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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't know, last year i got quite a few messages, but now my inbox is a bit un loved (amongst other things) lol
So what do i need to do? Is it just that people have already seen my photos? do i need to add more? Does my text need changing? Or is it that most girls get so many guys after them and so many messages that i am simply one of many?
Kind of need some help girls? What do you think 
Really appreciate your help x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been here over a year now and tend to have messaging turned off all the time because i don't need new guys to message me if i'm honest.
New pics probably wouldn't hinder you, at least people would feel like you've kept your profile up to date and pics are recent so they know what you look like.
You probably are one of many also. |
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"I've been here over a year now and tend to have messaging turned off all the time because i don't need new guys to message me if i'm honest.
New pics probably wouldn't hinder you, at least people would feel like you've kept your profile up to date and pics are recent so they know what you look like.
You probably are one of many also."
not very affectionate lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been here over a year now and tend to have messaging turned off all the time because i don't need new guys to message me if i'm honest.
New pics probably wouldn't hinder you, at least people would feel like you've kept your profile up to date and pics are recent so they know what you look like.
You probably are one of many also.
not very affectionate lol"
also wasn't bitchy.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally I don't like having to ask for pictures.. Except face pics..so maybe few more pics.. Plus time of year.. Plus thousands of men
X"
thanks . I deleted some of my pics to keep a low profile, but will re add them, thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know, last year i got quite a few messages, but now my inbox is a bit un loved (amongst other things) lol
So what do i need to do? Is it just that people have already seen my photos? do i need to add more? Does my text need changing? Or is it that most girls get so many guys after them and so many messages that i am simply one of many?
Kind of need some help girls? What do you think
Really appreciate your help x
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Black guys are not the in thing for 2016... 
You are doomed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know, last year i got quite a few messages, but now my inbox is a bit un loved (amongst other things) lol
So what do i need to do? Is it just that people have already seen my photos? do i need to add more? Does my text need changing? Or is it that most girls get so many guys after them and so many messages that i am simply one of many?
Kind of need some help girls? What do you think
Really appreciate your help x
Black guys are not the in thing for 2016...
You are doomed "
He didn't look black to me.. Proof he needs more pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know, last year i got quite a few messages, but now my inbox is a bit un loved (amongst other things) lol
So what do i need to do? Is it just that people have already seen my photos? do i need to add more? Does my text need changing? Or is it that most girls get so many guys after them and so many messages that i am simply one of many?
Kind of need some help girls? What do you think
Really appreciate your help x
Black guys are not the in thing for 2016...
You are doomed
He didn't look black to me.. Proof he needs more pics "
Damn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know, last year i got quite a few messages, but now my inbox is a bit un loved (amongst other things) lol
So what do i need to do? Is it just that people have already seen my photos? do i need to add more? Does my text need changing? Or is it that most girls get so many guys after them and so many messages that i am simply one of many?
Kind of need some help girls? What do you think
Really appreciate your help x
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We used to get loads when we first joined but rarely get new messages now unless we've been in the chat rooms or posted on the forums. I think it's mostly because we've already said no thank you to the majority of people within our area / those who don't find us attractive have blocked us so we've pretty much ruled out everyone! |
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"Your one picture appears to show a sanitary towel on the floor? Come on!!!!! Also, why can't you accommodate? Tell us, we aren't mind readers. "
It looks more like a bit of tissue than a sanitary towel! |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
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"Your one picture appears to show a sanitary towel on the floor? Come on!!!!! Also, why can't you accommodate? Tell us, we aren't mind readers. "
Lol it's a ploy to get us all looking at his profile, I'd go for tissue or receipt... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your one picture appears to show a sanitary towel on the floor? Come on!!!!! Also, why can't you accommodate? Tell us, we aren't mind readers.
Lol it's a ploy to get us all looking at his profile, I'd go for tissue or receipt... "
I think receipt as well. Is there a prize? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I don't like having to ask for pictures.. Except face pics..so maybe few more pics.. Plus time of year.. Plus thousands of men
X thanks . I deleted some of my pics to keep a low profile, but will re add them, thanks x "
you can't expect to keep a low profile and get many messages...the two things rather work against each other  |
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"Personally I don't like having to ask for pictures.. Except face pics..so maybe few more pics.. Plus time of year.. Plus thousands of men
X thanks . I deleted some of my pics to keep a low profile, but will re add them, thanks x "
Theres only one picture to see, thats a little on the dark side, take clear pics in well lit area's.
Your profile text seems good.
There is reported to be 100 men to 1 female on this site, you will need to be patient, for me personally, witty statuses showing in local updates often get me looking at a profile, I then read the text to see if they match what Im look for and if they do I look at the pictures, dark or limited pictures would then put me off a profile.
Your face picture can be kept in your friends or private folder if you want to keep a low profile, body pics though, should you wish to upload can go on public, unless you have identifiable tattoos or scarring, though these can often be hidden or masked out with the many photo apps freely available now |
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"Also, why can't you accommodate? Tell us, we aren't mind readers.
Why do you need to know?"
Often not accom means not single, a not accom will put me off a profile unless it states why in the profile text |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your picture says even less
Its a gym and a male changing room, not going to be a sanitary towel. "
But she hasn't put a thread up about no new messages
People are offering advice... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have kids that live with me, so my time is very limited and my kids need not see anyone i meet.
I am also here for the same reasons as everyone else.
Single, married, divorced, anyone with a profile on here with a pitch folk out is a bit like, pot kettle black
Much love peeps |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mates finding pics of me on the site and asking random questions was my reason. Was funny thou, i found his too.
Turns out i have a much bigger cock!
That last bit was a joke.... Not that i have a smaller one, i really don't know.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have kids that live with me, so my time is very limited and my kids need not see anyone i meet.
I am also here for the same reasons as everyone else.
Single, married, divorced, anyone with a profile on here with a pitch folk out is a bit like, pot kettle black
Much love peeps "
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Your picture says even less
Its a gym and a male changing room, not going to be a sanitary towel. "
As usual, people asking for advise and then get all defensive when it is offered.
If you don't want responses don't ask the question in the first place
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your picture says even less
Its a gym and a male changing room, not going to be a sanitary towel.
As usual, people asking for advise and then get all defensive when it is offered.
If you don't want responses don't ask the question in the first place
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"Your picture says even less
Its a gym and a male changing room, not going to be a sanitary towel.
As usual, people asking for advise and then get all defensive when it is offered.
If you don't want responses don't ask the question in the first place
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"Your picture says even less
Its a gym and a male changing room, not going to be a sanitary towel.
As usual, people asking for advise and then get all defensive when it is offered.
If you don't want responses don't ask the question in the first place
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Must have just been a LaM post. But I didn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey my friend you can't win in this place the women who tend to come into forums have been here a while and don't concentrate on the message side as much they target messages from people they mostly already know ,you have to keep plodding away with well thought out messages based on target profile send a smiling face pic ,have pics in your gallery of your body keep cock pics in private or friends only ,oh and you have to fill out your profile text tell them about you and why you can't accom ,if you get rid of the negative you should hopefully get positive feedback |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hey my friend you can't win in this place the women who tend to come into forums have been here a while and don't concentrate on the message side as much they target messages from people they mostly already know ,you have to keep plodding away with well thought out messages based on target profile send a smiling face pic ,have pics in your gallery of your body keep cock pics in private or friends only ,oh and you have to fill out your profile text tell them about you and why you can't accom ,if you get rid of the negative you should hopefully get positive feedback "
thanks dude. |
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"If you look who posted it, the person doesn't have a photo. But finds reason to fault find with mine?
I can take criticism, but really? "
They didn't find fault, you created a forum post asking for help, all they did was stated why you might not be getting attention.
Female profiles on here in reality could be totally blank, no profile text, no pictures, no interest ticked, yet still get hundreds of messages.
Men however outnumber women on here, thus in turn means men have to work harder to get our attention.
Maybe its not fair but thats how it is.
To spit your dummy out of a pram because someone gave advice that you asked for doesn't show a nice trait in personality |
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"If you look who posted it, the person doesn't have a photo. But finds reason to fault find with mine?
I can take criticism, but really?
They didn't find fault, you created a forum post asking for help, all they did was stated why you might not be getting attention.
Female profiles on here in reality could be totally blank, no profile text, no pictures, no interest ticked, yet still get hundreds of messages.
Men however outnumber women on here, thus in turn means men have to work harder to get our attention.
Maybe its not fair but thats how it is.
To spit your dummy out of a pram because someone gave advice that you asked for doesn't show a nice trait in personality"
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