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"Tips and advice guys on making my wife squirt!
Anything that should be specifically done to help encourage it"
Inbox me I have a few things that have helped me. But most of all does she want to squirt?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As with anything sexual, i'd expect her to be wanting this and giving full consent to being experimented with! If so, then it really is a matter of her relaxing as much as possible and trying to push past the feeling like she needs to wee and wants you to stop. You should have a safe word so if she really is finding it all too uncomfortable then she can use it. I can only squirt when hubby quickly does a "come hither" motion combined with moving his entire hand back and forth. It's very tricky and not all that comfortable for him but he loves the effect it has on me! Good luck and make sure those finger nails are short and files so there are no sharp snags xxx |
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"Oh dear god. Not again. She's not a performing seal  "
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Ask her; does she want to squirt?
Some men seem to think making women squirt is some " badge"
Some women don't squirt, some never will , some do and hate it.
Others do and love it |
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Can not see what the fuss is all about just because your wife does not squirt does not mean she is not fulfilled.
Its a bit like saying if my wife or partner does not have an orgasm she does not love me.
Maybe you are trying to hard or maybe she is just one of those women that does not squirt. |
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As others have said, remember that not every woman squirts. Every woman is an individual and everyone responds differently to sexual stimulation and pleasure. Some literally squirt like a fountain and others never will no matter who tries what. She's not a performing seal, as another poster put it.
That said, communicate with her about what she feels might stimulate her more during foreplay and sex. Assuming she wishes to, consider trying new toys.
My wife squirted for the first time last year when I was fucking her while she used a new bullet toy on her clit. Something we've done countless times over the years but this new toy somehow helped her squirt. She only seems to do it with that toy and with me fucking her, something must feel "right" about that particular set of stimuli.
But squirting isn't a goal to be worn like a Scout badge. If it happens, great. If it doesn't, great. Just do your best to give your wife satisfying times in the bedroom. |
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It's not the holy grail of sexual satisfaction.
However after almost 30year's together I have started making her gush/squirt in the last few weeks.
It's very much a novelty and we both see it as a bit of fun, the novelty will wear off soon and we will save it for special occasions.
I would point out she actually enjoys the feeling and has learned to do it on her own which she does when masturbating.
It's extremely messy and prepare to get very very wet.
Body position and being fully hydrated is very important.
We weren't trying to do it when we found out.
It was purely accidental, so don't force it.
Experiment and have fun, don't put too much pressure on each other.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tips and advice guys on making my wife squirt!
Anything that should be specifically done to help encourage it"
She knows her body better than anyone, so ask her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Just like to point out we were together when I posted this, she knows about it, in fact it is my wife that wants to experience it more than me.
Thank you for everyone's comments |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Making a women squirt is fairly ease and very enjoyable for both parties. She will have to be relaxed and open to the feeling of pressure. Message me if want to know more. Dan x |
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I'm a 'squirter' and there is absolutely no technique to it in my opinion, I just have to be relaxed.
However no matter what type of orgasm I have dry/wet/squirting they all feel incredible and if you put your wife under pressure to squirt because you think that's the ultimate pleasure, it'll probably have the opposite effect. If you want to get wet, have her piss on your or something hahaha  |
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Several years ago, when I was with an ex we looked it up on the Internet as we were both intrigued. Lots of practice was needed, but practice makes perfect. 
I find the "come hither" movement over my g-spot is what gets me going. Such a great feeling!
Mrs x |
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By *renchieeeWoman
over a year ago
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G point over stimulation is key.... But don't put too much pressure, performance anxiety does also affect women, it is all about creating a naughty horny moment, stress and pressure free....as most things in women pleasure most is in the mind...  |
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If she squirts she squirts I agree sometimes the desire to squirt isnt their and she could put to much pressure on wanting it and you may get an undesired affect just saying   |
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"Just like to point out we were together when I posted this, she knows about it, in fact it is my wife that wants to experience it more than me.
Thank you for everyone's comments "
As I said before.....cannot message you guys....feel free to message me for techniques.... |
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"I'm a 'squirter' and there is absolutely no technique to it in my opinion, I just have to be relaxed.
However no matter what type of orgasm I have dry/wet/squirting they all feel incredible and if you put your wife under pressure to squirt because you think that's the ultimate pleasure, it'll probably have the opposite effect. If you want to get wet, have her piss on your or something hahaha "
Couldn't agree more, another tip might be to buy her a water pistol she can squirt all she likes with that. |
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"G point over stimulation is key.... But don't put too much pressure, performance anxiety does also affect women, it is all about creating a naughty horny moment, stress and pressure free....as most things in women pleasure most is in the mind... "
Took the words right out of my mouth. Not everyone knows where the gspot is either....up about an inch inside behind the clit...A slight rough spot about the size of 10/50p and become engorged as u stimulate it. Key is not too much pressure but plenty of stimulation... |
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Is it a must that a woman should squirt/gush? When I see veries off guys to women it seems to be the wow factor in their play. I don't gush/squirt and still very much enjoy myself. But because I don't does that mean sex with me isn't wow?  |
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"Is it a must that a woman should squirt/gush? When I see veries off guys to women it seems to be the wow factor in their play. I don't gush/squirt and still very much enjoy myself. But because I don't does that mean sex with me isn't wow? "
Don't think the issue of squirting ability makes sex any better or less so....its just another aspect. Some enjoy it some don't. I think the issue with enjoyment in my opinion is more to do with if the female is enjoying it. If she isn't then I won't be either. If I'm not enjoying it she probably isn't too.
It's like anal...some do and some don't. ..like blow jobs some do some like me find them a bit take it or leave it. |
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"Is it a must that a woman should squirt/gush? When I see veries off guys to women it seems to be the wow factor in their play. I don't gush/squirt and still very much enjoy myself. But because I don't does that mean sex with me isn't wow?
Don't think the issue of squirting ability makes sex any better or less so....its just another aspect. Some enjoy it some don't. I think the issue with enjoyment in my opinion is more to do with if the female is enjoying it. If she isn't then I won't be either. If I'm not enjoying it she probably isn't too.
It's like anal...some do and some don't. ..like blow jobs some do some like me find them a bit take it or leave it. "
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"Is it a must that a woman should squirt/gush? When I see veries off guys to women it seems to be the wow factor in their play. I don't gush/squirt and still very much enjoy myself. But because I don't does that mean sex with me isn't wow? "
Not at all. Sex is still great regardless of if someone can squirt/gush. Some like it, some don't. I love it and seem attract others that do too.
I have been told by a couple of guys I've met that it's the equivalent of seeing a man ejaculate. A visual thing.
For me, it's the intense feeling and seeing the pleasure others get from it too. Xx |
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"Is it a must that a woman should squirt/gush? When I see veries off guys to women it seems to be the wow factor in their play. I don't gush/squirt and still very much enjoy myself. But because I don't does that mean sex with me isn't wow?
Not at all. Sex is still great regardless of if someone can squirt/gush. Some like it, some don't. I love it and seem attract others that do too.
I have been told by a couple of guys I've met that it's the equivalent of seeing a man ejaculate. A visual thing.
For me, it's the intense feeling and seeing the pleasure others get from it too. Xx"
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Not all women will/can/ or want to ..... Not everything that works on one woman will work on another .. it is also very much a in the mind thing.
Lee can make me gush/squirt very quickly... But other men even if they have the skills can't make me as mentally I can't relax enough x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The poor OP was only asking advice, not looking to get strung up lol
Squirting/Gushinging/Watersports loving people are always ridiculed and this is no different
lets face it we like different things |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh dear god. Not again. She's not a performing seal
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Ask her; does she want to squirt?
Some men seem to think making women squirt is some " badge"
Some women don't squirt, some never will , some do and hate it.
Others do and love it"
^^This^^
Doesn't make you a better lover or more of a man!
Every woman is different |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't mind that I don't gush. I was just pointing out that going by guys veries it seems to be the be all and end all of a good sex session. I quite like having sex on a dry bed  "
Me too! |
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