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Would you, as a single woman, meet two blokes in a house?
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I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! |
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over a year ago
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! "
Why not just meet one of the guys you've met before and add in a third? I think this is the way I'd go if I was single... |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
It is risky, but no more risky than meeting at a hotel. I suggest you arrange it with at least one of the guys you have met before at a location you are familiar with. Be careful and have fun. |
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over a year ago
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time!
Why not just meet one of the guys you've met before and add in a third? I think this is the way I'd go if I was single..."
I agree with this, is there someone you know already and trust you could meet with and add a 3rd , sounds a bit more secure to me. |
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! "
Why dont you take your partner to meet one man, then your more likely to be safe |
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! " . It may depend on how much information you have on them from their profiles on fab . If they have been members for a while and have detailed profiles , the risk that you are taking is probably minimal.
It might be safer to meet in a hotel as everyone will be recorded on security cameras as they enter the hotel.. |
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! "
But you're part of a couple so surely you just need to a single guy to come meet you and your partner?? |
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! . It may depend on how much information you have on them from their profiles on fab . If they have been members for a while and have detailed profiles , the risk that you are taking is probably minimal.
It might be safer to meet in a hotel as everyone will be recorded on security cameras as they enter the hotel.."
You are aware that anyone can write anything in a profile aren't you ?
No matter how detailed a profile may be , it certainly doesn't make the risk minimal !
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
"Am chatting to two blokes on here. They are mates. They seem fun. Never met either of them "
No. I wouldn't. And I've done some crazy things . I would need to know one of them and I'd probably take someone I know even if they just dropped me off and picked me up. The scenario is hot though. |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! "
When I first started this I did. They were housemates. Now I don't think I would do that again. I'm more cautious. Tend to do club meets and still enjoy mmf threesomes. |
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"We play separate at times. This is a time where I want to meet two guys by myself "
Ok so why don't you just try making it so you at least know one of the guys beforehand? or maybe arrange it with two guys that you have meet before? |
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! . It may depend on how much information you have on them from their profiles on fab . If they have been members for a while and have detailed profiles , the risk that you are taking is probably minimal.
It might be safer to meet in a hotel as everyone will be recorded on security cameras as they enter the hotel..
You are aware that anyone can write anything in a profile aren't you ?
No matter how detailed a profile may be , it certainly doesn't make the risk minimal !
" . Based on the content of the profile there are a number of checks which can be done .In addition common sense and a sixth sense can go a long way. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"No, not if you have never met them before. They could be anybody. We sometimes talk to people here and find out they are not who they say they are. Be careful!
Ever seen Catfish?"
No, is that a film? |
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"No, not if you have never met them before. They could be anybody. We sometimes talk to people here and find out they are not who they say they are. Be careful!
Ever seen Catfish?
No, is that a film?"
I think it was originally a film but there is a series now as well. People contact them when they are suspicious of someone they are speaking to online and they investigate. Nearly all the time it turns out to be someone completely different with their own agenda. Quite scary really |
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! "
Sounds dodgy as, I'd guess most women if not all wouldn't. If it turned nasty, the lady is basically fucked.. In more ways than one. |
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It's a very big risk, after all we are all strangers here ! I wouldn't meet two girls together if I just get invited ? Small social before is always a must ! Go there with one of ur regular meets so there is some trust never ever go in to a house with out talking or meeting in a public place first ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trademark it was more your comment " what's the worst that can happen "!
Twenty years in former work line tells me ' a lot can happen'!
The element of unknown can be a big kick but there's always ways of safeguarding yourself at the same time - advisable ! I've met some lovely folk over time but there's plenty out there missing that magic link or have their own darker agenda unfortunately.
Fun to experiment but keep ya head screwed on since 'Bob from tw@tsville 'could well be 'Fred from the west' Ya never quite know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does this senario come with risk? yes of course it does. Should you do it? only you can answer that. The fact you ask the question shoes that either you know you shouldn't or you get off on knowing you are going to do it and want to share the fact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does this senario come with risk? yes of course it does. Should you do it? only you can answer that. The fact you ask the question shoes that either you know you shouldn't or you get off on knowing you are going to do it and want to share the fact."
Shows not shoes lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! "
Why not just have a quick drink with them in the hotel bar? No need to meet up another time because your room is already there waiting if you decide to proceed from that drink. |
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! "
Definitely not! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just to add to my previous post...
Ask the guy you're taking with to send you a resent pic of himself and his friend. Send face pics to your best friend and let let those guys know that and tell them if your friend doesn't see you in person unharmed the next morning, you'll let the police have those face pics.
If all is still fine,arrange to meet in that hotel bar the same night as the arranged meet. If one or both guys do not look like their pics or you feel uncomfortable, leave!
I've done this before with one guy. I see no reason why it can't work in your situation also. Good luck and keep safe! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I if I was meeting alone wouldn't meet anyone male, female or couple at their house or to be fair at a hotel alone. I get myself into a real state at the prospect and have tried it before. And the angst just isn't worth it.
I would find the idea of meeting two guys I less one was known way to risky x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Could you not meet them for a quick drink beforehand or in a club. Or even for a coffee in a lunch hour. We always do socials first, as I've had two experiences many moons ago that scared me. I'd be more worried with two guys, maybe that's just me.
Sarah |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
I would question why they would want to meet at a house and not a club or hotel. How do you know there won't be more than two guys there, there may be hidden cameras even. So many reasons why you shouldn't be doing this! Even if you met them socially first, there are still no guarantees for your safety. |
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! "
How do you know if you want to have sex unless you first meet for a chat. You cant go direct to sex, surely? |
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Yes I go direct to sex after chatting and exchanging pics..jas worked great the few times I have done it.
Thanks for all the advice. Meeting in a house in private is much more of a turn on and easier to arrange for me but I think I know I need to play safe. .not worth the risk..and meet them in a club.
Thanks all! |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Yes I go direct to sex after chatting and exchanging pics..jas worked great the few times I have done it.
Thanks for all the advice. Meeting in a house in private is much more of a turn on and easier to arrange for me but I think I know I need to play safe. .not worth the risk..and meet them in a club.
Thanks all! "
Very pleased to hear that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I go direct to sex after chatting and exchanging pics..jas worked great the few times I have done it.
Thanks for all the advice. Meeting in a house in private is much more of a turn on and easier to arrange for me but I think I know I need to play safe. .not worth the risk..and meet them in a club.
Thanks all! "
Good to hear. It's not worth the risk x |
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! "
If I'd met one previously yes. If not no. Have they got veris, if so are any from a mmf? I would be more inclined to meet in a club if I'm honest |
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! "
No I wouldn't x |
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time!
How do you know if you want to have sex unless you first meet for a chat. You cant go direct to sex, surely? "
Yes you can |
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time!
How do you know if you want to have sex unless you first meet for a chat. You cant go direct to sex, surely?
Yes you can "
Yes you can! Lol. Soon as the guy walked in , we very clearly really liked the look of each other so that kiss hello, just went wild and next thing I was on my knees then being bent over the bed! Lol. Very obvious hot mutual attraction doesn't happen often but when it does, feels like fireworks for me! Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never have anybody at my house, even guys I have met before, my home is also my kids home and I respect that and never have any intentions of bringing guys off the internet to my family home for a shag
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Put safety before fun. If at all you have any concerns, then dont do it.
Surely if they are decent guys, they will suggest to meet you for a drink first, simply to break the ice and put you at ease.
If you do go ahead without meeting them first, make sure you tell one of your closest friends to call you at a certain time and if you dont answer, then they must come for you.
If its fun vs safety, surely saftey should win each time.
look after yourself x |
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By *ummersun99Woman
over a year ago
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"Put safety before fun. If at all you have any concerns, then dont do it.
Surely if they are decent guys, they will suggest to meet you for a drink first, simply to break the ice and put you at ease.
If you do go ahead without meeting them first, make sure you tell one of your closest friends to call you at a certain time and if you dont answer, then they must come for you.
If its fun vs safety, surely saftey should win each time.
look after yourself x"
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time!
Why not just meet one of the guys you've met before and add in a third? I think this is the way I'd go if I was single..."
I've been wanting a good mmf for ages and this is the way I would go about it. I'd need to know one of them more and then add the other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't meet anyone for the 1st time in their house.
Meeting 2 men, I'd consider it in a club / hotel but I'd have to know one of them beforehand.
It can be hard enough finding 1 man I like let alone 2..!! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
I only meet people in clubs. Very few are ever invited to my home. The very few who are, I've known them literally for years and have met with them countless times before
An MFM is always at clubs with someone I already know and ANO |
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave.
Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! "
As a single MAN, I wouldn't like to meet two random men alone in a house. Not a fucking chance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not unless I had met them both beforehand...total strangers no way, especially if they are friends with each other, who knows what plotting could have been done |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Box clever and think about this. Hotels are safer, so is meeting guys you have met before, plus one other. Have your partner drop you off at the house and wait outside until finished if you don't want to play with him there it invite both to yours if you want to play with them both for certain.
Safety first on every occasion. |
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