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hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take ur time, let her control the speed, and lots and lots of lube.
start of with fingers n toys first, building up over time to ur cock. It's only going to happen if she's completely relaxed, and when it does eventually happen, take it easy, let her adjust to you being inside her, patience is key, it will be worth it.
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"Take ur time, let her control the speed, and lots and lots of lube.
start of with fingers n toys first, building up over time to ur cock. It's only going to happen if she's completely relaxed, and when it does eventually happen, take it easy, let her adjust to you being inside her, patience is key, it will be worth it.
good luck "
This, as well as her pushing against you, as though she is trying to poop. Sounds odd, but it definitely helps, lots of lube. |
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By *ookleMan
over a year ago
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Definitely patience. Incorporating finger and toy play into your sex without the expectations of anal will help familiarise her with the sensation
Many women find it easier after they've had an orgasm
There's no rushing it but it's worth the wait |
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Use plenty of lube and when i say plent i mean plenty and then some. Also use a butt plug on her which will help because they come in all different sizes. Let her ease and mount you at her pace. xxx |
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please"
If "relax and relax more" isn't enough have you tried shouting "take it bitch" ?  |
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please
If "relax and relax more" isn't enough have you tried shouting "take it bitch" ? "
OMG Hahahha! |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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Let your wife take the lead..... she needs to be in the right frame of mind, and let her ease herself onto you, in her time.... Never rush it, and get into a comfortable position.....lube, fingers and butt plugs are a good starting point though. Xxxxxx |
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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please"
Here's the way that was shown to me by an ex porn 'starlet' 30 years ago and it's worked very well for me (and whoever the lady happens to be... ) since:-
Like everyone has said - get relaxed in whatever way works for you.
Lube - DON'T use ones with numbing agents like Benzocaine. If things are going wrong, you won't know until it's too late. I use Ann Summers Booty Relax, but others are available and just as vaild.
Position - start with the guy laying on the floor NOT the bed! He needs to remain still and not 'bounce' on a mattress. The woman needs to be squatting over him in reverse cow girl so she can control the position, making sure she can hold on to something like the edge of a dressing table etc.
'Procedure'... !! - the woman squats in rev cow girl as above. Positions herself so the tip of the guys cock is touching her bum hole then... and here comes the bit that sounds weird... as she lowers herself onto his shaft PUSH LIKE SHE'S HAVING A DUMP... this opens the sphincter slightly and allows the head of the guys cock to pop inside...
Once there, you can take your time - at the speed the woman wants to take things - and see what works for you (different positions etc).
After hearing the blow-by-blow account of the operation the female half of a couple me and my ex missus knew had to have after attempting anal sex with both of them on the bed doing it doggie (torn large colon!!!!!!) PLEASE don't try it that way first......
Hope that helps...
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please
Here's the way that was shown to me by an ex porn 'starlet' 30 years ago and it's worked very well for me (and whoever the lady happens to be... ) since:-
Like everyone has said - get relaxed in whatever way works for you.
Lube - DON'T use ones with numbing agents like Benzocaine. If things are going wrong, you won't know until it's too late. I use Ann Summers Booty Relax, but others are available and just as vaild.
Position - start with the guy laying on the floor NOT the bed! He needs to remain still and not 'bounce' on a mattress. The woman needs to be squatting over him in reverse cow girl so she can control the position, making sure she can hold on to something like the edge of a dressing table etc.
'Procedure'... !! - the woman squats in rev cow girl as above. Positions herself so the tip of the guys cock is touching her bum hole then... and here comes the bit that sounds weird... as she lowers herself onto his shaft PUSH LIKE SHE'S HAVING A DUMP... this opens the sphincter slightly and allows the head of the guys cock to pop inside...
Once there, you can take your time - at the speed the woman wants to take things - and see what works for you (different positions etc).
After hearing the blow-by-blow account of the operation the female half of a couple me and my ex missus knew had to have after attempting anal sex with both of them on the bed doing it doggie (torn large colon!!!!!!) PLEASE don't try it that way first......
Hope that helps...
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please
If "relax and relax more" isn't enough have you tried shouting "take it bitch" ?
OMG Hahahha!"
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I think she has to realise it's pleasurable first...else she'll never relax lol.
So she could use her own toys on herself whilst in the bath etc, then while playing with herself.
I found spooning the easiest way to begin with. I would never have had the control over my legs to do reverse cowgirl at that point.
Then as others say, lube and VERY SLOW.
I love the idea of the guy taking it first so he really knows what slow and lube mean!!
Something I'd personally recommend would be to douche first, sometimes the fear of unexpected pooping makes ladies reticent
Hope all that helps.
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over a year ago
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What's worked for me was laying her on her belly but put pillows under her body so her ass is automatically sticking up but not clenched as she's not supporting her weight (word of caution, don't tell her that using those words as anytime you use the W word with a woman, you risk sliding down a slippery slope  )
And as others have said - slow! |
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"Let your wife take the lead..... she needs to be in the right frame of mind, and let her ease herself onto you, in her time.... Never rush it, and get into a comfortable position.....lube, fingers and butt plugs are a good starting point though. Xxxxxx"
Try to use positive words as well.
Telling her to relax will probably inadvertently put pressure on her.
Try telling her what you see and how sexy it looks and talking in the present such as how incredible it looks as you see her open up and it slips in bit by bit.
You know her better than anyone on here so speak to her in way that relaxes her and encourages her.
No matter how much lube you use it does not prepare her mentally which is the most important part. |
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please"
Give Lube, Super Thick Anal Lube 200ml.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking as a hardcore anal lover... spit on it and fuck hard!!! Get the first few smashes out of the way and then she will love it!!! To much lube makes it feel to loose! |
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"Speaking as a hardcore anal lover... spit on it and fuck hard!!! Get the first few smashes out of the way and then she will love it!!! To much lube makes it feel to loose!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh no! Someone with no sense of humour I never have nor never would contact has blocked me....what ever will I do?
How will I go on?
My life is meaningless from this point on..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lube lube lube. Gently gently
Try fingers first. Your lady will hopefully relax the more comfortable she is. If she enjoys it you might get there.
It won't happen overnight. Believe me.
Enjoy the journey
Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im still new to this but have got the guy to make me cum with his tongue so i feel more relaxed and breathe deep and slow. Use lube and go slow and let her tell you when to enter her and when to stop. Experiment together with toys and fingers . After the initial weird sensation/ pain you get used to it and its very pleasurable. |
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"Oh no! Someone with no sense of humour I never have nor never would contact has blocked me....what ever will I do?
How will I go on?
My life is meaningless from this point on....."
its ok we not blocked you lol we laughed but then we see funny side of most of fab lol   |
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"Oh no! Someone with no sense of humour I never have nor never would contact has blocked me....what ever will I do?
How will I go on?
My life is meaningless from this point on....."
take the piss all you want good luck
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please"
My mrs says it all about being relaxed n in the mood n the right lube, i learnt i had to take my time n perceiver n she loves it now, good luck |
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please
Here's the way that was shown to me by an ex porn 'starlet' 30 years ago and it's worked very well for me (and whoever the lady happens to be... ) since:-
Like everyone has said - get relaxed in whatever way works for you.
Lube - DON'T use ones with numbing agents like Benzocaine. If things are going wrong, you won't know until it's too late. I use Ann Summers Booty Relax, but others are available and just as vaild.
Position - start with the guy laying on the floor NOT the bed! He needs to remain still and not 'bounce' on a mattress. The woman needs to be squatting over him in reverse cow girl so she can control the position, making sure she can hold on to something like the edge of a dressing table etc.
'Procedure'... !! - the woman squats in rev cow girl as above. Positions herself so the tip of the guys cock is touching her bum hole then... and here comes the bit that sounds weird... as she lowers herself onto his shaft PUSH LIKE SHE'S HAVING A DUMP... this opens the sphincter slightly and allows the head of the guys cock to pop inside...
Once there, you can take your time - at the speed the woman wants to take things - and see what works for you (different positions etc).
After hearing the blow-by-blow account of the operation the female half of a couple me and my ex missus knew had to have after attempting anal sex with both of them on the bed doing it doggie (torn large colon!!!!!!) PLEASE don't try it that way first......
Hope that helps...
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ty this helps me I'll think I'll try it with the wife later |
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When I started having anal sex I was introduced to it by an experienced guy who fingered me and gave me prostrate massage until I came so I knew then how enjoyable anal pleasure could be. I then graduated onto beads and butt plugs. The first time he took me properly he knelt down sitting back on his thighs and I knelt down in front of him with my back to him and I lowered my self onto him he had his hands on my hips to control me and I positioned my rosebud on the tip of his cock. The rest is history |
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Hmm problem is she ain,t got a prostate?
Talk lovingly to her, use a good lube, start with a finger then if poss two then possibly a thin but plug all of which will hopefully give her confidence and let her realise that actually her anus is a treasure of nerve endings actually more than in her vagina and so proceed gently lovingly and with care and if she can bring herself to push out gently it will greatly assist you both and she should try to have a bowel movement in the hour preceding. Good luck we love it.
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please"
Lurpak is the best for anal. Its the best butter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah...just use your arse like a hammer and bang it in dry 
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Sorry, I forgot....
And shout "take it bitch""
I should think so too. Fed up with having to remind people of its importance |
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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please
If "relax and relax more" isn't enough have you tried shouting "take it bitch" ? "
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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I have found that taking her from behind with her head buried in the pillow (hides the screams) then go in hard and dry. Any lube stops the friction and any sensation that goes with it.
Obviously this might not work for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We tried years ago on the spur if the moment! No lube, never even used a finger up there before  it was not good!!
But I wanted to try again so I got anal beads and a butt plug and used them during play for a few months and obviously with lots of lube! Then just went for it and omg!!! It was completely pain free and amazing!
So if she wants to try again def use fingers and toys etc. First and never try without lube x |
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I have found that taking her from behind with her head buried in the pillow (hides the screams) then go in hard and dry. Any lube stops the friction and any sensation that goes with it.
Obviously this might not work for everyone "
If anyone tries fucking me wihout lube the only sensation they will feel is that of their own cock in their mouth! |
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I went lube free for the first time last night. That'll teach me to bring a little can of hairspray into the room with two horny guys!
It ok. We managed with spit. |
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please
Lurpak is the best for anal. Its the best butter."
I take it you used "spreadable"
Salted or plain ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the advice above...lube, but plugs of gradually increasing size etc....take it slowly but the one thing I have found for most ladies whom I've shared anal sex with...slap on the arse before you try to move or push forward (gently). The sting takes their mind off it a bit but the slap also causes a slight relaxation of the sphincter muscles. |
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please"
Let her use a strap on on you, show you how it's done.
Then you can try enter her arse |
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How will I go on?
My life is meaningless from this point on....."
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please
Let her use a strap on on you, show you how it's done.
Then you can try enter her arse "
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please"
I personally like anal but I have to be in the right frame of mind for it. It's quite a mental thing I think, like vaginal sex, if your wife is abit nervous....done for!
I'd suggest not suggesting it at all and letting your wife suggest it.
When she suggests it...don't tell her to relax. Reassure her. Pull away and say there is no rush!?!
Let her mind set the pace. That should help. So give her the lube and give her time... |
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By *nt1Man
over a year ago
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Lay her on her back with her knees in the air just like vagina sex. Lube your cock and rest your helmet on her bum hole. Then gently pulsate in and out almost like your trying not to push it in. You can do this for ages as it feels good for both in its self. Eventually she'll allow you to pop your helmet in. Still don't push. Just gently pulsate as you were doing before but this time just inside. Eventually you can work your way in.
It's almost like the switch to relax her butt is on the inside. Once you hit it you're away.......
and lube
I've broken lots of women in this way. Even some that said they hated it because their last partners were rough.
I always say not to give up straight away. If you give yourself a target of not giving up until she has done it 10 times I guarantee that by number 6 she'll love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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delicious rimming her with your tongue prepares her and using finger then fingers helps and then fuck her dogey position helps in slow entry until totally inside.
relax before slowly increasing your speed of fucking sex.
This way I have enjoyed with both gals and guys. |
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The OP said they both fancy it and wanted advice.
My ex was very gentle with me n took his time, plenty of lube and did various positions.
We found that spooning was good n i put my hand round his dick to control how much went in. I enjoyed the sensation and was different.
I had had others try it before but didnt work out, think his banana shaped dick helped and thus doubt I would try it again when i get a new partner.
I inturn did use a strap on him. Did the same slowly slowly and loads of lube.
So yeah anal can happen for both men and women |
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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago
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"The OP said they both fancy it and wanted advice.
My ex was very gentle with me n took his time, plenty of lube and did various positions.
We found that spooning was good n i put my hand round his dick to control how much went in. I enjoyed the sensation and was different.
I had had others try it before but didnt work out, think his banana shaped dick helped and thus doubt I would try it again when i get a new partner.
I inturn did use a strap on him. Did the same slowly slowly and loads of lube.
So yeah anal can happen for both men and women "
Im an anal loving myself I tend to apply lots of lube onto my cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please"
The first time we tried. I stood still and J pushed on to me.
We had to try several times until I fully inserted and then slow thrust.
I prefer to have sex slow feeling every part of her but now when we have anal she likes it deep and hard. |
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please"
It's difficult to see how it's not working. Especially as you've told her to relax. Maybe she just needs a good demo.
Take a large dildo , cucumber, milk bottle...... lube it up. Finger your own arse a while. Lube that up. Demonstrate how to relax....... then shove something up there slowly and when it's in deep, piston it back and forth for a good long while ....
Do that a good few times.
I always believe that showing is better than telling. |
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please
It's difficult to see how it's not working. Especially as you've told her to relax. Maybe she just needs a good demo.
Take a large dildo , cucumber, milk bottle...... lube it up. Finger your own arse a while. Lube that up. Demonstrate how to relax....... then shove something up there slowly and when it's in deep, piston it back and forth for a good long while ....
Do that a good few times.
I always believe that showing is better than telling. "
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"When I started having anal sex I was introduced to it by an experienced guy who fingered me and gave me prostrate massage until I came so I knew then how enjoyable anal pleasure could be. I then graduated onto beads and butt plugs. The first time he took me properly he knelt down sitting back on his thighs and I knelt down in front of him with my back to him and I lowered my self onto him he had his hands on my hips to control me and I positioned my rosebud on the tip of his cock. The rest is history "
What's a rosebud ?
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By *andy KTV/TS
over a year ago
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Never force it get yourself some butt plugs medium and large from love honey ..you can even try the inflatable butt plug ..plenty of lube too .. If you are wanting instructions for impromptu anal, then flush with pure water enemas until your lower colon is clean.
Rinse, repeat. Rinse, repeat. Rinse, repeat. etc...
If you know, in advance, that you are going to attempt this with your boyfriend, then you can prep by restricting your diet 12-18 hours in advance. Eat lightly, and don't eat fibrous leafy materials.
And just enjoy and take it slow ...trust me it's worth it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please"
cant give any advic as im not really that into it , my ex loved it and even though it was an extremely tight fit i dont get the same amount of sexual satisfaction than i do from pussy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex..lots of.. Then rimming, lube, fingers (or a butt plug)
She may find it easier if she is on top initially as she can control the pace "
Really???? Think I might have missed out!!. And I Thought it was doggy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"noo a rosebud is a butt plug with jewel on end"
Wont be able to watch citizen Kane in the same light again, explains why he was so keen on keeping it now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Having recently had my anal cherry popped..For me I found it most comfortable in a spooning position. Rather than telling me to relax the guy turned me on by telling me how hot it was, I was a good girl, I was taking it well..I'm a kinky little bitch I know. And he did have the right size which helped!! |
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"Having recently had my anal cherry popped..For me I found it most comfortable in a spooning position. Rather than telling me to relax the guy turned me on by telling me how hot it was, I was a good girl, I was taking it well..I'm a kinky little bitch I know. And he did have the right size which helped!!"
Hot as fuck!
With the right guy, I can't get enough anal sex |
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"I keep thinking about trying this but too shy and don't know how to bring the subject up. Also Grey isn't a small guy "
Just get into spooning position and back yourself onto it! Forget any conversation! |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
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"I keep thinking about trying this but too shy and don't know how to bring the subject up. Also Grey isn't a small guy
Just get into spooning position and back yourself onto it! Forget any conversation! "
If he doesn't want it, that would be embarrassing but thank you for the advice |
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"hello
we are a couple wanting to experiment with anal sex. claire has never tired it before but every now and then is interested in trying it. each time I've tried to enter her arse I've not managed to get it in I've told her to relax and relax more but still no joy so have given up.
Any advice please
If "relax and relax more" isn't enough have you trhttps://youtu.be/EZA3pW3ZjQ4ied shouting "take it bitch" ? "
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Hiya hun. Use plenty of lube. Make sure she's relaxed and just let her take her time. Slow n steady best way. Also use fingers and toys to loosen her up
Have lots of fun
After all that's Wat it's all about |
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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago
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"Hiya hun. Use plenty of lube. Make sure she's relaxed and just let her take her time. Slow n steady best way. Also use fingers and toys to loosen her up
Have lots of fun
After all that's Wat it's all about "
Best advise ever xx
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Doggy didnt work, wrong angle of dangle! Me sat on him did.
Best was when ex partner snuggled n spooned n swore at me in Italian (think fish called wanda)!!!
Turn on n laughter best way to relax |
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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago
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"Doggy didnt work, wrong angle of dangle! Me sat on him did.
Best was when ex partner snuggled n spooned n swore at me in Italian (think fish called wanda)!!!
Turn on n laughter best way to relax"
I have always liked it doggy been told I have the perfect cock for anal in the past xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think spooning or doggy is the best for anal how about anyone else ? Xx"
Have done spooning many times but fucking arse in the doggy position is superb controlling depth and speed of fucking with the possibility of spanking.
Will always give pleasure |
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Doggy didnt work, wrong angle of dangle! Me sat on him did.
Best was when ex partner snuggled n spooned n swore at me in Italian (think fish called wanda)!!!
Turn on n laughter best way to relax
I have always liked it doggy been told I have the perfect cock for anal in the past xx"
No. You were told your cock was a load of arse! |
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"Doggy didnt work, wrong angle of dangle! Me sat on him did.
Best was when ex partner snuggled n spooned n swore at me in Italian (think fish called wanda)!!!
Turn on n laughter best way to relax
I have always liked it doggy been told I have the perfect cock for anal in the past xx
No. You were told your cock was a load of arse! "
Perfect for anal usually means 'small'. |
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"Bend her over and tell her to hold her cheeks open so you can see the prize, take 4 steps back, shout brace yourself, run up and ram that bad boy home, job done."
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