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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm fat and at min playing alone apart from when wife is ok to play like tmrw but why all you folks not look us big guys "
You don't have any pics to look at  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It may have nothing to do with your size.... You are on a couples profile that states wife not playing anymore .. But have a status up asking for a meet with wife... Confusing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 15/01/16 00:53:16]
What happened here then?
Noticed a typo perhaps?
Lol
It took him a second attempt to get it right  "
No I just sent too early. The gf tells me that's not unusual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It may have nothing to do with your size.... You are on a couples profile that states wife not playing anymore .. But have a status up asking for a meet with wife... Confusing "
It is... |
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" loose some wait mate 
Four words in that sentence and you managed to spell two incorrectly.
Most people couldn't try to be that stupid. "
Hahaha!! As an English teacher, that made me laugh out loud and blow you a Kiss. |
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I don't think it is weight necessarily, though there are comparatively fewer ladies who prefer big guys and no scene for us (unlike the BBW scene).
I think it's down more to confidence and selling yourself, what have you got to offer a lady? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To to me size is irrelvant.......its the person within!
So many fantastic looking people in this world but so often when they engage brain you want to run and run fast.....and never look back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" loose some wait mate
Four words in that sentence and you managed to spell two incorrectly.
Most people couldn't try to be that stupid.
Hahaha!! As an English teacher, that made me laugh out loud and blow you a Kiss. "
Why, thank you! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Your gross status probably isn't helping.
Some people won't like that you are a smoker. Some people will think you are cheating on your wife. Some people don't bother with people who don't have photos.
There are lots of potential reasons. |
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OP you are not helping yourself with your status or your profile. Try to be positive. What are you offering the ladies? How about a tasteful pic or two? And better grammar. If you are dyslexic, perhaps mention this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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tbh op you have no public pics
your status is a bit desperate in my opinion sorry
so many people are quick to blame there size for not getting any interest where i doubt that is the case
a lot of women myself included like a guy with meat on his bones
though he has to have something else going for him aswell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm fat and at min playing alone apart from when wife is ok to play like tmrw but why all you folks not look us big guys "
Everyone has their own likes and dislikes.
You can't have a pop at people just because you perceive they won't shag you because of your weight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where's the love for Big Beautiful Blokes?!
there is no scene, unlike for BBWs. Only the gay "bear" scene."
Lol made me laugh but it's bloody true.
Op if you're unhappy with your weight then lose it. I was 21st a few years back and has you can see from my pic I'm no longer 21st.
The positive effect it's had on my life has been worth it.
Get noticed far more now by women then I ever did and the compliments on looks and my body have been high. Got more energy and zest for life. Loving life right now everything's going great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm fat and at min playing alone apart from when wife is ok to play like tmrw but why all you folks not look us big guys loose some wait mate "
If you are going to insult him at least spell it correctly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well from your profile I couldn't tell if you were fat or not.
There was nothing on your profile to entice me to look further.
And no I wouldn't play with fat guy anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always wonder at guys who post status's like "whos gonna suck me dry" or " need to empty my balls" Surely thats never in the history of fab actually been successful with a woman?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a pie and calm down.
Everyone has their own tastes, likes and dislikes, their is no point in asking why..genuinely no one really knows."
Bit harsh!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the eyes of many, extra or excessive fat added to the female body makes them even more female, or real, or beautiful, or whatever.
In the eyes of many extra or excessive fat added to the male body isn't considered attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Theres plenty of ladies who like us fatties. Its just a case of finding them Blatent attempt to get flattery! haha x"
Nope I dont have boobs. Women dont flatter on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lets face it some women have higher standards , not that all men would just sleep with anybody but we are wired different . Women get to pick and choose and well us guys should just be grateful is what i have been told in the past |
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"Bleurgh....that status....totally off putting! Why oh why do guys put stuff like that? Just awful! "
because they have not the slightest understanding of women. If a lady posted "need a load in my mouth" the guys would be queuing.
But guys generally do not understand that most ladies find such language a huge turn off. As are the aggressive, angry statuses that I see. |
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By *arry_UkMan
over a year ago
birmingham |
That made me laugh so much.... When abusing someone least get the spelling correct.
 :D
" loose some wait mate
Four words in that sentence and you managed to spell two incorrectly.
Most people couldn't try to be that stupid. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's face it men's body's are ugly . I Speak as a fat dude myself .
Except the guy off the Southern Comfort add it, he wears it well"
I'm off skiing in two weeks so fat men can ski lol . According to my dr it makes you ski faster if your bigger . |
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"According to my dr it makes you ski faster if your bigger . "
You'll gather greater momentum if it's downhill skiing. So potentially could go faster.
We fat people can do anything we want. I swim and ride a bicycle. It hasn't magically made me slim. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" loose some wait mate
Four words in that sentence and you managed to spell two incorrectly.
Most people couldn't try to be that stupid.
Hahaha!! As an English teacher, that made me laugh out loud and blow you a Kiss. "
As an English teacher I would have expected some empathy with someone who struggles with spelling. Maybe not now I think about it. |
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If the OP is dyslexic or has another learning difficulty it might help to mention this. Because people do make allowances for such situations...whereas at present his profile and his posts to this thread merely come across as nigh on incoherent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it really does bother you that much,lose weight. It's something you have control over and can do. I don't know exactly how fat you are but,once over a certain amount of excess weight,people tend to be less mobile and not so active in bed. I speak from experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest ...It isn't the fat that would put me off ..It's the wife being "seriously ill" each to their and everything and probably going to be shot down ...but if my partner was seriously ill last thing on my mind would be getting my end away !! So fat or thin your profile makes me feel very uneasy!! |
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There are hundreds of medical, psychological and genetic reasons why some people cannot lose weight. I wouldn't be so fast to judge the OP or any other big person on here.
While there is a recognised BBW scene with BBW sex parties and vanilla BBW night clubs, there is no such scene for big guys (except for the gay bear scene). But that said, it's far from impossible for us bigger men to find fun - I feel it's down to attitude as much as anything.
As for gaining more energy if I lost weight, I doubt the world would cope...I'm full of beans as it is with a higher than average sex drive and am very active in bed. Generalising really doesn't help. As anyone on the BBW scene knows, the big ladies are among some of the most active swingers on the scene. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It may have nothing to do with your size.... You are on a couples profile that states wife not playing anymore .. But have a status up asking for a meet with wife... Confusing "
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A lot about the OP's communication is very confusing which may be part of the reason why he's having difficulty here.
I have to say that if my wife were ill, the last thing I'd be thinking of is sex elsewhere (even with my regular girlfriend). But to each their own, if his wife is OK with it that's fine. But I am not convinced it's his weight that is the biggest problem. Clear communication would help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot about the OP's communication is very confusing which may be part of the reason why he's having difficulty here.
I have to say that if my wife were ill, the last thing I'd be thinking of is sex elsewhere (even with my regular girlfriend). But to each their own, if his wife is OK with it that's fine. But I am not convinced it's his weight that is the biggest problem. Clear communication would help. "
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"According to my dr it makes you ski faster if your bigger .
You'll gather greater momentum if it's downhill skiing. So potentially could go faster.
We fat people can do anything we want. I swim and ride a bicycle. It hasn't magically made me slim. "
after falling arse over tit at the chill factor I take it back about us fatys can ski lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lets face it some women have higher standards , not that all men would just sleep with anybody but we are wired different . Women get to pick and choose and well us guys should just be grateful is what i have been told in the past"
Be grateful you have a choice and don't have to meet such people. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I'm fat and at min playing alone apart from when wife is ok to play like tmrw but why all you folks not look us big guys "
Maybe because you are not fat enough yet. Have you tried putting on more weight? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm fat and at min playing alone apart from when wife is ok to play like tmrw but why all you folks not look us big guys
Maybe because you are not fat enough yet. Have you tried putting on more weight?"
Bad bad girl!!!! |
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