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New to all this first bloke I used to work with used to swing with his wife and has alway intrigued me since wish I had stayed in contact as he tried to get me to go with them then know I'm going to get the jokers and the comedians and that's all good fun but who knows out of 5he while lot I may just find the one who wants to help x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha your a scary bunch it seems lol "
Most people go to clubs to meet and get to know people, rather than go with strangers and end up with someone you may not be compatible with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New to all this first bloke I used to work with used to swing with his wife and has alway intrigued me since wish I had stayed in contact as he tried to get me to go with them then know I'm going to get the jokers and the comedians and that's all good fun but who knows out of 5he while lot I may just find the one who wants to help x"
It's nothing to do with you getting in cheaper then ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do you need someone to go with you OP? Wouldn't that be a total stranger? What if you didn't get on? Would you be expecting to play? Are you using them to get in cheap? Why would anyone want to go to a club with a total stranger? People may assume you are a couple. What if you acted inappropriately? Lots of questions as to why. However I can't think of one good reason why I would want to go to a club with a random stranger. |
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Well have learnt a lot didn't know about costs didn't know there was social events with guest lists didn't know any off this so would like to thank all the members that actually helped and to the others hope you enjoyed your popcorn and harribo |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
If you haven't the balls to go to a club alone how on earth are you going to summon the nerve to turn up and meet people one-on-one?
Cold feet are a common problem when it comes to meets. If you can't manage to take yourself to a club, I'd suspect you may end up not being able to turn up to a meet either.
Don't think about it, just do it.
I went to a club by myself the first time and I've done it many times since. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go on my own and with other half . It's easier on your own
Just go and do it
Chances are if your too scared to walk in on your own .
Then chances are you would not be able to perform when there due to anxiety
So save your money till your ready |
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"New to all this first bloke I used to work with used to swing with his wife and has alway intrigued me since wish I had stayed in contact as he tried to get me to go with them then know I'm going to get the jokers and the comedians and that's all good fun but who knows out of 5he while lot I may just find the one who wants to help x"
Everyone was new to it once, but most singles go alone, why do you need anyone to hold your hand?
Get chatting to people posting in a thread that is going to an event you fancy, arrange to grab a drink with some of them once you get to the club, dont however sit around in the hope that a female or couple will take you, most dont like being tied to one person all night |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
I would never take a random stranger to a club to 'show him the ropes'. So many things that could go wrong! He could assume that I would play with him. He could act like an asshat, and get us both thrown out. He could be too clingy and get in the way of me choosing who I want to play with. It's just a definite 'no' from me. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
Yup. Seen many a time two strangers go to a club together, one sees a familiar face and wants to approach to play, only for the other stranger to object "We came in together, we stay and play together!". Not my idea of fun. |
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