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over a year ago
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I've been thinking of going to a club for the first time in the next few days, in Manchester, maybe Amour. I'm a bit unsure and wondered if people had any advice for a first timer? And is it acceptable for a single male to go? |
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"I've been thinking of going to a club for the first time in the next few days, in Manchester, maybe Amour. I'm a bit unsure and wondered if people had any advice for a first timer? And is it acceptable for a single male to go?"
Of course its acceptable for single males as long as its not a couples only night.
.the staff at amour are friendly too. |
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Just go in with a open mind and no expectations, thats what i did, within 10 minutes of being inside i was chatting to people and have never looked back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks. Feel like it would be a bit awkward to go on my own?"
Try kage last sunday of the month at partners.
A bunch of people meet up in the arndale food court and all go up together (look for the people with a ballon)
Check fet. Life for the meet up details.
That way you can go to a decent club night (also only 10 wuid entry for everyone) and gonas a group |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Going to try a club in the new year, very nervous tbh. Do I need to take anything with me? Change of clothes?"
Condoms, drinks if you want alcohol (i recommend low % that way you can drink without getting d*unk), some cash, any kinky toys you wish to use.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Go with no expectations, enjoy the environment, speak to people!
Be yourself and don't drink too much, if you can keep to that then your in for a great night  |
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"Go with no expectations, enjoy the environment, speak to people!
Be yourself and don't drink too much, if you can keep to that then your in for a great night "
Interestingly enough Marmite I was looking at trying Mingles in Colchester |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go with no expectations, enjoy the environment, speak to people!
Be yourself and don't drink too much, if you can keep to that then your in for a great night
Interestingly enough Marmite I was looking at trying Mingles in Colchester "
You won't be disappointed if you go to Mingles, fun and friendly people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go with no expectations, enjoy the environment, speak to people!
Be yourself and don't drink too much, if you can keep to that then your in for a great night
Interestingly enough Marmite I was looking at trying Mingles in Colchester
You won't be disappointed if you go to Mingles, fun and friendly people "
Thanks for that we will give it a go in the new year |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Going to try a club in the new year, very nervous tbh. Do I need to take anything with me? Change of clothes?"
I've been going to clubs for about four months now. Currently I have a small pouch/bag containing:
Latex free condoms
Water based lube
A couple of training butt plugs
A small notebook
A pen
I will add to these items as my experience grows...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A small notebook
A pen
I hope these aren't being used to get round the no photography rule in the club.  "
I would imagine it's to take down contact details with a no phone rule, so many people have given me their fab usernames and by the next morning I can't remember what they said. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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A small notebook
A pen
I hope these aren't being used to get round the no photography rule in the club.
I would imagine it's to take down contact details with a no phone rule, so many people have given me their fab usernames and by the next morning I can't remember what they said. "
I borrow a pen of the barman and write fab names on my arm............but then I go home and wash it off by mistake ! Doh |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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A small notebook
A pen
I hope these aren't being used to get round the no photography rule in the club.
I would imagine it's to take down contact details with a no phone rule, so many people have given me their fab usernames and by the next morning I can't remember what they said. "
These two little items can be even more useful than the condoms!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been thinking of going to a club for the first time in the next few days, in Manchester, maybe Amour. I'm a bit unsure and wondered if people had any advice for a first timer? And is it acceptable for a single male to go?"
We have always wondered why guy's pay a fortune to get into a club then just wonder around not talking to anyone.
Personally we would feel alot more comfortable and ay ease with the guy's around us if they were actually talking to each other as well as us.
Making a bit of an atmosphere of general relaxation.
Rather than the awkward silence that usually occurs.
So maybe search local guy's get to know them see if they go clubbing.
Or just chat with other chap's when there.
Don't expect to play when in clubs.
Dress smart, smell good, be friendly, introduce yourself stating from the outset that just because you are talking to them you won't expect to play, you just want to be friendly and polite.
This approach would definitely improve your chances of getting some fun. |
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By *atexpvcTV/TS
over a year ago
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I'm very new to clubs always feel they are seedy.but I'm sure their not. I would love to be taken to a clean private club get dressed there and look sexy..but it's findING a genuine person to pursuade me to go...any offers... |
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