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over a year ago
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"Why is it ok for ladies to be bi-curious or bisexual but it's such a stigma for bi-curious men?
Various reasons. Toxic masculinity & fear of STDs are the major ones."
ohhh charming more misguided myths about lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have no idea why this is there is nothing sexier than two men together and as to health we are all responsible for ourselves . X it is silly that two bi women together hardly bats an eye yet two bi men is frowned upon and scorned .  |
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"Why is it ok for ladies to be bi-curious or bisexual but it's such a stigma for bi-curious men?
Various reasons. Toxic masculinity & fear of STDs are the major ones.ohhh charming more misguided myths about lol "
Ok since you said its an easy answer but you weren't going to say but are now going to to ridicule anyone's answer how about you jusg say your "easy" answer |
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"Why is it ok for ladies to be bi-curious or bisexual but it's such a stigma for bi-curious men?"
I couldn't care less what people think of me and my sexuality. My sexuality is part of me and I like myself. If other people don't, it's not my problem so all happy here. I may produce stigmata from time to time but will tell all in my hagiography  |
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"Why is it ok for ladies to be bi-curious or bisexual but it's such a stigma for bi-curious men?"
Is there stigma?
I must have missed that memo..I've never noticed any stigma levelled at me 
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"Because they are massively hot and sexy and everyone else is a little bit jealous of them.  
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This. I love watching two men just as much as I enjoy watching two women. I wasn't aware there was a stigma though I have noticed quite a few profiles that say no bi/bi curious men. I do wonder why, after all if you're playing with a Straight male or as part of a couple you're going to respect that, just like you would any other boundary. |
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"Why is it ok for ladies to be bi-curious or bisexual but it's such a stigma for bi-curious men?
Is there stigma?
I must have missed that memo..I've never noticed any stigma levelled at me
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Plenty of profiles that say "no bi men", even where totally not relevant (e.g. on single womens' profiles).
Which is why a huge proportion of bi men on this site list themselves as straight |
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"Because they are massively hot and sexy and everyone else is a little bit jealous of them.
V xxx
This. I love watching two men just as much as I enjoy watching two women. I wasn't aware there was a stigma though I have noticed quite a few profiles that say no bi/bi curious men. I do wonder why, after all if you're playing with a Straight male or as part of a couple you're going to respect that, just like you would any other boundary."
I have that on my profile because I don't find it a turn on and want my men to be straight. It all boils down to personal preference. |
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"Why is it ok for ladies to be bi-curious or bisexual but it's such a stigma for bi-curious men?
I couldn't care less what people think of me and my sexuality. My sexuality is part of me and I like myself. If other people don't, it's not my problem so all happy here. I may produce stigmata from time to time but will tell all in my hagiography "
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"I have that on my profile because I don't find it a turn on and want my men to be straight."
How would you know? Plenty of men with "straight" on their profiles are actually bi, but say straight in order to trick folk like you. |
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I don't find bi women a turn on. They're still women though.
All my friends now know I'm bi but non of them had guessed before I came out. Non of my ex girlfriends ever did either.
Until I wanted people to know I was bi they didn't know. When I'm alone with a woman I'm just like any other guy, except I'm now covered in girly tattoos and I have a belly piercing! |
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"Because they are massively hot and sexy and everyone else is a little bit jealous of them.
V xxx
This. I love watching two men just as much as I enjoy watching two women. I wasn't aware there was a stigma though I have noticed quite a few profiles that say no bi/bi curious men. I do wonder why, after all if you're playing with a Straight male or as part of a couple you're going to respect that, just like you would any other boundary.
I have that on my profile because I don't find it a turn on and want my men to be straight. It all boils down to personal preference."
But why does it matter? If you're meeting someone for a MF rendezvous does it make a difference?
I hope you don't feel I'm being funny, I'm genuinely interested. My boyfriend knew from when we first got together that I was bisexual, I wanted him to know from the offset as I've had people who haven't wanted to know me after finding out and I would've rather he walked away there and then than at a later date. Though if we were just playing around or FWB, I can't personally see why either of our sexual orientations would make a difference if we were playing purely one on one.
So, in your opinion, why/how does it make a difference? X |
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"I have that on my profile because I don't find it a turn on and want my men to be straight.
How would you know? Plenty of men with "straight" on their profiles are actually bi, but say straight in order to trick folk like you."
There's been a few threads recently stating that men have received messages from men who are straight on their profile and so you'll never know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it ok for ladies to be bi-curious or bisexual but it's such a stigma for bi-curious men?
Is there stigma?
I must have missed that memo..I've never noticed any stigma levelled at me
Plenty of profiles that say "no bi men", even where totally not relevant (e.g. on single womens' profiles).
Which is why a huge proportion of bi men on this site list themselves as straight"
Some just want bi guys.
The level of interest in me has risen since I changed from bi curious to bisexual.
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I've met plenty of guys I'd never have guessed are bi.
The guy I was seeing for a few months was gorgeous and black and verified by a long list of women, many who said they wouldn't go anywhere near a bi guy or anyone who had.
We didn't veri each other and he lives several hours from me so they'll never work out who he is. |
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"I've met plenty of guys I'd never have guessed are bi.
The guy I was seeing for a few months was gorgeous and black and verified by a long list of women, many who said they wouldn't go anywhere near a bi guy or anyone who had.
We didn't veri each other and he lives several hours from me so they'll never work out who he is. "
I can imagine those ladies he met now reading your post and vomiting and having a douche. It would have been better had he said he was bisexual. It's nothing to be ashamed of. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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At a risk of setting everyone off;
He never thought of himself as bi. I was just another girl who took his fancy.
He's never seen between my legs. Never touched there either.
He's never seen me out of role.
My look is only a small part of my femininity, apparently. I think it's easy to spot me as not genetic. I've had my friends asked loads of times at tgirl events if I'm a tgirl or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it really a stigma?
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A straight couple rarely have any problems meeting with a couple where the lady is bi.... Turn the tables and that's rarely the case.
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"Is it really a stigma?
A straight couple rarely have any problems meeting with a couple where the lady is bi.... Turn the tables and that's rarely the case.
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Thankfully we haven't had an issue with anyone yet, though we don't message anyone who's profile says no bi men. Though that hasn't stopped a few from messaging us - my first response is usually to make sure they've read our details correctly - they all have. Now that baffles me.
We don't meet straight MF couples but that's purely because we aren't looking to play purely MF MF. If we were then it wouldn't matter if the M or F was bi as long as they also were happy to play MF MF. |
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