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By *itreMan
over a year ago
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"Hi just wondering why the majority of folks limit their preference age range to a max of 54/55 what's the problem with over 60s it's supposed to be the new 40 isn't it?  "
I agree wholeheartedly with this, so, so many filter ranges end at 55... perhaps trying to tell us "oldies" something!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi just wondering why the majority of folks limit their preference age range to a max of 54/55 what's the problem with over 60s it's supposed to be the new 40 isn't it? "
45 seems to be the cut off point I find
Bit silly though as most people are sorted by this . No young kids , good place in their career , mortgage paid off
Kids moved out plenty of good social times . Guys are starting to take care of themselves at 45 cutting down on unhealthy practices , the gym etc etc
45 is the new 21 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iike a good bottle of wine some age better than others but you wont know till you taste it. You look good to me your partner obviously appreciates the finer things"
Thanks mate made my day |
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By *urbsMan
over a year ago
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"Well as I've just reached 60 it hasn't stopped me my man says my body is better than some younger women xx but then he's bias lol xx"
I would agree with your man you have a fantastic body x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as I've just reached 60 it hasn't stopped me my man says my body is better than some younger women xx but then he's bias lol xx"
Your man is right |
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I'm having plenty of fun on here and don't waste my time worrying about other people's age limits.
As a rule you'll always find that the most "common" upper age limits are the ones nearest to yours, because they're the ones that concern you most!
Simple really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have no under 45's..what the people with that age range?.. Haha... Everyone has preference... My age range is set how it is.. As parents in 60's and teenage children.. So would feel a little strange for me... Thats all x |
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"Hi just wondering why the majority of folks limit their preference age range to a max of 54/55 what's the problem with over 60s it's supposed to be the new 40 isn't it? "
It's their preference to which they're entitled . We limit the lower and upper end of ours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have no under 45's..what the people with that age range?.. Haha... Everyone has preference... My age range is set how it is.. As parents in 60's and teenage children.. So would feel a little strange for me... Thats all x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as I've just reached 60 it hasn't stopped me my man says my body is better than some younger women xx but then he's bias lol xx
I would agree with your man you have a fantastic body x "
Thank you x |
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"Hi just wondering why the majority of folks limit their preference age range to a max of 54/55 what's the problem with over 60s it's supposed to be the new 40 isn't it?
I agree wholeheartedly with this, so, so many filter ranges end at 55... perhaps trying to tell us "oldies" something!!!!"
They can tell us what they like.
We are heading rapidly (and disgracefully) towards the big six oh and we've never had so much fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we are in our 50s and have more than enough people to meet and chat to within our age ranges - in fact they are tending to get lower - if we struggled we would widen the gap but no need atm |
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It's just a bit arbitrary .
Some think 60 is old ( some think 40 or 45 is old).
Up to them; if you keep yourself fit and look after yourself, it doesn't matter.
I am already outside many peoples age filters; doesn't bother me....
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By *llebWoman
over a year ago
Poulton Le Fylde |
I'm now 61, and in the best shape in over 20 years.
I haven't been with anyone older than myself, but there are some mighty fine specimens of young men around but 38 is my lower limit..... God that looks indecent written down...! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fortunately those shallow enough in their selfish choices to ignore those of us that may be amongst the most reliable and relaxed of "social shaggers" on here will themselves turn 60 . . . then those of us still around can laugh as they find themselves high and dry!  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Hi just wondering why the majority of folks limit their preference age range to a max of 54/55 what's the problem with over 60s it's supposed to be the new 40 isn't it? "
Concentrate on the folk who are looking for your age group.
Everyone has preferences.. |
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"I'm now 61, and in the best shape in over 20 years.
I haven't been with anyone older than myself, but there are some mighty fine specimens of young men around but 38 is my lower limit..... God that looks indecent written down...!"
I'm the same age, and, though it's obviously more difficult for men generally, still managed to meet a lovely tall slim local 30 year old woman twice, this last year, so no age barrier here |
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"It amuses us when you come across a couple, female late thirties, male mid fifties, upper age limit 45!!"
Some guys get very exercised my age limits just cutting them out, but I have found a surprising number of younger women like and seek older men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as I've just reached 60 it hasn't stopped me my man says my body is better than some younger women xx but then he's bias lol xx"
I so agree you have a very sexy body
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi just wondering why the majority of folks limit their preference age range to a max of 54/55 what's the problem with over 60s it's supposed to be the new 40 isn't it? "
No problem other than I don't want to fuck them...If that's okay with you?
It's not the new 40, it's still 60... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi just wondering why the majority of folks limit their preference age range to a max of 54/55 what's the problem with over 60s it's supposed to be the new 40 isn't it?
No problem other than I don't want to fuck them...If that's okay with you?
It's not the new 40, it's still 60."
LOL!!!!!!!! No marks there for political correctness! |
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"Hi just wondering why the majority of folks limit their preference age range to a max of 54/55 what's the problem with over 60s it's supposed to be the new 40 isn't it? "
It is what it is and isn't supposed to be anything else...
Whatever people choose to set as their age limits is fine.
Whingeing by those who fall outside this range doesn't get anybody anywhere...
Sheeesh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fortunately those shallow enough in their selfish choices to ignore those of us that may be amongst the most reliable and relaxed of "social shaggers" on here will themselves turn 60 . . . then those of us still around can laugh as they find themselves high and dry! "
Where does shallow and selfish come into personal preference over who you want to fuck?
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"I'm now 61, and in the best shape in over 20 years.
I haven't been with anyone older than myself, but there are some mighty fine specimens of young men around but 38 is my lower limit..... God that looks indecent written down...!"
Time to spread your wings then.  |
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"Fortunately those shallow enough in their selfish choices to ignore those of us that may be amongst the most reliable and relaxed of "social shaggers" on here will themselves turn 60 . . . then those of us still around can laugh as they find themselves high and dry!
Where does shallow and selfish come into personal preference over who you want to fuck?
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Exactly, preference is what it is and that doesn't make someone shallow because they have one.
I don't fancy old men, never have, never will. And I'll run my life how I like thanks. |
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By *llebWoman
over a year ago
Poulton Le Fylde |
"Fortunately those shallow enough in their selfish choices to ignore those of us that may be amongst the most reliable and relaxed of "social shaggers" on here will themselves turn 60 . . . then those of us still around can laugh as they find themselves high and dry!
Where does shallow and selfish come into personal preference over who you want to fuck?
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Exactly this , I have a type and preference but I don't whinge about those whose criteria I don't meet, just move on , cast the net again! |
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"Fortunately those shallow enough in their selfish choices to ignore those of us that may be amongst the most reliable and relaxed of "social shaggers" on here will themselves turn 60 . . . then those of us still around can laugh as they find themselves high and dry! "
What a bitter sentiment and statement |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fortunately those shallow enough in their selfish choices to ignore those of us that may be amongst the most reliable and relaxed of "social shaggers" on here will themselves turn 60 . . . then those of us still around can laugh as they find themselves high and dry!
Where does shallow and selfish come into personal preference over who you want to fuck?
Exactly, preference is what it is and that doesn't make someone shallow because they have one.
I don't fancy old men, never have, never will. And I'll run my life how I like thanks."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where does shallow and selfish come into personal preference over who you want to fuck? "
Simple. You exchange pleasantries with a younger couple, virtually all of what you have for "wish lists" is looked for by them and vice-versa, local, able to meet, etc. etc. . . . and then you find their profile is tweaked to lower their age preference.  Suddenly you become ignored.
Like others have already said, so many couples have very blinkered age limits but, if that is their most important consideration, then at least you know you're not missing much.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm now 61, and in the best shape in over 20 years.
I haven't been with anyone older than myself, but there are some mighty fine specimens of young men around but 38 is my lower limit..... God that looks indecent written down...!"
I agree you look fantastic shame I don't fit your criteria - so close yet so far  |
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"Fortunately those shallow enough in their selfish choices to ignore those of us that may be amongst the most reliable and relaxed of "social shaggers" on here will themselves turn 60 . . . then those of us still around can laugh as they find themselves high and dry! "
 selfish? Your attitude is alarming. |
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"Fortunately those shallow enough in their selfish choices to ignore those of us that may be amongst the most reliable and relaxed of "social shaggers" on here will themselves turn 60 . . . then those of us still around can laugh as they find themselves high and dry!
selfish? Your attitude is alarming."
not to mention mean, peevish, self-centred, and just nasty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where does shallow and selfish come into personal preference over who you want to fuck?
Simple. You exchange pleasantries with a younger couple, virtually all of what you have for "wish lists" is looked for by them and vice-versa, local, able to meet, etc. etc. . . . and then you find their profile is tweaked to lower their age preference. Suddenly you become ignored.
Like others have already said, so many couples have very blinkered age limits but, if that is their most important consideration, then at least you know you're not missing much. "
They didn't want to meet you, how very selfish of them 
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"Where does shallow and selfish come into personal preference over who you want to fuck?
Simple. You exchange pleasantries with a younger couple, virtually all of what you have for "wish lists" is looked for by them and vice-versa, local, able to meet, etc. etc. . . . and then you find their profile is tweaked to lower their age preference. Suddenly you become ignored.
Like others have already said, so many couples have very blinkered age limits but, if that is their most important consideration, then at least you know you're not missing much. "
I expect if you displayed any of the attitudes that you have here during your "exchange of pleasantries" then no wonder they were keen to find any means at their disposal not to continue the conversation... |
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I prefer guys in their thirties/ forties when we have threesomes with single guys. Much younger than us but it's my preference. When it comes to meeting couples and single females our age limit is much wider.
I doubt we'd meet anyone who was judgmental about our choices or displayed a sense of entitlement. It's meant to be fun after all.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Where does shallow and selfish come into personal preference over who you want to fuck?
Simple. You exchange pleasantries with a younger couple, virtually all of what you have for "wish lists" is looked for by them and vice-versa, local, able to meet, etc. etc. . . . and then you find their profile is tweaked to lower their age preference. Suddenly you become ignored.
Like others have already said, so many couples have very blinkered age limits but, if that is their most important consideration, then at least you know you're not missing much. "
Sounds like entitlement to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My preference is for ladies a few years or more older than myself, which in practice means ladies in an approximate age range of around 55 years old and upwards...but I'm not so fixated on age that I'd be prepared to miss meeting someone really nice who is older than my nominal upper age limit, or younger than my nominal lower age limit...the age limit guide is just that...a very general guide. PERSONALITY AND INDIVIDUAL ATTRACTION ARE KEY.
It really is a case of FABULOUS FIFTIES, SENSUAL SIXTIES, AND SENSATIONAL SEVENTIES. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm now 61, and in the best shape in over 20 years.
I haven't been with anyone older than myself, but there are some mighty fine specimens of young men around but 38 is my lower limit..... God that looks indecent written down...!"
You look amazing, great body |
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"Hi just wondering why the majority of folks limit their preference age range to a max of 54/55 what's the problem with over 60s it's supposed to be the new 40 isn't it? "
And something else you've not considered is that a lot of young guys get overlooked because they are a similar age to people's children. And it feels wrong for them.
It would feel bloody wrong for me to have sex with someone my Dad's age |
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By *llebWoman
over a year ago
Poulton Le Fylde |
"I'm now 61, and in the best shape in over 20 years.
I haven't been with anyone older than myself, but there are some mighty fine specimens of young men around but 38 is my lower limit..... God that looks indecent written down...!
You look amazing, great body "
Thank you , it's challenge I'm winning |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I put 60 because I wouldn't fuck a 99 year old so what random age to I put as a limit? I've fucked some 50 somethings so thought well 60 sounds about right for me to cover the higher 50s.
Sorry if some guys are older but I tried leaving the message filters off and have said no more often than not (plus I get immature youngsters messaging and getting pissy when told no).
You can't please everyone ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my wife loves much older men infact she wouldnt have it any other way she tried much younger men when we first started swinging but prefers groups of older guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Age is one aspect but I have experiences with folk of this age who are experienced and know how to enjoy sexual pleasures with a guy .As long as you can deliver the goods then you will always be in demand xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Age is one aspect but I have experiences with folk of this age who are experienced and know how to enjoy sexual pleasures with a guy .As long as you can deliver the goods then you will always be in demand xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like others have said, I have an age limit as a rough guide. Some guys are very sexy in their 50's but some are no so. Some guys look really young for their age and others look much older.
If the guy is hot and it doesn't feel like I'm shagging someone my dad's age then it's all good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as I've just reached 60 it hasn't stopped me my man says my body is better than some younger women xx but then he's bias lol xx"
Ide agree shame your only after the ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well as I've just reached 60 it hasn't stopped me my man says my body is better than some younger women xx but then he's bias lol xx"
Your man is spot on |
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