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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi we have been verified members now for 8 months have 19 friends have pics on our profile but still can't get any females to chat with us. We have been trying now for 3 hours and nothing! What are we doing wrong? Any advice would be great thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably doing nothing wrong really, just single women tend to be really fussy and in high demand on here.
Also check their profile to be sure they definitely wanna meet couples, some of us are here only to meet other singles (if you aren't doing this already). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So you've 19 friends that you've met? Chat with them, if they don't really want to meet or mess you around, remove them. Finding women is hard on here as your profile needs to reflect what you can offer and it doesn't, try clubs, parties and socials |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi we have been verified members now for 8 months have 19 friends have pics on our profile but still can't get any females to chat with us. We have been trying now for 3 hours and nothing! What are we doing wrong? Any advice would be great thanks."
Your profile has 1 public picture, you haven't displayed any verifications and it's saying the one you do have is from a fem by meet?.. single bi fems are the unicorns of fab and in high demand they have the option to pick and chose who they want to. We have been lucky in our time here to have met 4 or 5. You just have to keep looking or even try going to a club x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It might sound harsh but I'm just not interested in meeting couples where the woman is bicurious. Everyone has to start somewhere, but I'd prefer someone who knows what they're doing - not just using me as an experiment.
I can't speak for all the other bisexual unicorns out there, of course... |
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By *lieneWoman
over a year ago
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"It might sound harsh but I'm just not interested in meeting couples where the woman is bicurious. Everyone has to start somewhere, but I'd prefer someone who knows what they're doing - not just using me as an experiment.
I can't speak for all the other bisexual unicorns out there, of course..."
I agree with swan song. If the lady is just bi curious, and it's the man who messages me, I am under convinced that she will be genuinely interested or wanting to be fully involved.
I find the 'my partner has a fantasy of watching another woman lick me' or 'my partner wants to fuck two girls and I want to give him that gift' messages pretty boring and invariably they end up with a no thanks.
I want to meet with two fully interested participants who want to enjoy the experience fully and will BOTH be involved.
I'm not a gift...I don't come with a bow on. If I choose a couple it will be because both of them have contacted me.... Which is infinitely sexier than feeling like someone is only into it in a half hearted way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It might sound harsh but I'm just not interested in meeting couples where the woman is bicurious. Everyone has to start somewhere, but I'd prefer someone who knows what they're doing - not just using me as an experiment.
I can't speak for all the other bisexual unicorns out there, of course...
I agree with swan song. If the lady is just bi curious, and it's the man who messages me, I am under convinced that she will be genuinely interested or wanting to be fully involved.
I find the 'my partner has a fantasy of watching another woman lick me' or 'my partner wants to fuck two girls and I want to give him that gift' messages pretty boring and invariably they end up with a no thanks.
I want to meet with two fully interested participants who want to enjoy the experience fully and will BOTH be involved.
I'm not a gift...I don't come with a bow on. If I choose a couple it will be because both of them have contacted me.... Which is infinitely sexier than feeling like someone is only into it in a half hearted way."
This is the same for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It might sound harsh but I'm just not interested in meeting couples where the woman is bicurious. Everyone has to start somewhere, but I'd prefer someone who knows what they're doing - not just using me as an experiment.
I can't speak for all the other bisexual unicorns out there, of course...
I agree with swan song. If the lady is just bi curious, and it's the man who messages me, I am under convinced that she will be genuinely interested or wanting to be fully involved.
I find the 'my partner has a fantasy of watching another woman lick me' or 'my partner wants to fuck two girls and I want to give him that gift' messages pretty boring and invariably they end up with a no thanks.
I want to meet with two fully interested participants who want to enjoy the experience fully and will BOTH be involved.
I'm not a gift...I don't come with a bow on. If I choose a couple it will be because both of them have contacted me.... Which is infinitely sexier than feeling like someone is only into it in a half hearted way.
This is the same for me "
The unicorns have spoken! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It might sound harsh but I'm just not interested in meeting couples where the woman is bicurious. Everyone has to start somewhere, but I'd prefer someone who knows what they're doing - not just using me as an experiment.
I can't speak for all the other bisexual unicorns out there, of course...
I agree with swan song. If the lady is just bi curious, and it's the man who messages me, I am under convinced that she will be genuinely interested or wanting to be fully involved.
I find the 'my partner has a fantasy of watching another woman lick me' or 'my partner wants to fuck two girls and I want to give him that gift' messages pretty boring and invariably they end up with a no thanks.
I want to meet with two fully interested participants who want to enjoy the experience fully and will BOTH be involved.
I'm not a gift...I don't come with a bow on. If I choose a couple it will be because both of them have contacted me.... Which is infinitely sexier than feeling like someone is only into it in a half hearted way."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just have patience, that's what we tell ourselves, we've been on here for about 3 years on and off and not yet had success with a lady but we will keep trying, we've met two males from here in that time too. We had one meet with a lady but it was arranged outside of fab with one of Mr Ess's work colleagues. I've also found that I can be very fussy in who I find attractive so I've accepted that I play a big part in us not getting meets with females (or more meets with males)
The main thing to remember is, fab can produce all kinds of fun, if you don't find that special lady today you may find her tomorrow or the next day but you can still enjoy plenty of fun while your waiting
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Three hours hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahaha
Sorry. I will compose myself.
I/we find it difficult to meet with a lady as well.
I've spoken to two gorgeous fun intelligent creatures, they both said they wanted to meet us....but they both got cold feet when it came to actually arranging it.
Which is totally fine and totally understandable. If I was on here as a unicorn rather than with my husband I would be REALLY nervous about meeting a couple. They already know each other, have rapport and chemistry etc etc
So expecting things to happen quickly and smoothly will make you seem pushy and overly intense.
Relax. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, so what? It's not the end of the world!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Three hours hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahaha
Sorry. I will compose myself.
I/we find it difficult to meet with a lady as well.
I've spoken to two gorgeous fun intelligent creatures, they both said they wanted to meet us....but they both got cold feet when it came to actually arranging it.
Which is totally fine and totally understandable. If I was on here as a unicorn rather than with my husband I would be REALLY nervous about meeting a couple. They already know each other, have rapport and chemistry etc etc
So expecting things to happen quickly and smoothly will make you seem pushy and overly intense.
Relax. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, so what? It's not the end of the world! "
I like your attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Three hours hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahaha
Sorry. I will compose myself.
I/we find it difficult to meet with a lady as well.
I've spoken to two gorgeous fun intelligent creatures, they both said they wanted to meet us....but they both got cold feet when it came to actually arranging it.
Which is totally fine and totally understandable. If I was on here as a unicorn rather than with my husband I would be REALLY nervous about meeting a couple. They already know each other, have rapport and chemistry etc etc
So expecting things to happen quickly and smoothly will make you seem pushy and overly intense.
Relax. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, so what? It's not the end of the world! "
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