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Why do separated men on fab become lepers?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been on fab for years and am now unfortunately separated. Why does that change anything? I've always enjoyed the friendship and socialising - sex was a bonus. Now however I'm ostracised because I'm no longer a couple. Why? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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Because a lot of couples are looking for couples and not single men, and the couples and women who are looking for single men, have a lot to choose from.
Are you sure you've made the effort to 'market' yourself as effectively as possible?
You're not a leper, but fewer people are looking to meet men in your situation, so competition is higher than it was when you were part of a couple. |
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You've probably been around long enough to notice that with all the single guys here outnumbering everyone else it's hard to be noticed, sadly.
A good move though to keep your old profile with the verifications! Ones without seem to get ignored a bit (bit of a catch 22...)
Stick some pictures up maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would remove the bit about how you are now 'sadly' just a single guy. That screams 'emotional baggage' to me.
Add in a bit at the end explaining that this used to be a couples profile hence the verifications, but now you have gone your separate ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Evidently you were a mere inconvenience mate as are 99% of the male half of couple profiles. If the wife doesn't want to have sex with other people then you're gonna struggle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of couples are looking to play with other couples. That makes sense. There is a different dynamic. If couples are looking for a single guy, there is some tough competition out there.
This inevitably happens. A couple splits up and the guy continues as a single guy? Things get harder. A single woman finds a fuck buddy or partner and starts a couple's profile? She complains that she isn't getting the same amount of interest. Why oh why?!
I really thought this stuff would be obvious. I'm not trying to be mean, but try to see the realistic side to things. When you met as a couple, would you rather meet a single guy or a couple? A couple or a single woman? It's not always the case, but numbers don't lie.
-Courtney |
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If you're good at sex, have a fascinating personality, can write witty and engaging messages, have an awesome profile and are generally tiptop cool in all ways, then as a single guy, you'll do well.
The room for losers has a large door and is very big. Don't go in there. |
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"I've been on fab for years and am now unfortunately separated. Why does that change anything? I've always enjoyed the friendship and socialising - sex was a bonus. Now however I'm ostracised because I'm no longer a couple. Why?"
Well it's all because you're now a single guy, though you've yet to clear that up in your profile |
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