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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What is best when sending a message to someone for a meet....using polite respectful wording of the message or getting straight to the point and asking for a fuck

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

what do you think ?

I would go for the first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer recieving the second lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whatever works for you?

I know what works for me!

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By *ungBlackTopMan over a year ago

salford

Well you've met 11 people so you yourself should know the answer by now.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Which method best matches you and your personality?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 17/01/16 17:19:21]"

doesn't sound like one...especially from a mature man!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If we were arranging a meet and you asked for a fuck, it would be instant block

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally...I would not even reply to the second message, depends who you are messaging, some women might like it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fancy a fuck wins hands down. Straight to the point. No fucking about

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By *bsinthe_boyMan over a year ago

Luton

Everybody is different but I would advise starting out polite and respectful, edging towards the naughty with further messages and seeing what she thinks. Some ladies will go with it, others never like it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometime people are too polite and just don't get to the point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's wrong with being polite first then start flirting and sexting ? X

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By *inxandmaybeCouple over a year ago

Wells

well on the assumption that the fuck option is ultimately what we're all here for, it's a bit obvious to ask; it's more a question of when really, so the polite, get-to-know-you-a-bit option is more likely to lead to the fuck bit in the end for me. I wouldn't just ok to a fuck in case you turned out to be gross.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always start with a polite messages, many ladies on here will block and delete at the first sign of a "fancy a fuck" message.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is best when sending a message to someone for a meet....using polite respectful wording of the message or getting straight to the point and asking for a fuck "

I don't even open the fancy a fuck messages

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