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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all my names jay im 22 fairly new to swinging online scene im single and im actually looking to make meet's i do come online everyday and send out quite alot of messages im not vulgar im actually very polite, Iv also been verified, But i guess i just need that meet any help please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi Jay. Also, your one verification is by webcam ... personallly, the only verifications I take notice of are 'met in person' ones, and I much prefer verifications from people who I know personallly.
If there are no socials near you, maybe think about going to a club. That way, even if you just go to the club for 'the social side', you have the opportunity to make a network of friends, who will verify you 'in person' and maybe introduce you to people you will be compatible with.
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Jay. Also, your one verification is by webcam ... personallly, the only verifications I take notice of are 'met in person' ones, and I much prefer verifications from people who I know personallly.
If there are no socials near you, maybe think about going to a club. That way, even if you just go to the club for 'the social side', you have the opportunity to make a network of friends, who will verify you 'in person' and maybe introduce you to people you will be compatible with.
Good luck!"
Fair comment, but I have noticed a lot of socials around here have the same tag line "Single guys not required" I suppose this is to ensure that only known and accepted singles get an invite through other contacts to avoid a room full of guys and 1 or 2 women. But it can make guys like me feel a bit of a pariah. 
I think we need a "Gals willing to chapperone single guys" section where single men can put themselves forward to attend some socials as a "couple". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got same prob even though i been verified twice on cam most women and cpls insist on pics.so guess will have to bite the bullet and put some up."
Mate pics do help a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say that I am having the same problem (so, with respect, I don't think its much to do with age). Several months plugging away, without much response gets a bit frustrating. At least it's free (or cheap to be a supporter)! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to say that I am having the same problem (so, with respect, I don't think its much to do with age). Several months plugging away, without much response gets a bit frustrating. At least it's free (or cheap to be a supporter)!"
according to yr profile u have had 3 meets since may.... most guys would be happy with that, some on here haven't even had one . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got same prob even though i been verified twice on cam most women and cpls insist on pics.so guess will have to bite the bullet and put some up."
cam verifications means jack shit to most on here , i along with quite a lot of others dont even bother reading messages off guys with no pics
u only need a few clear upto date face pics in yr private gallery and it makes a big difference . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had similar experience but patience is the key, you do need pics as well. But once you have a meet or two and get varified things get easier and you won't look back... |
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