last minute replacement. I always talk on the phone before meeting to verify there is a woman there and haven't been stood up yet. Good communication is the key. If a couple are real I am sure they would want to talk to me on the phone too. Better luck next time. "

I think that was the red flag wasn't online for ages and didn't read my messages a few days before. I'm never doing that again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I turn on my 'who's near' and select replacement.

My point exactly

See now that's useful advice. .m I didn't know that function existed. .. thank you I'm sure it will be useful at some point; )"

I third that I'm going to "see who's near" next time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would never book and pay for a room unless I 100% trusted who I was meeting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I turn on my 'who's near' and select replacement.

Is it really that easy for single men?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I turn on my 'who's near' and select replacement.

Is it really that easy for single men?

Yea was gonna suggest turn on who's near but I think it would be slightly different for a woman looking than a man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I turn on my 'who's near' and select replacement.

Is it really that easy for single men?

I suspect not. It works like a dream for me though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op pay bill and go home

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By *manda63Woman over a year ago

Southampton

God it's great being a girl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a no show at a hotel meet. Obviously I'm very unhappy about it but it's not life ending. Even so what do you do next?

I like Fab but I just don't like it when I make the effect to arrange something and get nothing in reply.

It just leaves me disappoint. "

Get use to being let down. There is loads of time wasters on here. But don't let that put you off arranging to meet again because there loads of genuine people.

This is why we like to have meets at home we never get to excited until the door bell goes xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a no show at a hotel meet. Obviously I'm very unhappy about it but it's not life ending. Even so what do you do next?

I like Fab but I just don't like it when I make the effect to arrange something and get nothing in reply.

It just leaves me disappoint. "

Well the room is there, so if it was me I would have gone to non swinger land, visited a pub or club

And gone all old skool!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not good etiquette, I'd be annoyed too

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By *errygTV/TS over a year ago

denton

probably better to wait in hotel if they show up then book a room,a few yrs ago near me i arranged to meet a lady at a coffee bar in town, i smelt a rat as the place was in a shopping center in the middle i noted a lot of tables had one man sat at them, didnt look right, stood a distance didnt see a female, so i did my shopping, she must have arranged to meet 20 men, how many had booked a hotel and travelled

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By *rnortholtMan over a year ago

Waveney Valley

We've all had this happen before now....as a single fella sometimes you can find a late sub, sometimes not.

Just got to roll with it I'm afraid!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Only now the person who had missed the meet has just blocked me kind of looks very petty.

I'm sure if they is a system to report repeat offenders?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a no show at a hotel meet. Obviously I'm very unhappy about it but it's not life ending. Even so what do you do next?

I like Fab but I just don't like it when I make the effect to arrange something and get nothing in reply.

It just leaves me disappoint. "

never foot the bill lad

be a modern man and get to her to stump up first

will ease the pain for the next time

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By *ery curious maleMan over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

I was once a substitute as a lady j had met a few times was let down.

To be able to go on a last minute meet like that is so horny

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By *manda63Woman over a year ago

Southampton

"I had a no show at a hotel meet. Obviously I'm very unhappy about it but it's not life ending. Even so what do you do next?

I like Fab but I just don't like it when I make the effect to arrange something and get nothing in reply.

It just leaves me disappoint.

never foot the bill lad

be a modern man and get to her to stump up first

will ease the pain for the next time "

Grey and I have had hotel meets together and ive paid once and I had to insist and then he gave me half, even though I said no. He refuses to let me pay, so I buy him presents and/or bring cakes.

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