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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just an observation, but I think it's quite hard on here to get the ball rolling when people don't read messages, or ignore friend invites ,I can understand if the idiots have spoilt it , do all newbies get treated like this.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You need patience!  "
Was that sent because Shag is busy watching BB?
To the OP.....you say people don't reply to "friends invites"?
Do you send them at Random....to people you haven't met or even had reasonable message exchanges with?
In which case I think you have partially answered your own question! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yep.......get used to it, picture swappers, teasers and a bunch of no shows....."
I'd be interested to see your numbers on this.
How many picture swappers, how many teasers and how many no shows have you had in your 4 months on Fab? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You need patience!
Was that sent because Shag is busy watching BB?
To the OP.....you say people don't reply to "friends invites"?
Do you send them at Random....to people you haven't met or even had reasonable message exchanges with?
In which case I think you have partially answered your own question!"
Shag's watching Bare back? I thought he always wore a condom watching tv.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You need patience!
Was that sent because Shag is busy watching BB?
To the OP.....you say people don't reply to "friends invites"?
Do you send them at Random....to people you haven't met or even had reasonable message exchanges with?
In which case I think you have partially answered your own question!
Shag's watching Bare back? I thought he always wore a condom watching tv. "
BB for shag is on channel 5 and has "celebrities".... He will have a big bag of haribos tho.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And now you have no pic....to add to no profile script and no accommodation...... You have to at least make some kind of effort surely? Nobody can expect something for nothing.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes took the tongue picture off, getting quite a lot of messages about do this do that , apparently I should of kept the original status instead of changing it , so I cant please everyone .
Gonna sleep on it sort it out tomorrow |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"Just an observation, but I think it's quite hard on here to get the ball rolling when people don't read messages, or ignore friend invites ,I can understand if the idiots have spoilt it , do all newbies get treated like this. "
Why on earth have you got it into your head that its someone else's fault??? |
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"Just an observation, but I think it's quite hard on here to get the ball rolling when people don't read messages, or ignore friend invites ,I can understand if the idiots have spoilt it , do all newbies get treated like this. "
It's only as hard on here as you make it for yourself . More effort you put in ,more you'll get from the site .
You need to review your expectations on here .Many join thinking it will a garenteed quick route to a shag and are disappointed when they find it takes time and effort . |
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"Just an observation, but I think it's quite hard on here to get the ball rolling when people don't read messages, or ignore friend invites ,I can understand if the idiots have spoilt it , do all newbies get treated like this. "
In what way have the 'idiots spoilt it'? Take responsibility for your own actions and don't blame others. |
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Don't read messages? You'll find that some people (women) get hundreds of messages a day. A lot of them check profiles before opening the mail. If they don't fancy the guy, they don't read the message.
At the moment your profile has no public photos and you can't accommodate. That leads to the assumption you are cheating on your wife. If you are, be honest about it, some people prefer that situation. If not, explain why you can't accommodate (shared house?)
There's a lot of men trying to get the attention of the women here. You need to stand out.
As for friend requests, are you sending them to people you are chatting to, or just when you see a nice profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you were trying to sell your car would you put something along the lines of "Its a car, it goes from A to B" and have no pics of it? Hell no, no one would be interested! I'm afraid your profile is rubbish and is just like thousands of others on here sorry to say. You need to sell yourself to stand out and currently you don't. Good luck. |
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