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Been swinging for a few months - loving it but own sex life (ie between the two of us) seems to have gone by the by. Is this temporary of does my partner just prefer other people?  |
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"Been swinging for a few months - loving it but own sex life (ie between the two of us) seems to have gone by the by. Is this temporary of does my partner just prefer other people? "
I'd be worried as our sex life always comes before others x and we make time for ourselves before or after meets and its so good |
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"Been swinging for a few months - loving it but own sex life (ie between the two of us) seems to have gone by the by. Is this temporary of does my partner just prefer other people? "
Your question can only be answered by one person, best ask them  |
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I would suggest stooping if it went like that for us ... surely you dont find it hard to talk to your partner. We met here and we rarely meet or play with others now as we are more interested in spending time with each other. If we are out, we are more into socials anyway .... |
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"Been swinging for a few months - loving it but own sex life (ie between the two of us) seems to have gone by the by. Is this temporary of does my partner just prefer other people?
Your question can only be answered by one person, best ask them "
But i was going to get my crystal ball out 
Honestly, if you can't communicate with your partner about this then you are on a very rocky road.
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"thanks for the advice so far - how do you ask that without it sounding like a criticism?"
Sit down at a time when there are unlikely to be interruptions and say something like "I'm worried that things have changed between us since we started swinging" and take it from there. Good luck. |
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feels more like the edge of a cliff but thanks for the good advice - its what I would have told someone in my position - just nice to have it said by others |
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"Sit down at a time when there are unlikely to be interruptions and say something like "I'm worried that things have changed between us since we started swinging" and take it from there. Good luck."
That sounds great advice to me. |
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over a year ago
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Sometimes we have got to carried away and I have just said... I want some us time today... And let's go in a room.
It's easy to get so wrapped up with new experiences... X |
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It really should be the opposite!!!
Swinging shouldn't be a replacement but and addition to your sex life. If swinging is for you as a couple, then really it should enhance your already amazing sex life and I have found that most people say that they have sex more since they have been swinging.
If swinging is getting in the way of your own sex, then you should stop otherwise you are on a slippery slope
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We'll it's his loss if he has a nice partner like u to go out n explore . IDE grab him n if he does not give into u tel him this all stops untill ur looked after . IDE I had a partner like u IDE make sure u were we'll looked after unless there's something wrong down below |
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