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Ive been with my partner for nearly 11 years but no matter how hard we try I can't give him anul. I love trying and makes me cum in seconds.
We've tried small to larger plugs, lots of lube, relaxing, dildos everything.
He gets half way and then I just can't get it in any further.
Please help me. Any advise would be great. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Ive been with my partner for nearly 11 years but no matter how hard we try I can't give him anul. I love trying and makes me cum in seconds.
We've tried small to larger plugs, lots of lube, relaxing, dildos everything.
He gets half way and then I just can't get it in any further.
Please help me. Any advise would be great. "
You need patience!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive been with my partner for nearly 11 years but no matter how hard we try I can't give him anul. I love trying and makes me cum in seconds.
We've tried small to larger plugs, lots of lube, relaxing, dildos everything.
He gets half way and then I just can't get it in any further.
Please help me. Any advise would be great.
You need patience! "
No you need plenty of lube..and to be relaxed about it all....above all you need to be spotlessly clean  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poppers!"
I wouldn't recommend these if you haven't had them before. He'd be better off having a couple of glasses of wine or a beer to relax his muscles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He needs to push against the plug or whatever, like he is trying to poop. sounds odd, but it definitely helps."
Not sure if it's him trying to get into her?....OP??? |
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"He needs to push against the plug or whatever, like he is trying to poop. sounds odd, but it definitely helps.
Not sure if it's him trying to get into her?....OP???"
Same principle though right? Although my bf insists its more natural for a woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He needs to push against the plug or whatever, like he is trying to poop. sounds odd, but it definitely helps.
Not sure if it's him trying to get into her?....OP???"
Yep, I misread the OP, but whomever is receiving has to push like they are trying to poop.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ohh I read it wrong too 
Get him to lick your hole and finger it with lube. Practice gripping his fingers and relaxing. Couple of glasses of wine will relax you too. |
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Sorry for the typing error and thanks to those that felt the need to private message me to correct it 
I'm the girl of the couple and have tried all of the above. It's so frustrating. I love j using his fingers and when he's half in. But would love it all the way. |
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"It's because it's designed for pooing out of. Like i cant hear very well with my mouth.."
Over the years I have listened to quite a number of people who appear to be able to poo out of their mouth... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's because it's designed for pooing out of. Like i cant hear very well with my mouth..
Over the years I have listened to quite a number of people who appear to be able to poo out of their mouth..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am the same. Tried for years and can't get right in. The pain his horrendous and even if I take the pain it just won't go in. I want it so bad, I feel relaxed and horny, I'll have toys up and be licked and lubed but more than half way and it won't go any further |
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"I am the same. Tried for years and can't get right in. The pain his horrendous and even if I take the pain it just won't go in. I want it so bad, I feel relaxed and horny, I'll have toys up and be licked and lubed but more than half way and it won't go any further "
It's so frustrating isn't it!! I've tried all of these suggestions but nothing |
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I couldn't do it with my ex. Always tried doggy and it was too painful.
My bf now did it in the missionary position rather than doggy the first time and it was easy. He's bigger than my ex. Now I can take it however and as long as I'm warmed up it doesn't hurt anymore. |
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"I am the same. Tried for years and can't get right in. The pain his horrendous and even if I take the pain it just won't go in. I want it so bad, I feel relaxed and horny, I'll have toys up and be licked and lubed but more than half way and it won't go any further
It's so frustrating isn't it!! I've tried all of these suggestions but nothing "
I usually end up crying like a total girl, which turns him on to force it up and still won't go in but does hurt him too |
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"Maybe your colon is short and the pain is your partner's cock trying to push through the second sphincter muscle into your large intestine?
I can get a skinnier long dildo all the way in??"
Maybe it passes through the second sphincter muscle ok? |
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"He's really good and really patient. Knows how far he can go. But I just wish I could let him in for pleasure for him.
Missionary??? Tbh if never tried that position. Will give it a go tonight"
I love it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I appriciate the genuine people that have actually tried to help.
But my god why am I getting abbusive inbox messages! I thought this forum was for support and advise??"
Report and block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's not a straight passage it has bends and kinks.
Take your time, try moving the toy back out a little and adjust the angle.
Lots and lots of lube and patience. |
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"He's really good and really patient. Knows how far he can go. But I just wish I could let him in for pleasure for him.
Missionary??? Tbh if never tried that position. Will give it a go tonight"
Please report back x |
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Increased size and length. You said a skinny long dildo goes in - try the next girth up. Keep going past the size your partner actually is, then sex is easier.
Someone else mentioned pushing - I tried that for the first time this month, sounds counter-productive but it loosens your sphincter and contracts the passage, much easier.
I find a little bit of anal douching relaxes and rinses out too - sometimes it hurts because you have poo in you, if you get rid of it it hurts less.
Be in control of yourself too, get to know your own butt, work toys in yourself - anal can be really intimidating, but if you're completely in control, you can stop and start at your own pace then introduce him.
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