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Influx of single guys on couple profiles
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have had influx in the last week of single guys messaging me from a couple profile.
They aren't even pretending to be anything other than single guys. And then get cross with me when i ask them why they are contacting me and tell them I have reported them.
What is going on? Is it new year madness |
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I don't even know why they bother, I deliberately have the box ticked on my searches to exclude women who don't want a single man of my age otherwise I'd have lots of profiles or people that aren't interested, complete waste of time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people have blocked single men so yeah they all got a little more clever and decided to get round the block. Gotta love the triers...idk, some men just think they can do what they want and fuck what we want, it's crap and a waste of our time. |
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Makes sense to be fair given that single guys outweigh the women and cpls.
That many people block single guys.
They are in a tight spot unfortunately they think once you are chatting you will over look that they are not what they advertise to be. Completely missing the point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah i think some of them do.
Some of them are that manipulative they think they get a woman to do whatever they want. Sad really and a poor reflection of themselves, glad they show themselves for what they are really and i feel sorry for anyone who does end up meeting them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally can't see the point of pretending to be anything than what I am
What if I were on as a couple arranged a meet you expect a couple. Hmmm so where do I suddenly find a partner
Totally pointless. Honesty. All the time |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
Just keep on reporting the messages, where they revealed themselves to be single men.
Maybe it was their New Year Resolution, that 'nice guys finish last' so they plan to be dishonest. Who knows?
Just keep reporting and blocking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is simply a sad tactic to get around the filters.
We filter of TV's but keep seeing guys with a mans profile and photos of them in full female attire writing to us 
It is the same thing and invariably just as successful. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
This is not a new problem but it seems that they are getting bolder now
Normally they just set up a couples profile and then make all the excuses under the sun as to why I cannot see them together on Skype webcam
Or the 'wife/girlfriend' writes to me telling me that he is travelling down to London and that he has 'her' permission to meet me; yeah, right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is not a new problem but it seems that they are getting bolder now
Normally they just set up a couples profile and then make all the excuses under the sun as to why I cannot see them together on Skype webcam
Or the 'wife/girlfriend' writes to me telling me that he is travelling down to London and that he has 'her' permission to meet me; yeah, right"
So that's where I'm going wrong!?!  |
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"Most people have blocked single men so yeah they all got a little more clever and decided to get round the block. Gotta love the triers...idk, some men just think they can do what they want and fuck what we want, it's crap and a waste of our time."
A lot of women have couples blocked so they miss out too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is not a new problem but it seems that they are getting bolder now
Normally they just set up a couples profile and then make all the excuses under the sun as to why I cannot see them together on Skype webcam
Or the 'wife/girlfriend' writes to me telling me that he is travelling down to London and that he has 'her' permission to meet me; yeah, right"
I wonder if in the entire history of fab anyone has ever fallen for that old bollox?
Perhaps we can add to the list alongside:
-The cheque is in the post
-Honest I will not cum in your mouth
and last but not least:
The wife and I are in a sexless marriage and we are only together for the kids.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most people have blocked single men so yeah they all got a little more clever and decided to get round the block. Gotta love the triers...idk, some men just think they can do what they want and fuck what we want, it's crap and a waste of our time.
A lot of women have couples blocked so they miss out too "
Oh yeah, i forgot that. I even blocked women because 18 year old 'girls' were coming onto me...i'm straight lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is not a new problem but it seems that they are getting bolder now
Normally they just set up a couples profile and then make all the excuses under the sun as to why I cannot see them together on Skype webcam
Or the 'wife/girlfriend' writes to me telling me that he is travelling down to London and that he has 'her' permission to meet me; yeah, right"
That sounds legit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is not a new problem but it seems that they are getting bolder now
Normally they just set up a couples profile and then make all the excuses under the sun as to why I cannot see them together on Skype webcam
Or the 'wife/girlfriend' writes to me telling me that he is travelling down to London and that he has 'her' permission to meet me; yeah, right"
Got to confess we don't do Skype.
Nothing suspicious. We are just techno retards. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"This is not a new problem but it seems that they are getting bolder now
Normally they just set up a couples profile and then make all the excuses under the sun as to why I cannot see them together on Skype webcam
Or the 'wife/girlfriend' writes to me telling me that he is travelling down to London and that he has 'her' permission to meet me; yeah, right
Got to confess we don't do Skype.
Nothing suspicious. We are just techno retards."
Yes, I hear that too. In your case, it is true
But as a single woman, I need to know who exactly I am meeting. And that is the reason I will now only ever meet in a club for the first time |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"I have had influx in the last week of single guys messaging me from a couple profile.
They aren't even pretending to be anything other than single guys. And then get cross with me when i ask them why they are contacting me and tell them I have reported them.
What is going on? Is it new year madness"
Yup, I have had one such message today. Wtf is going on? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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an idea to help to reduce this couples would have to go live on cam to a member of admin to prove there a couple I know it wont stop it but a reduction is better than nothing |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
" an idea to help to reduce this couples would have to go live on cam to a member of admin to prove there a couple I know it wont stop it but a reduction is better than nothing "
On a free site, with hundreds of new couples signing up each day, Admin don't have the time to do this. It's up to each of US to use our common sense and refuse to engage with profiles who we believe may be fake. In four years on this and other sites, I have never yet encountered a fake, because I am careful who I engage with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You also get lots of fem profiles which state theyre looking for girls only but then when you message they don't want to meet you without their hubby, have found this numerous times. Its as impossible to meet single fems for women as it is for guys! Lol x |
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