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Should I change profile wording?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ladies and gentlemen,
I'm beginning to wonder if the wording of my profile is putting off potential meets?....can you please read and pm me your HONEST opinions 
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"Ladies and gentlemen,
I'm beginning to wonder if the wording of my profile is putting off potential meets?....can you please read and pm me your HONEST opinions
Thanks "
Are you getting lot's of mail/replies? If so leave it alone, if not, change it.  |
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Yes, it's offputting. Saying you prefer women size 8 - 14 is absolutely fine as it's your prerogative and saves a lot of time wasting but the first part 'I won't meet fuglies' is harsh and bad mannered. Attractiveness is subjective - maybe you're 'fugly' in someone else's opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Eh... yes, your profile text would definitely put me off. It's the whole fat & ugly/skank/chav thing. It's fine having your own preferences, not so fine being so insulting. |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Ladies and gentlemen,
I'm beginning to wonder if the wording of my profile is putting off potential meets?....can you please read and pm me your HONEST opinions
Thanks "
Who you meet is your choice but to use the words fat and ugly is just impolite. Too many cock pics and no face pics and what's with the jeans pic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow...now that's a negative profile...standards is one thing and you're entitled to your preferences...but...you say nothing about what you can offer a potential meet...just a long list of people you won't meet, using derogatory terms...good luck getting meets with it...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow that is probably the one of most insulting profiles I have seen, preferences sure we all have them but certainly no need to say it in the terms you have. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow....I guess I'd never actually thought about that...the way I worded it was the male equivalent of the way some women word theirs....I've seen things like "don't meet,fat, bald or people with neds speak" on female profiles before. But the feedback is definitely most welcome and I shall get on to editing just now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Better than it was, I'd maybe take off the sorry to sound harsh and leave as "just a preference" and possibly change must to I like a lady with a sense of humour...
Just my opinion, and I'm not saying mine is any better... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Expecting the woman to always accommodate because you can't will not be helping you.
What's stopping you from getting a hotel room or at least offering to go halves on a hotel room? You're quick enough to point out you're a "professional" after all, but you won't offer to share costs, you expect someone else to supply the venue.
Do you really think it's reasonable to expect women to welcome you into their home, (which may make them feel less safe and secure), when you won't do the same for them?
That attitude puts me off. |
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A list of requirements including "be discreet as I'm a professional male" sound haughty and arrogant tbh.
Also your claim to have had many MMF meets etc., etc., is supported meagrely by one verification in over a year on the site.
It doesn't come across as convincing at all. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Wow....I guess I'd never actually thought about that...the way I worded it was the male equivalent of the way some women word theirs....I've seen things like "don't meet,fat, bald or people with neds speak" on female profiles before. But the feedback is definitely most welcome and I shall get on to editing just now "
Two wrongs don't make a right. |
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