There isn't a right approach.
What works for 1 will not work for anyone else. Hell what works for me one day,will probably not work the next.
Be yourself when you send a message, it'll work eventually. |
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over a year ago
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Thanks ill take that on bored I'm always my self and always take time to read peoples profiles but I'm fairly new to this site so I'm sure it will happen soon I hope haha |
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Always be polite and confident. Send a message firstly with a good subject and include a lot about yourself in the opening message.
If it's a couple your messaging remember it's more than lily the man that's reading and responding so aim it him as well xxxxxx |
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Cheers guys however not really the same as real life people can lie through their teeth on the web in real life if you are a confident person which I am it's hell of a lot easy. On here I feel people are to easily put off but tiny little things I'm a smoker I've never been knocked back in real life haha for smoking or being a year out if someone's age preference. Thank you for your advice though x |
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Just be yourself. We don't want pages and pages of text, don't waste the time. If you are respectful, show us you read the profile and sound remotely like you can hold a conversation, we are more likely to reply.
We currently have filters on and there is no "blanket rule" as to what works for anyone, but we think those steps go a long way and try to apply them to our messages.
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I've been advised to make the approach funny,or just interesting.
My wife says one liners?
Just be polite and consider that the person hasn't actually waited for you to message |
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"Cheers guys however not really the same as real life people can lie through their teeth on the web in real life if you are a confident person which I am it's hell of a lot easy. On here I feel people are to easily put off but tiny little things I'm a smoker I've never been knocked back in real life haha for smoking or being a year out if someone's age preference. Thank you for your advice though x"
I don't see a difference, to be honest. People can lie through their teeth in real life and on the internet.
Just be honest and be you and don't treat this site any differently to how you would approach people in real life. |
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I disagree with a lot on here! There really is an approach.
The approach is to be non-sexual, respectful and confident.
You must stand out and be different. That is the approach.
If you haven't refined your approach, you'll get nowhere in my opinion. |
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