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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
You have to remember that the majority of Fabsters are single men. And therefore, the women/couples who are LOOKING for single men can really have their pick. If you want to be the one they pick, you have to use every tool available to you - and that includes having photos on your profile. It doesn't have to be a face-pic, many profiles have attractive pictures of chest, bum, etc.
You may think it is 'shallow' for women/couples to evaluate people on how they look. But if there are 20 new messages in their inbox, the 1 message which has no pictures is an easily deleted one. |
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"You have to remember that the majority of Fabsters are single men. And therefore, the women/couples who are LOOKING for single men can really have their pick. If you want to be the one they pick, you have to use every tool available to you - and that includes having photos on your profile. It doesn't have to be a face-pic, many profiles have attractive pictures of chest, bum, etc.
You may think it is 'shallow' for women/couples to evaluate people on how they look. But if there are 20 new messages in their inbox, the 1 message which has no pictures is an easily deleted one."
Bang on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to remember that the majority of Fabsters are single men. And therefore, the women/couples who are LOOKING for single men can really have their pick. If you want to be the one they pick, you have to use every tool available to you - and that includes having photos on your profile. It doesn't have to be a face-pic, many profiles have attractive pictures of chest, bum, etc.
You may think it is 'shallow' for women/couples to evaluate people on how they look. But if there are 20 new messages in their inbox, the 1 message which has no pictures is an easily deleted one.
Bang on."
double bang on...If they can't be bothered to put a pic on there profile ...then we assume they can't be bothered to put the effort in to meet either...block them everytime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also; of course its shallow, its swinging, not dating!"
To a certain degree there are a lot who are very shallow & first looks are all they go by & delete immediately a message from a silhouetted profile. I personally feel that if someone has taken the time to write a message to me - no matter how small or long the message is- then the least I can do is have the courtesy to reply. I will always ask for a face pic as I do need to feel an attraction of some sort to be able to take it further but I am always honest & up front with anyone. If I have no attraction at all I tell them but that doesn't mean I don't want to chat if they like having someone to talk to. I enjoy the chatting side of Fab as much if not more than meeting people. Once we meet & get on the men no longer need to talk until they fancy a meet up again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Won't entertain a profile that has no pictures there at all unless the blurb was good enough to catch my interest. Never been the case this far though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to remember that the majority of Fabsters are single men. And therefore, the women/couples who are LOOKING for single men can really have their pick. If you want to be the one they pick, you have to use every tool available to you - and that includes having photos on your profile. It doesn't have to be a face-pic, many profiles have attractive pictures of chest, bum, etc.
You may think it is 'shallow' for women/couples to evaluate people on how they look. But if there are 20 new messages in their inbox, the 1 message which has no pictures is an easily deleted one."
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"Is an open pic on your profile the only only way to get people to engage?
It's a sad shallow world if that's the case!!!"
"That car you have for sale, I'll take it... I may not know what make, model, colour it is or what condition it's in I'll buy it!" Said no one ever... same thing... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok a pic especially a face pic would help but sometimes you cant put a face pic up due to work, family etc, I would say that if you state clearly your willing to send one and you do if asked then a profile pic is not the be all and end all. |
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By *azz26Woman
over a year ago
wrexham |
I personally haven't loaded viewable pictures for personal reasons regarding job and family etc. But am more than willing (and do) to send privately once I have viewed a picture of the other person.
If that person declines then I just move onto the next message. Ok it may limit my messages or meets but so be it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a sex site and there are enough people with pics on their profiles that the silhouette brigade wont get a look in with initial searches (personal opinion of course) |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
What's shallow about wanting to know if we're attracted to a person we're evaluating for a potential meet?
This is sex we're talking about. Physical attraction is (usually) necessary. It's certainly preferable! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
PS Yes, I'm shallow. I like hot, fit, toned blokes. I continually seek to punch well above my weight. And I skip right on past silhouettes. They're either trying to hide something or they can't be bothered. |
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"Is an open pic on your profile the only only way to get people to engage?
It's a sad shallow world if that's the case!!!"
Fab is a visual medium therefore it makes sense to have some visuals. For those who can't see too well (and I know of at least two blind fabbers), you also need good words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is an open pic on your profile the only only way to get people to engage?
It's a sad shallow world if that's the case!!!"
We wouldn't be interested in you because we need to have an idea of what someone looks like before getting involved. Shockingly shallow and sad of us, but there it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also; of course its shallow, its swinging, not dating!"
Is a single bloke who's only looking to meet a woman a swinger?
As a single girl when I look for a guy I'll be honest there has to be an attraction.
As a single girl with my fb. When looking to swing it's more about the ability to have fun
Although for me pictures are a plus in both situations |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
If we are'scanning' for playmates, we wouldn't bother looking at a profile with a silhouette. There are loads of attractive single guys, with some sort of public pic and it doesn't have to be a facial pic, why bother messaging for a photo from someone who won't put up a public pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are plenty of ways to show pics without having one as a profile pic !
However thank goodness some people are "shallow" (not my choice of word but it has been used here) cus we really couldn't cope with any more meet requests than we already get ... photoless profile works well here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am totally and utterly as shallow as they come !!! I would be concerned if somebody didn't ask me for a face pic ..because to me desperation springs to mind and they will fuck anything regardless of how they look !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am totally and utterly as shallow as they come !!! I would be concerned if somebody didn't ask me for a face pic ..because to me desperation springs to mind and they will fuck anything regardless of how they look !! "
I am in total agreement with this!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also; of course its shallow, its swinging, not dating!
Is a single bloke who's only looking to meet a woman a swinger?
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no, he will always be a single bloke, unless he has a fwb then he will be a single bloke with a fwb  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
The BF has a pictureless, single paragraph profile. Guess what, I still met him since he engaged me with a doozy of an initial message exchange. As a result I wouldn't say having pics is a prerequisite necessarily but that situation may just have been the single exception to the decent profile/decent pic advice normally given on here. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
There is a search option to only show profiles with public pics, we ONLY search that way. We are not interested in the slightest in contacting people who dont have any pics. They are obviously in a very different place on the swinging spectrum to us, so we are probably not a good match anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh, if there are no pictures on a profile, I'm not interested at all. Saying that, even if there are pictures, how do you know they are real or not 10 years + old?! "
"Joyful busty 36D"...what a wonderful description! We're lucky to have you...and your wonderful profile photos ! |
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"Tbh, if there are no pictures on a profile, I'm not interested at all. Saying that, even if there are pictures, how do you know they are real or not 10 years + old?!
"Joyful busty 36D"...what a wonderful description! We're lucky to have you...and your wonderful profile photos !"
I'm glad you like it!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't have to be visible on profile but I do have to see pics or cam before a meet! It's not a blind dating site it's a swinging site so a physical attraction is important!! I'm not sad or shallow, it's my personal preference X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to remember that the majority of Fabsters are single men. And therefore, the women/couples who are LOOKING for single men can really have their pick. If you want to be the one they pick, you have to use every tool available to you - and that includes having photos on your profile. It doesn't have to be a face-pic, many profiles have attractive pictures of chest, bum, etc.
You may think it is 'shallow' for women/couples to evaluate people on how they look. But if there are 20 new messages in their inbox, the 1 message which has no pictures is an easily deleted one."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't look at profiles without pictures, to be honest how do you know if they are remotely your type without? For us it's the initial, yes we would like to speak to these people, obviously looks are not everything, we then read the profile and make sure they sound like our type of people and they want the same as us, but you do need some idea of if there is an initial attraction or not x
Saying that, like it's been said earlier, you still can't 100% trust people of their profile alone, as we have recently found out, we are new to this so still learning but we are 100% genuine and honest so it can get frustrating sometimes 
R & C x |
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"Is an open pic on your profile the only only way to get people to engage?
It's a sad shallow world if that's the case!!!"
If you feel the world is sad and shallow because people won't engage with someone they can't see on a swinging web site I think you might be over reacting.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is an open pic on your profile the only only way to get people to engage?
It's a sad shallow world if that's the case!!!"
Well given your profile text says nothing about you thetes no "deep" option so shallow looks it is.
But its hardly shallow to want to know what somone looks like if you're going to be shagging them is it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have to remember that the majority of Fabsters are single men. And therefore, the women/couples who are LOOKING for single men can really have their pick. If you want to be the one they pick, you have to use every tool available to you - and that includes having photos on your profile. It doesn't have to be a face-pic, many profiles have attractive pictures of chest, bum, etc.
You may think it is 'shallow' for women/couples to evaluate people on how they look. But if there are 20 new messages in their inbox, the 1 message which has no pictures is an easily deleted one."
Well put. |
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