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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been searching all day for a meet today, and nothing, I've had just a couple people reply with a polite no thanks but that is all. Is there something I'm doing wrong. I'm not rude or pushy in my messages, I tell them about myself and what I think of them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been searching all day for a meet today, and nothing, . . .
Nothing like taking time to develop and nurture contacts and meetings then?   "
No one even replied saying they might be interested |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with ur profile...maybes take the part out that u still live wit mum? ..just put you can't accomodate?!  "
See I had that before then people thought that I had a Mrs because I said I couldn't accommodate /: |
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"I think it's probably quite rare for a single man to get a short notice meet. If you're able it's probably best to try and set up meets in advance  "
no they are not that rare, many short notice meets are about |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's probably quite rare for a single man to get a short notice meet. If you're able it's probably best to try and set up meets in advance no they are not that rare, many short notice meets are about
Good, I stand corrected "
I've managed to get a couple of last minute meets before |
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"I think it's probably quite rare for a single man to get a short notice meet. If you're able it's probably best to try and set up meets in advance no they are not that rare, many short notice meets are about
Good, I stand corrected
I've managed to get a couple of last minute meets before "
that's nice to hear. I assumed obviously wrongly  that it was difficult...my bad |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
"I've been searching all day for a meet today, and nothing, I've had just a couple people reply with a polite no thanks but that is all. Is there something I'm doing wrong. I'm not rude or pushy in my messages, I tell them about myself and what I think of them "
To be honest, the fact that you say you've been "searching all day" sounds like it's the problem.
You've done well to get even a couple of "no thanks".
It sounds like a rather desperate, scattergun approach and probably involves sending loads of messages, many to women you don't really match up that well to.
Fab just doesn't work like that. It's the number one cliche, but it's better to be patient (as Shag always says ). You're a very different guy to me in terms of age etc, but I'd say that whoever the guy is and wherever they are, there's probably not more than one woman in their area they fit the bill for at any one time.
I think the guys who have success are ones who bide their time and wait until they see a profile, or update or a meet request where they really tick all the boxes and just have a good feeling about. That could well be one a month. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
I would never do last minute meets. I need to have chatted with a guy for a while, and to be sure that he really wants to meet ME, not just anyone who would let him empty his balls. But everyone is different, so maybe there is someone who matches the requirements. |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
"I would never do last minute meets. I need to have chatted with a guy for a while, and to be sure that he really wants to meet ME, not just anyone who would let him empty his balls. But everyone is different, so maybe there is someone who matches the requirements."
This exactly, I am guessing that most ladies are the same |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would never do last minute meets. I need to have chatted with a guy for a while, and to be sure that he really wants to meet ME, not just anyone who would let him empty his balls. But everyone is different, so maybe there is someone who matches the requirements."
All to there own, I was just looking to empty my balls but even just for a social |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I think it's probably quite rare for a single man to get a short notice meet. If you're able it's probably best to try and set up meets in advance no they are not that rare, many short notice meets are about"
When you want them though, or at the time that suits the couple/woman?
This guy wants a short notice meet, with no getting to know anyone first, on the day that suits him (not that there's anything wrong with that). How frequent are those?
Or is it more about waiting for the couple/woman to want a short notice meet and hoping to be available? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I would never do last minute meets. I need to have chatted with a guy for a while, and to be sure that he really wants to meet ME, not just anyone who would let him empty his balls. But everyone is different, so maybe there is someone who matches the requirements.
All to there own, I was just looking to empty my balls but even just for a social "
Aaaan that attitude will be one of the reasons you're struggling.
You're just looking for any old cum receptacle that happens to be available.
Way to make a woman feel attractive!
Are you actually listening to yourself?
Have you ever heard a woman say, "I am looking for a meet. Anyone will do. I'm just desperate to get filled up with cum."?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would never do last minute meets. I need to have chatted with a guy for a while, and to be sure that he really wants to meet ME, not just anyone who would let him empty his balls. But everyone is different, so maybe there is someone who matches the requirements.
All to there own, I was just looking to empty my balls but even just for a social
Aaaan that attitude will be one of the reasons you're struggling.
You're just looking for any old cum receptacle that happens to be available.
Way to make a woman feel attractive!
Are you actually listening to yourself?
Have you ever heard a woman say, "I am looking for a meet. Anyone will do. I'm just desperate to get filled up with cum."?
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Ah crap that was honestly supposed to say "I wasn't just looking to empty my balls" |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I would never do last minute meets. I need to have chatted with a guy for a while, and to be sure that he really wants to meet ME, not just anyone who would let him empty his balls. But everyone is different, so maybe there is someone who matches the requirements.
All to there own, I was just looking to empty my balls but even just for a social
Aaaan that attitude will be one of the reasons you're struggling.
You're just looking for any old cum receptacle that happens to be available.
Way to make a woman feel attractive!
Are you actually listening to yourself?
Have you ever heard a woman say, "I am looking for a meet. Anyone will do. I'm just desperate to get filled up with cum."?
Ah crap that was honestly supposed to say "I wasn't just looking to empty my balls" "
Oops  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would never do last minute meets. I need to have chatted with a guy for a while, and to be sure that he really wants to meet ME, not just anyone who would let him empty his balls. But everyone is different, so maybe there is someone who matches the requirements.
All to there own, I was just looking to empty my balls but even just for a social
Aaaan that attitude will be one of the reasons you're struggling.
You're just looking for any old cum receptacle that happens to be available.
Way to make a woman feel attractive!
Are you actually listening to yourself?
Have you ever heard a woman say, "I am looking for a meet. Anyone will do. I'm just desperate to get filled up with cum."?
Ah crap that was honestly supposed to say "I wasn't just looking to empty my balls"
Oops "
Yeah I look like a right dick now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been searching all day for a meet today, and nothing, I've had just a couple people reply with a polite no thanks but that is all. Is there something I'm doing wrong. I'm not rude or pushy in my messages, I tell them about myself and what I think of them "
.trying to get a meet on the day |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I would never do last minute meets. I need to have chatted with a guy for a while, and to be sure that he really wants to meet ME, not just anyone who would let him empty his balls. But everyone is different, so maybe there is someone who matches the requirements.
All to there own, I was just looking to empty my balls but even just for a social
Aaaan that attitude will be one of the reasons you're struggling.
You're just looking for any old cum receptacle that happens to be available.
Way to make a woman feel attractive!
Are you actually listening to yourself?
Have you ever heard a woman say, "I am looking for a meet. Anyone will do. I'm just desperate to get filled up with cum."?
Ah crap that was honestly supposed to say "I wasn't just looking to empty my balls"
Oops
Yeah I look like a right dick now "
You did until you confirmed what you meant.
Shit happens.
Go read what Hottie did today in the Fuuuck thread in the Lounge. That should make you feel better! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would never do last minute meets. I need to have chatted with a guy for a while, and to be sure that he really wants to meet ME, not just anyone who would let him empty his balls. But everyone is different, so maybe there is someone who matches the requirements.
All to there own, I was just looking to empty my balls but even just for a social
Aaaan that attitude will be one of the reasons you're struggling.
You're just looking for any old cum receptacle that happens to be available.
Way to make a woman feel attractive!
Are you actually listening to yourself?
Have you ever heard a woman say, "I am looking for a meet. Anyone will do. I'm just desperate to get filled up with cum."?
Ah crap that was honestly supposed to say "I wasn't just looking to empty my balls"
Oops
Yeah I look like a right dick now
You did until you confirmed what you meant.
Shit happens.
Go read what Hottie did today in the Fuuuck thread in the Lounge. That should make you feel better!"
Ah thanks yeah I haven't done anything like that |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I would never do last minute meets. I need to have chatted with a guy for a while, and to be sure that he really wants to meet ME, not just anyone who would let him empty his balls. But everyone is different, so maybe there is someone who matches the requirements.
All to there own, I was just looking to empty my balls but even just for a social
Aaaan that attitude will be one of the reasons you're struggling.
You're just looking for any old cum receptacle that happens to be available.
Way to make a woman feel attractive!
Are you actually listening to yourself?
Have you ever heard a woman say, "I am looking for a meet. Anyone will do. I'm just desperate to get filled up with cum."?
Ah crap that was honestly supposed to say "I wasn't just looking to empty my balls"
Oops
Yeah I look like a right dick now
You did until you confirmed what you meant.
Shit happens.
Go read what Hottie did today in the Fuuuck thread in the Lounge. That should make you feel better!
Ah thanks yeah I haven't done anything like that "
Her ex really is a particularly fuckwit-ish fuckwit too.
See? Could be worse! |
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