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Caught married man!

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So here it is, met a man Xmas week, was fun, he stayed til early hours of morning and left, all was good. Today he what's apps, me asking me to deny everything to his wife! Wife? What wife? This was first I heard if a wife! Tells me she is going to call me! I need to deny even knowing him!

What would you do?

Drop him in 10 tons of shit for not telling you?

Or help a man out, knowing his wife probably won't believe a word of it anyway after all is women know!! ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So here it is, met a man Xmas week, was fun, he stayed til early hours of morning and left, all was good. Today he what's apps, me asking me to deny everything to his wife! Wife? What wife? This was first I heard if a wife! Tells me she is going to call me! I need to deny even knowing him!

What would you do?

Drop him in 10 tons of shit for not telling you?

Or help a man out, knowing his wife probably won't believe a word of it anyway after all is women know!! ? "

Well I'm totally honest, my wife on here and my profile says it

Best act dumb, or his wife will slag you off

Then contact administration and block

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Deny deny deny

Next Time don't ask their name that way when wifey rings up you can say honestly I don't know anyone by that name

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

What would you do?

Drop him in 10 tons of shit for not telling you?

Or help a man out, knowing his wife probably won't believe a word of it anyway after all is women know!! ? "

My gut instinct would be to let her give him hell

But the reality is that she will be heartbroken

That is the only reason why I would lie to her

Granted that he will cheat on her with someone else. But atleast my conscience will be clear knowing the I wasn't the cause of her hurt

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By *ch WellMan over a year ago

Scotland

She is going to call you? Wouldn't she call you right away? How does she know about you? How does she know your number?

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By *imply_SensualMan over a year ago

warrington

What would you do?

Drop him in 10 tons of shit for not telling you?

Or help a man out, knowing his wife probably won't believe a word of it anyway after all is women know!! ? "

Don't answer the call

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does this happen to you a lot? Because as well as on your status you mention it in your profile

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Considering she will likely know because she's seen messages denying it won't help matters otherwise how would she know about you?

This is one of the reasons I just message on here only it's a secure account that needs to be logged into so if you do accidentally play with a married man there's less of a paper trail (so to speak)

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Don't answer the call"

This. Its a shame you found out this way but its not your problem. Ignore anything from his number or any strange numbers, delete any answer messages un-listened to, delete messages from the guy and block him.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"She is going to call you? Wouldn't she call you right away? How does she know about you? How does she know your number?"

You exchange numbers in order to be able to use what's app

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By *lorious hole bs16Man over a year ago

Bristol

Perhaps it's his cowardly way of ending it...having got what he wanted,he now regrets it all..

Why married people give out phone numbers,if they don't want other half to know baffles me..

Start afresh,he is last year's model,you deserve better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd tell him to sod off and block him, its his own fault he's in this situation.

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

He's dropped you in middle of his marital mess and expects you to bail him out?? Huge ones this guys got!!!

Why lie ,you owe him zero !!The wife got your number off him so how on earth does that get explained away ?? I'd just tell her his profile detail if he's on here and let him sort his own crap out .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What would you do?

Drop him in 10 tons of shit for not telling you?

Or help a man out, knowing his wife probably won't believe a word of it anyway after all is women know!! ? "

I had something similar a few years ago,,,the 3 am tearful phone call ''stay away from my husband'',,,,''err excuse me,,,but who is your husband'',,,,,it turned out he had lied to me for several weeks,even giving me a false name,,,,I was extremely apologetic,she was very understanding,,,once she calmed down.I couldn't say we'd ever become best of friends but I guess she could see who the real culprit was.

If we had never spoken,,,would she still resent/hate me? Quite possibly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you owe him nothing .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He's a twat for lying to you, karma is doing its thing, leave them to it.

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By *ormalguy71Man over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Personally i would drop him in it, he has done that to you.

Regardless of what you tell her clearly she thinks something has happened for her to want to call you in the first place so will denying benefit?

I know in that position i would want the truth would you not ?

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

What would you do?

Drop him in 10 tons of shit for not telling you?

Or help a man out, knowing his wife probably won't believe a word of it anyway after all is women know!! ? "

Ive had this exact thing, only couple months ago, i chose not to deny, my rationing was the wife deserved to know the truth, and would be up to her to decide if she still had a marriage or not. My other rationing was also that I'm single, wasn't me cheating, so why should i lie and become a liar just because he's a liar.

Cheating and lying doesn't sit comfortably with me at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would tell her the truth, poor woman is getting strung along by a scumbag and how many times has he done it in the past and you probably wouldnt be the last either, she deserves he is a dick head

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

urghhhhh sounds like just the reason why we avoid married men, no matter how silver tongued they are. This guy has been an idiot by the sounds of it. He should come clean and face the music.

If you are named as a respondent in divorce case it will be very messy. What a twat. My ex wife rumbled me and to my credit I came clean and admitted it was my fault. That avoided any nastiness and although it wasn't pleasant probably meant our sorting out of affairs was fairly straight forward and as amicable as it could possibly be. In fact I even shagged the ex mrs after we separated so I couldn't have been that bad in the sack LOL.

Tell him you'll have a think about it but advise him to come clean because you are an awful liar anyway. Put the ball in his court and tell him best thing is to come clean and not to ever bother you again.

There. Job done.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't answer the call

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't answer the call. It's his shitty mess, his problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Can only assume she found my number in his phone, and not happened to me before ive just added it in my profile! Think she has called as had call from unknown number! I'm guessing if she searches his phone it's probably not the first time! I'm not good at lying so right now I'm trying avoidance!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a not so upset woman ring me,saying I had met her husband. Then changed it to her bf,so I asked his name,a description and where he was from. The description matched 4 men and I had been to all their houses. I still don't know which of them,if any it was. She didn't seem very upset and there was a man's voice in the background talking to her as she spoke to me. She put the phone down when I said I didn't know who her husband was and never heard again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What would you do?

Drop him in 10 tons of shit for not telling you?

Or help a man out, knowing his wife probably won't believe a word of it anyway after all is women know!! ?

If we had never spoken,,,would she still resent/hate me? Quite possibly."

this. I'm not going to universally condemn all cheaters because each situation is different but I find the fact that the guy did this at Christmas time, rather than spend that time with his family, makes him sound like something of a flea bag ho.

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By *idsAndyMan over a year ago

Worcestershire

Guys should just be honest.... He should also afford you some discretion and not have given out your number.

Personally I'd stay well away, it's not your problem x

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I wouldn't lie for anyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can only assume she found my number in his phone, and not happened to me before ive just added it in my profile! Think she has called as had call from unknown number! I'm guessing if she searches his phone it's probably not the first time! I'm not good at lying so right now I'm trying avoidance! "

Don't lie, just tell her the truth, shes probably screwing her head up because deep down she knows he's lying but people keep telling her he's not, I've been there, its truely awful. Even if she is hurt shell know shes not crazy. I'm sorry this has happened to you. Liars are the pits

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Be open and tell her the truth. I have had a husband contact me before. Told him what happened, answered his questions, provided proof that it was a two way thing.

My ex went behind my back and I would have appreciated the honesty from the guy (he was a swinger who we had met before).

It's not your problem, it's theirs / his. But I would avoid the unknown numbers. If she wants to talk to you she does it in an open forum. That way if she gets nasty you can report her to the police. Surprising they are becoming more and more understanding over these matters.

Good luck.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
Forum Mod

My Own Little World

I would answer her call and tell her the truth.

I would like to know the truth if my husband were dumb enough to do something like that to me (he isn't). It would be a 1 time only thing though, answer her questions then block the number.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Good friends help you bury the body, best friends bring their own shovel and don't ask questions.

He is neither.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You owe him nothing. It was his choice to lie to both you and his wife. It's up to him to get himself out of the problem without expecting any help from you.

I suppose though, the question is do you want to see him again? If so, you might want to do him a favour. If not, then let him sort his problem out. Simply go down the no comment route.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

id avoid any calls,block his number...apart from anything,he has no business giving your personal contact details to someone who, to you, is a complete stranger....not your problem,its his!

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By *usty roseCouple over a year ago

Filthy F**ks x

Tell the wife the truth, you're a swinger and he said he were single man lied to you both after all his wife deserves to know, and why incriminate yourself when you've done nothing wrong.

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By *usty roseCouple over a year ago

Filthy F**ks x

"I would answer her call and tell her the truth.

I would like to know the truth if my husband were dumb enough to do something like that to me (he isn't). It would be a 1 time only thing though, answer her questions then block the number."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would answer, remain calm, you've done nothing wrong.

The fact that he has warned you rings alarm bells in my head.

There are ppl out there wanting attention by making drama, sounds like hes one of them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you lie just so he can have an easy life then you are just giving even more of a chance to do it all over again to someone else.

Tell her the truth for her own sake!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I would answer, remain calm, you've done nothing wrong.

The fact that he has warned you rings alarm bells in my head.

There are ppl out there wanting attention by making drama, sounds like hes one of them.

Rings alarms for me too. Some people love drama.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man over a year ago

Bristol

Call back the unknown number and your in control...get it over with if it's bothering you. .

I guess these sites are ideal for those who want to 'cheat' ..accept this possibility and have strategies in place..

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"If you lie just so he can have an easy life then you are just giving even more of a chance to do it all over again to someone else.

Tell her the truth for her own sake!"

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By *erfectman122Man over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I'm afraid I'd tell the truth you owe him nothing and if hes did it to you how many others has it been done to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm afraid I'd tell the truth you owe him nothing and if hes did it to you how many others has it been done to.

Nope bad course of action. You are dropping yourself in for a world of grief. Tell him you are a crap liar and it's best if he tells her himself. That way if she does call and you find yourself rumbled you can tell him you didn't do it maliciously, it just came out because she asked the right questions. For all his wife knows it might be that she doesn't know that you know the game is afoot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

p.s. If he thinks you dropped him in it you might get a load of shit off him too. It's not your fault. Tell him you wish him well but politely he should bog off and take his marital problems someplace else.

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By *ylonhunterMan over a year ago

See if she's up for joining in next time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had simular. Like a pillock told the truth and got abuse from both of them .somehow he managed to take moral high ground and sent me threatening messages.I just deleted everything and blocked. Funny part he's still at it from what I've heard .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't answer the call

This for me too. He should sort out his own life. It's not your problem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Block him anywhere you've made contact with him, including phone/Whatsapp and delete his contact details.

Don't get involved.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

What would you do?

Drop him in 10 tons of shit for not telling you?

Or help a man out, knowing his wife probably won't believe a word of it anyway after all is women know!! ? "

If it was personally me ringing I wouldn't to be lied to. If she rang me I would give a straight answer.

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By *k1986Man over a year ago

local

Tell the truth and his profile name

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By *awtymarkyMan over a year ago

chester

If she does ring you then your get out of jail card you can use is

"Well he lied to me too and told me he was single, otherwise I would have not slept with him - he is a cheating sod give him hell from me"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I'd tell the truth to her. After all you had know idea he was married.

Apologise and explain if you'd known you wouldn't have gone with him.

Then block everything, just be careful if he knows where you live!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is going to call you? Wouldn't she call you right away? How does she know about you? How does she know your number?"

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If i was the wife i would want to know the whole truth....

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

"She is going to call you? Wouldn't she call you right away? How does she know about you? How does she know your number?

You exchange numbers in order to be able to use what's app "

Therefore you can't deny knowing him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How many wives would warn their husband before calling?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many wives would warn their husband before calling?

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many wives would warn their husband before calling?

It does seem very strange. Unless they had a row about it, she threatened to call and he thought he should warn her.

Or it's just some sick game they play.

Or he's single and has made the wife up so he doesn't have to meet again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

most likely his way of avoiding you me thinks but if she does call I would just say what do you mean he's marred is this some sort of bad joke

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can block his number on your phone and via whats app so do this and move on. I think he maybe already in deep water but gut instinct is he is feeling guilty and is looking for a way out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

he has messaged to say they been arguing all weekend, she found my number on his phone! and that he has cheated on her before and he is sorry to drag me into it! I'm just gonna block him and avoid any unknown numbers and leave it to them!

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

"I'm afraid I'd tell the truth you owe him nothing and if hes did it to you how many others has it been done to.

I disagree, i told the truth and the wife thanked me for being only one that told her the truth

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"he has messaged to say they been arguing all weekend, she found my number on his phone! and that he has cheated on her before and he is sorry to drag me into it! I'm just gonna block him and avoid any unknown numbers and leave it to them! "

Yep. Leave them to sort it out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

he sound like trouble if she phones just tell the truth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Truth. Y should you lie?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Blocking his number is probably easiest... Unless he knows where you live!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In my opinion if I was her and knew you were who he'd cheated on me with, ignoring the calls would confirm to me that it was true and then it'd become apparent that he had told you not to answer the call etc, as not many ignore their phone that much. If she is determined to speak to you the calls won't stop for a while.

But if you do decide to answer then it'd be best to tell the truth, he's betrayed her previously so it wouldn't surprise me if she were to stay with him anyway (depending on how much it has happened). Sometimes enough is enough and she may leave him, but she has the right to know the truth, just a shame he can't do it.

Keep an eye on Jeremy kyle see if they appear

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By *uited staffs guyMan over a year ago

staffordshire

"Blocking his number is probably easiest... Unless he knows where you live!"

Agreed just block the number, it just won't ring and you won't know if she's tried

As to what he tells her surely that's his problem?

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

"Blocking his number is probably easiest... Unless he knows where you live!

Agreed just block the number, it just won't ring and you won't know if she's tried

As to what he tells her surely that's his problem?"

You cant block unknown numbers though, and if wife really wants to ring she could use multiple different numbers until its answered.

My policy has always been honesty is best, the OP hasn't done anything wrong, I'm pretty sure once wife calmed down she will see the OP has been lied to as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Help!!! She found my pic and number on his phone and has used my number to find me on Facebook and has messaged me on Facebook wanting to know why he has my pic and number! This is messy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Help!!! She found my pic and number on his phone and has used my number to find me on Facebook and has messaged me on Facebook wanting to know why he has my pic and number! This is messy! "

Just tell her the truth and block her on everything. Simple.

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By *ithardscotMan over a year ago

Kelty

None of the responsibility is yours. Refuse the call, tell him to get lost.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Help!!! She found my pic and number on his phone and has used my number to find me on Facebook and has messaged me on Facebook wanting to know why he has my pic and number! This is messy! "

Oh please, more attention-seeking drama

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ooh the drama

Just say cuz u fucked him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Help!!! She found my pic and number on his phone and has used my number to find me on Facebook and has messaged me on Facebook wanting to know why he has my pic and number! This is messy! "

Facebook block is easy. I just wouldn't get involved

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

ooh the drama

Just say cuz u fucked him

..... In a mmf where he was wearing your panties and you your strap-on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is going to call you? Wouldn't she call you right away? How does she know about you? How does she know your number?"

Was gonna ask the same?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Odd thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why would he have your full name so she could have found you on Facebook? All sounds strange to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Obviously searched his phone! And it's dealt with! Down to them now! Thanks for all advice!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shop him! All men are bastards, we're all the same...oh no wait!

Moral, never give your phone number out. Simples.

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By *rown_cock_edinMan over a year ago

edinburgh

"She is going to call you? Wouldn't she call you right away? How does she know about you? How does she know your number?

Was gonna ask the same? "

WhatsApp collates information on your contacts and dialled numbers.. pretty certain compares with own database for the number to retrieve profile pics... names not so sure.. but in absense of a contact name the number is displayed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Help!!! She found my pic and number on his phone and has used my number to find me on Facebook and has messaged me on Facebook wanting to know why he has my pic and number! This is messy! "

She is still fishing for you to come clean. what a horrible situation you've been landed in by this worm of a man. Hope he was a good shag at least.

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By *rown_cock_edinMan over a year ago

edinburgh

"Shop him! All men are bastards, we're all the same...oh no wait!

Moral, never give your phone number out. Simples.

KIK is better alternative for this sort of stuff .. keeps you safe from weirdos

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By *luffy_bunniesCouple over a year ago

Ilkeston

Go with the truth. And this is Mr speaking, always tell them the truth. he's made his bed!

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By *lighty1Woman over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

If she phones, keep calm and tell her the truth. You have done nothing wrong. Honesty is vital in swinging, and if he's not being honest with his wife (or you), then he needs to learn that painful lesson. However, I wouldn't reply by text or facebook, or anything that can be kept and referred back to later. Voice response only, then she can't pick it apart later.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Bit tough to deny! She sent me a pic he took of me in my house in underwear! His leg was in the pic and she said he point blank refused to say anything and walked out to work! So I came clean, told her what she wanted to know! She was really nice said it was his fault, he done it to her loads, and thanks for my honesty, so know they are blocked and it's down to them, again thanks for advice everyone! !

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why would he have your full name so she could have found you on Facebook? All sounds strange to me. "

You can type a phone number into Facebook and sometimes it will show you the persons profile if you have your phone synced to Facebook!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why would he have your full name so she could have found you on Facebook? All sounds strange to me.

You can type a phone number into Facebook and sometimes it will show you the persons profile if you have your phone synced to Facebook! "

Ah ok, you can set your profile so only your friends can search for you by your phone number, not anyone else. Maybe worth doing.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

More fool her for letting him do it a second, third time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could have been worse for him. At least he wasn't wearing your underwear.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

"Why would he have your full name so she could have found you on Facebook? All sounds strange to me. "

If you have a number in your phone and sync your contacts with the Facebook app you can find a persons FB profile just by having their phone number.

Another reason why I never give people my phone number.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why would he have your full name so she could have found you on Facebook? All sounds strange to me.

If you have a number in your phone and sync your contacts with the Facebook app you can find a persons FB profile just by having their phone number.

Another reason why I never give people my phone number."

Or better yet...don't have a facebook profile!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Bit tough to deny! She sent me a pic he took of me in my house in underwear! His leg was in the pic and she said he point blank refused to say anything and walked out to work! So I came clean, told her what she wanted to know! She was really nice said it was his fault, he done it to her loads, and thanks for my honesty, so know they are blocked and it's down to them, again thanks for advice everyone! ! "

He has pictures if you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why would he have your full name so she could have found you on Facebook? All sounds strange to me.

If you have a number in your phone and sync your contacts with the Facebook app you can find a persons FB profile just by having their phone number.

Another reason why I never give people my phone number."

You can set your profile so that they can't find you this way. So you can only find the people from your contacts who have this enabled.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Could have been worse for him. At least he wasn't wearing your underwear. "

But atleast it would then have been worth the hassle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He has a fake leg?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

He has a fake leg? "

that made me laugh...a lot

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Help!!! She found my pic and number on his phone and has used my number to find me on Facebook and has messaged me on Facebook wanting to know why he has my pic and number! This is messy!

Just tell her the truth and block her on everything. Simple."

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

He has a fake leg?

that made me laugh...a lot

Did me as well

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Shop him! All men are bastards, we're all the same...oh no wait!

Moral, never give your phone number out. Simples.

KIK is better alternative for this sort of stuff .. keeps you safe from weirdos"

I don't think anything keeps you safe not even kik as I found out recently

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've got a great idea ladies

Come and play with Mrs N and I and completely avoid all that hassle of partners not knowing. We'd both be there so no confusion with legs, bodies, boobs willy's everything there to see in the pix LOL.

xxx

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Shop him! All men are bastards, we're all the same...oh no wait!

Moral, never give your phone number out. Simples.

KIK is better alternative for this sort of stuff .. keeps you safe from weirdos

I don't think anything keeps you safe not even kik as I found out recently "

No kik isn't really any more secure it gets updated so often because it regularly gets hacked

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

"Why would he have your full name so she could have found you on Facebook? All sounds strange to me.

If you have a number in your phone and sync your contacts with the Facebook app you can find a persons FB profile just by having their phone number.

Another reason why I never give people my phone number."

This only works if you or that person have stored there number into their facebook profile, if you dont want to be discovered delete your number from your facebook profile

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

"Shop him! All men are bastards, we're all the same...oh no wait!

Moral, never give your phone number out. Simples.

KIK is better alternative for this sort of stuff .. keeps you safe from weirdos

I don't think anything keeps you safe not even kik as I found out recently

No kik isn't really any more secure it gets updated so often because it regularly gets hacked "

I had kik and it automatically adds your contacts from phone book in your phone, i dont like this feature at all, and i also find with kik that more cheats use that as hide behind a username

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been in a similar situation before. I blocked him and didn't answer any numbers I don't know. I wasn't going to lie for him but I didn't want any drama with her or him either. Left them to sort there own mess out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why would he have your full name so she could have found you on Facebook? All sounds strange to me.

If you have a number in your phone and sync your contacts with the Facebook app you can find a persons FB profile just by having their phone number.

Another reason why I never give people my phone number.

This only works if you or that person have stored there number into their facebook profile, if you dont want to be discovered delete your number from your facebook profile"

You can however stop the contacts from your phone (if its an Iphone) being synched to facebook just don't ask me how cos I can't remember

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Shop him! All men are bastards, we're all the same...oh no wait!

Moral, never give your phone number out. Simples.

KIK is better alternative for this sort of stuff .. keeps you safe from weirdos

I don't think anything keeps you safe not even kik as I found out recently

No kik isn't really any more secure it gets updated so often because it regularly gets hacked

I had kik and it automatically adds your contacts from phone book in your phone, i dont like this feature at all, and i also find with kik that more cheats use that as hide behind a username"

Cheats or fantasists

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By *ch WellMan over a year ago

Scotland

"Why would he have your full name so she could have found you on Facebook? All sounds strange to me.

You can type a phone number into Facebook and sometimes it will show you the persons profile if you have your phone synced to Facebook! "

You know all this yet still dish out phone number?? If any of this is true I suggest youre more careful in future and I dont mean just saying you wont meet married men in your profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell her the truth - she is better off knowing and you have no reason to lie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell her the truth..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why would he have your full name so she could have found you on Facebook? All sounds strange to me.

You can type a phone number into Facebook and sometimes it will show you the persons profile if you have your phone synced to Facebook!

You know all this yet still dish out phone number?? If any of this is true I suggest youre more careful in future and I dont mean just saying you wont meet married men in your profile"

Facebook savvy folk should know go to the privacy settings and put "who can find my by mobile number" to no one. Or similar. Just putting that out there. And I'd block the number - I wouldn't want the hassle.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Why help a cheat out and why prevent a woman from knowing the truth?

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i wouldn't lie for someone who lied to me....

I would just and be honest and tell them where i know them from and give them the profile name.....

let them sort out the rest........

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

Seeing thousands of people walk through our club, there are tons of people who are married on the scene. Couples who come in and are married to other people and single ladies/guys who are married. I don't judge or ask questions; it's up to them what they do and I don't know their personal circumstances.

If they tell me they are married, then fine, if they don't, then fine. I'm really not bothered. If someone I was playing with told me they were single, who then turned out to be married and then tried to drag me into their shit, I wouldn't get involved. I'd leave them to it.

If someone lies to me, they don't deserve my support.

We have had at least 2 dozen calls from spouses who have found a Townhouse card and they ask if their other half is a member. We apologise and say we cannot divulge the details of our members due to data protection. Chances are, if a card has been found, they are a member, but I'm not getting involved! Leave them to it!

You personally have been put in an unfair position. If you knew he was married, then you were part of the lie and went ahead regardless and therefore you should fess up. But you didn't know and now he is entangling you in his web of deceit. Deny, walk away and forget about it.

I do agree though that I smell a rat... his wife may not know a thing and he is playing a game with you.

Good luck xx

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

I am really feeling sorry for his wife; she is probably, right now, sitting in her living room with that sinking feeling

She is probably unsure how far he has gone with the 'other woman' and if there is anything left of her relationship with him to salvage. I truly would not want to be in her shoes right now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with that ive had three today they dont realise the damage it does

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take the call and tell her, yes she will be heartbroken at first, but she deserves better than him!

I have been on the receiving end of a cheaters arrogance and I would love to have known.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've spoken to his wife, I ignored calls and then she messaged me on Facebook, she was very nice, a lot better than I would be in her situation, she explained it wasn't the first time! She only wanted to know if we'd had sex, when, and how we met, apologised for him involving me, and said I wouldn't hear from them again. She was so calm I don't think any of it came as a shock to her. So I guess it's sorted for me and as for them, that is their business.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Given that you warn married men off on your profile....then the shit seems to be where he needs to be dropped.

She has your number...but presumably not your address since he must be saying he doesn't have it?

A few less married men (pretending otherwise) would improve the site immensely....I've nothing against married men...but my advice in the forums to those that have asked is to fess up...then you ladies at least know what you are getting into.

Some prefer married men (for whatever reasons)... I too have no problem playing with married ladies...but I prefer to know first!

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By *manda63Woman over a year ago

Southampton

"Shop him! All men are bastards, we're all the same...oh no wait!

Moral, never give your phone number out. Simples.

KIK is better alternative for this sort of stuff .. keeps you safe from weirdos

I don't think anything keeps you safe not even kik as I found out recently "

WhatsApp is worse than kik

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Shop him! All men are bastards, we're all the same...oh no wait!

Moral, never give your phone number out. Simples.

KIK is better alternative for this sort of stuff .. keeps you safe from weirdos

I don't think anything keeps you safe not even kik as I found out recently

WhatsApp is worse than kik "

KIK is not really it still links contacts and needs updating so often because it's regularly hacked

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By *ch WellMan over a year ago

Scotland

Good to see that despite this stressful situation you're still horny with a dripping wet pussy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Had simular. Like a pillock told the truth and got abuse from both of them .somehow he managed to take moral high ground and sent me threatening messages.I just deleted everything and blocked. Funny part he's still at it from what I've heard ."

And this is the reason why you should continuse to avoid any unknown calls for awhile!

You're damned whatever you do!

And the main thing is... it's not your marriage so why are you dealing with the shit!

Save yourself dealing with an angry/crying/screaming wife!!

Screen your calls!!!!!

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By *manda63Woman over a year ago

Southampton

"Shop him! All men are bastards, we're all the same...oh no wait!

Moral, never give your phone number out. Simples.

KIK is better alternative for this sort of stuff .. keeps you safe from weirdos

I don't think anything keeps you safe not even kik as I found out recently

WhatsApp is worse than kik

KIK is not really it still links contacts and needs updating so often because it's regularly hacked "

We've had no problems with kik so far

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I think I would stop her from messaging on Facebook ~ she's being reasonable now but she may not be in the future, who knows. I'd err on the side of caution & block her now.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Shop him! All men are bastards, we're all the same...oh no wait!

Moral, never give your phone number out. Simples.

KIK is better alternative for this sort of stuff .. keeps you safe from weirdos

I don't think anything keeps you safe not even kik as I found out recently

WhatsApp is worse than kik

KIK is not really it still links contacts and needs updating so often because it's regularly hacked

We've had no problems with kik so far "

Yes and the key words there are "so far"

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I don't think kik links contacts does it?

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"I don't think kik links contacts does it?"

Yes if you don't want it too you have to select for it not to do so via the settings

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"I don't think kik links contacts does it?

Yes if you don't want it too you have to select for it not to do so via the settings "

Not sure about other devices but on Apple ones you go to chat settings and slide to de select "address book matching" which is always automatically set on one when you first install the app

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He has a fake leg? "

Think I have just wet my knickers laughing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've spoken to his wife, I ignored calls and then she messaged me on Facebook, she was very nice, a lot better than I would be in her situation, she explained it wasn't the first time! She only wanted to know if we'd had sex, when, and how we met, apologised for him involving me, and said I wouldn't hear from them again. She was so calm I don't think any of it came as a shock to her. So I guess it's sorted for me and as for them, that is their business. "

Sounds a bit odd that she is so calm, no matter how many times he has done it before. I'm wondering if it's some sort of reverse cuckold situation. A game they play.

Either way I hope you get it sorted and don't hear from either of them again.

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By *manda63Woman over a year ago

Southampton

"Shop him! All men are bastards, we're all the same...oh no wait!

Moral, never give your phone number out. Simples.

KIK is better alternative for this sort of stuff .. keeps you safe from weirdos

I don't think anything keeps you safe not even kik as I found out recently

WhatsApp is worse than kik

KIK is not really it still links contacts and needs updating so often because it's regularly hacked

We've had no problems with kik so far

Yes and the key words there are "so far" "

the so far was a typo, whatsapp, now that was a different story altogether

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some friend you're. Now if she throws him out , I hope he shows up at your door with his bags

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

That's quite a satisfactory outcome I'd say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some lot you all are... No one is thinking about this poor guy.. He at least had the decency to give her a warning before his wife called. All you had to do was ignore the phone call. But no you had to inform on him. If you wouldn't have said anything. The wife would have given up .

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

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By *manda63Woman over a year ago

Southampton

"I don't think kik links contacts does it?

Yes if you don't want it too you have to select for it not to do so via the settings

Not sure about other devices but on Apple ones you go to chat settings and slide to de select "address book matching" which is always automatically set on one when you first install the app "

I didnt know about this on kik, just checked mine and unticked it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some lot you all are... No one is thinking about this poor guy.. He at least had the decency to give her a warning before his wife called. All you had to do was ignore the phone call. But no you had to inform on him. If you wouldn't have said anything. The wife would have given up .

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

.... Because the women forced him to fuck them?

It's not his fault. Poor guy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This happened to me years ago the Mrs texted me and had ago at me, i said if i was you i would leave him. Suprise kept texting slagging me off had to warn her i would go to the police.

That got rid of her for good, don't lie for the guy though. I had no idea he was married said he was a single army guy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

.... Because the women forced him to fuck them?

It's not his fault. Poor guy."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It doesnt matter what you say,, she will know you are lying. Women know,,simples..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had the same, I was single, he rang me to say his wife had found out by going through his phone, again what wife?? He said he was single. I told him I wouldn't lie for him and if she rang I would tell her everything. She didn't ring and I didn't bother with him again. Sorted!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had the same, I was single, he rang me to say his wife had found out by going through his phone, again what wife?? He said he was single. I told him I wouldn't lie for him and if she rang I would tell her everything. She didn't ring and I didn't bother with him again. Sorted!!"

Again, what wife?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What would you do?

Drop him in 10 tons of shit for not telling you?

Or help a man out, knowing his wife probably won't believe a word of it anyway after all is women know!! ? "

I don't lie. I especially don't lie for strangers.

I would answer her questions honestly and truthfully.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

erm well I'm single now, lol so guess what, similar but in reverse. Well life goes on, to be honest, your probably right, about her believing any stories. I would tell her it any way, and leave it at that. He will get his rewards at some point. To any guys who are married and playing away. Just think what you stand to loose. To ladies, well us guys just have this drive lol.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

It would have been more decent of him to tell her he was married giving her a choice of whether to carry on or not.

He also had the choice not to cheat.

Saying he's been decent is stretching any meaningful purpose of the word.

Why does she have to lie for him? She owes him nothing hence no strings attached.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ooh a bit harsh on the lady this, we all have choices

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By *aneandpaulCouple over a year ago

cleveleys

Tell not to worry it was a one off then tell her she must be easy to please

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

"Shop him! All men are bastards, we're all the same...oh no wait!

Moral, never give your phone number out. Simples.

KIK is better alternative for this sort of stuff .. keeps you safe from weirdos

I don't think anything keeps you safe not even kik as I found out recently

WhatsApp is worse than kik

KIK is not really it still links contacts and needs updating so often because it's regularly hacked

We've had no problems with kik so far "

Never had no problem with whatsapp. Kik constantly crashes and sends me alerts that found s contact in my phone book thats joined kik

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

Then the "poor guy" should keep it in his trousers then, if he loses anything its because of actions he took !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some friend you're. Now if she throws him out , I hope he shows up at your door with his bags

She isn't a friend...just another gullible victim that this married cheat managed to trick into a shag. Her profile clearly states she does not willingly meet married men. If you read the rest of the thread you would realise this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sarcasm

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

You don't know about the sisterhood then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

.... Because the women forced him to fuck them?

It's not his fault. Poor guy.

Errrrrr...yes it is!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman over a year ago

stourbridge area

A very similar thing happened to me on here ...

Wife rang me screaching , swearing etc ....

I calmly said ... oh yes I remember your husband ...hes on fabswingers... he comes to our gangbangs regularly ....

End of conversation ..she went very quiet ...

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By *carlett696969Couple over a year ago

shropshire/london

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies

Don't you think it's right then that he should lose half his money and house then if it ends in divorce. Should it be some favourable split to the man because well...... he is a man after all.

Wow what a victorian statement. Hey this thread could run and run LOL.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

Why would you say this?. He knew exactly what he was getting into when he started fucking around behind his wifes back. I have had this myself with women turning up on my doorstep of all things to tell me. The situation is that he should not be doing this and as he is he should be more careful and honest with women about the fact that he is married so they have the choice whether to continue the chat or not. No other OP should be put in the same situation as this OP has been and if he is going to lose half of everything, he should think more with his head than his cock. Simple

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

I'm a firm believer that unless you are willing to accept all the consequences of your actions for good or bad you shouldn't be doing what your doing

I'm not willing to accept the possible consequence of being labelled as the skanky other woman that led her poor fella astray (even though he couldn't be led unless he wanted to be which their Mrs always seems to forget) so I choose not to knowingly meet married men.

I'd be mortified if what happened to the OP happened to me and I certainly wouldn't lie for someone that lied for me. He made his bed then laid in it with another woman so the dirty laundry is his to clean

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

Do people on here not understand sarcasm?

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

Do people on here not understand sarcasm?

No I got that he said it in sarcasm and jest it's just some people don't find what he said funny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money.

Consider it a tax on stupidity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Although I think he should of been honest with you say his was married and why he's on fab

And it's horrible that he's hurt his with what he has done.

Just think why most of us are using fab in the first place,

We all are wanting more from our sex lives and lest be honest how many of us have had a partner that has little or no sex drive and just lay there like a sack of spuds, it's just the way some people are made they can't help it.

Obviously the guy was looking for more excitement and he found what he was looking for on fab,

It's not a crime to want more out our sex lives.

But in all fairness you both went a bit too far by swapping phone numbers when what happens on fab stays on fab weather your married,single,straight or gay not one of us likes to belt out to friends and family that we use fab to get our kicks.

All in all

Yes he should of said he was married but at the same time he should of said why he was on here,

You shouldn't of swapped numbers.

You don't know he's situation at home, that could be reason he on here.

He came here looking for something like the rest of us and found it with you

He went the wrong way about it but you were both happy in the time spent together.

Give the man a break!

But don't meet him again and block him just for the simple fact he should of been honest with you from the start.

Just my opinion the choice is inevitably yours to make.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

Do people on here not understand sarcasm?

Sarcasm or his belief in things, it isn't funny at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Although I think he should of been honest with you say his was married and why he's on fab

And it's horrible that he's hurt his with what he has done.

Just think why most of us are using fab in the first place,

Obviously the guy was looking for more excitement and he found what he was looking for on fab,

It's not a crime to want more out our sex lives.

All in all

Yes he should of said he was married but at the same time he should of said why he was on here,

You shouldn't of swapped numbers.

You don't know he's situation at home, that could be reason he on here.

He came here looking for something like the rest of us and found it with you

He went the wrong way about it but you were both happy in the time spent together.

Give the man a break!

But don't meet him again and block him just for the simple fact he should of been honest with you from the start.

Just my opinion the choice is inevitably yours to make."

He made an informed choice...neither the OP nor his poor wife did....Can't see why he deserves a break personally...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

Do people on here not understand sarcasm?

Sarcasm or his belief in things, it isn't funny at all"

Who said sarcasm should be funny?

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

"Although I think he should of been honest with you say his was married and why he's on fab

And it's horrible that he's hurt his with what he has done.

Just think why most of us are using fab in the first place,

Obviously the guy was looking for more excitement and he found what he was looking for on fab,

It's not a crime to want more out our sex lives.

All in all

Yes he should of said he was married but at the same time he should of said why he was on here,

You shouldn't of swapped numbers.

You don't know he's situation at home, that could be reason he on here.

He came here looking for something like the rest of us and found it with you

He went the wrong way about it but you were both happy in the time spent together.

Give the man a break!

But don't meet him again and block him just for the simple fact he should of been honest with you from the start.

Just my opinion the choice is inevitably yours to make."

How exactly is swapping numbers going to far?

How exactly is it right that cause he fancies a bit more than what he gets at home?

How is it right that his poor wife is sat with a ruined relationship because of his actions?

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

Do people on here not understand sarcasm?

Sarcasm or his belief in things, it isn't funny at all

Who said sarcasm should be funny?"

Most phychologists will tell you people use sarcasm for one of two reasons to mask their true feelings on a matter or as humour to often mask insecurities or guilt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe it was meant as sarcasm and I am sorry that I did not see that. Having been the wife who has been on the receiving end of an unfaithful twat of a husband more than once to be honest, I just believe that this guy deserves all that he gets. Xx

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

"Maybe it was meant as sarcasm and I am sorry that I did not see that. Having been the wife who has been on the receiving end of an unfaithful twat of a husband more than once to be honest, I just believe that this guy deserves all that he gets. Xx"

Exactly this

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Most cheats don't realise that on some level their spouse already knows what they are doing too, it's just a matter of proving it, they always underestimate how well their spouse knows them and it catches up with them all eventually, usually when they let their guard down because they've got cocky over "getting away with it" for so long

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

Do people on here not understand sarcasm?

Sarcasm or his belief in things, it isn't funny at all

Who said sarcasm should be funny?

Most phychologists will tell you people use sarcasm for one of two reasons to mask their true feelings on a matter or as humour to often mask insecurities or guilt "

Maybe. And what do the others say?

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

They think they are very clever. But all which is being hoped for that he (or she) will finally get it out of their system and start behaving decently

Unfortunately, that rarely happens

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

Do people on here not understand sarcasm?

Sarcasm or his belief in things, it isn't funny at all

Who said sarcasm should be funny?

Most phychologists will tell you people use sarcasm for one of two reasons to mask their true feelings on a matter or as humour to often mask insecurities or guilt

Maybe. And what do the others say?"

Basically that the person just likes to be a clever sod that gets off on trolling

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

They think they are very clever. But all which is being hoped for that he (or she) will finally get it out of their system and start behaving decently

Unfortunately, that rarely happens

That's it I've got the Sex I needed now I can go back and play happy families. Oh wait I'm not getting sex again, well I did get away with it once so maybe just one more time won't hurt, so on so forth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cut him loose ,, have nothing more to do with him, put call blocker on you're phone, and if she does get your address and turn up tell her the truth,, ,not your fault or prob hun, ,

Guys like that piss of those of us who are honest by getting a bad name for all

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

Now this poor man is going to lose his house and half his money. Because you couldn't keep your mouth shut.. With friends like you. Who needs enemies.

Do people on here not understand sarcasm?

Sarcasm or his belief in things, it isn't funny at all

Who said sarcasm should be funny?

Most phychologists will tell you people use sarcasm for one of two reasons to mask their true feelings on a matter or as humour to often mask insecurities or guilt

Maybe. And what do the others say?"

I say that the man that wrote the comment is also a man that lost his house and money through getting caught cheating himself

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