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Just been winked.....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By a couple....looking for straight men.
They are localish....but to be fair she just doesn't do it for me. Do I:
(A) wink back
(B) ignore the wink
(C) delete the wink
(D) message to say I saw the wink...but don't want to go further....
Don't need a big discussion. It's just fine to vote A, B, C or D |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"B or c why on earth would you message someone to say you saw a wink.
Anyone would think people didnt get winks if they cause such a dilema.
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FAQs say a wink is to express interest. I've messaged in reply to previous winks from others and arranged meets....but don't want to meet this time (even single guys can say no!). Just wondering what others might do...if I should be polite or just ignore etc. would a couple be offended if I said no as all single guys are desperate aren't we? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"B. They've expressed interest but they're not that interested or they'd have messaged. They tested the waters, you're not interested. No reciprocation or official turn down required."
Think this makes more sense.....cheers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By a couple....looking for straight men.
They are localish....but to be fair she just doesn't do it for me. Do I:
(A) wink back
(B) ignore the wink
(C) delete the wink
(D) message to say I saw the wink...but don't want to go further....
Don't need a big discussion. It's just fine to vote A, B, C or D "
Your a grown man surly u can decide for yourself
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By (user no longer on site)
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"B or c why on earth would you message someone to say you saw a wink.
Anyone would think people didnt get winks if they cause such a dilema.
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I always reply to a wink.
Yeah,yeah.....I know,I don't get hundreds of messages /winks everyday  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"B or c why on earth would you message someone to say you saw a wink.
Anyone would think people didnt get winks if they cause such a dilema.
I always reply to a wink.
Yeah,yeah.....I know,I don't get hundreds of messages /winks everyday "
Test wink sent. Stopwatch started to see how long it takes you to get to mine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"B or c why on earth would you message someone to say you saw a wink.
Anyone would think people didnt get winks if they cause such a dilema.
I always reply to a wink.
Yeah,yeah.....I know,I don't get hundreds of messages /winks everyday
Test wink sent. Stopwatch started to see how long it takes you to get to mine "
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"By a couple....looking for straight men.
They are localish....but to be fair she just doesn't do it for me. Do I:
(A) wink back
(B) ignore the wink
(C) delete the wink
(D) message to say I saw the wink...but don't want to go further....
Don't need a big discussion. It's just fine to vote A, B, C or D "
Someone has to much time on their hands! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"D - Manners cost nothing"
Not sure how many winks you get , but we get over 100 a day , so manners do cost something - a heck of a lot of time !
Totally understand people replying to well written messages if they aren't interested . But a wink ?
Not in a million years ..... |
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"D - Manners cost nothing
Not sure how many winks you get , but we get over 100 a day , so manners do cost something - a heck of a lot of time !
Totally understand people replying to well written messages if they aren't interested . But a wink ?
Not in a million years ....."
 i dont check winks but wouldnt message anyone that did wink, my opinion if they are interested they would message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By a couple....looking for straight men.
They are localish....but to be fair she just doesn't do it for me. Do I:
(A) wink back
(B) ignore the wink
(C) delete the wink
(D) message to say I saw the wink...but don't want to go further....
Don't need a big discussion. It's just fine to vote A, B, C or D "
I presume your dyslexic and meant wank - makes more sence now |
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