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Keeping her quiet

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi guys

Going to the FWB for New Years, any tips on how I can keep her quiet enough so we don't wake the family while we have a bit of NYE fun?

I was thinking duct tape but don't wanna hurt her face. Her gag is too big for her mouth as well

Many thanks and happy Xmas!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi guys

Going to the FWB for New Years, any tips on how I can keep her quiet enough so we don't wake the family while we have a bit of NYE fun?

I was thinking duct tape but don't wanna hurt her face. Her gag is too big for her mouth as well

Spend the whol evening in separate rooms or go out somewhere

Many thanks and happy Xmas!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Self-restraint?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Self-restraint?"

We've tryed that and she isn't great at it :L

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Self-restraint?

We've tryed that and she isn't great at it :L"

Hotel?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Self-restraint?

We've tryed that and she isn't great at it :L

Hotel?"

Yeah we normally do but have to stay at her place and her family are about :/

Think I may end up being duct tape :L

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Self-restraint?

We've tryed that and she isn't great at it :L

Hotel?

Yeah we normally do but have to stay at her place and her family are about :/

Think I may end up being duct tape :L"

Duct tape is a terrible idea on the face. She's likely to have at least a mild reaction to the glue and have a nice, attractive, square of red markings around her mouth.

Why don't you ask her what would work best for her? Or even - heaven forbid - skip the sex and hang out with her family?

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By *ohnkezCouple over a year ago

shefiield

Invite a friend and spit roast her

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Why don't you ask her what would work best for her?"

^This

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why don't you ask her what would work best for her?

^This"

Unfortunatley she said she didn't know hence why I'm here :/ if either of us knew we wouldn't be asking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Self-restraint?

We've tryed that and she isn't great at it :L"

I didn't mean for her to show self restraint and be quiet.I meant for you both to show it and not have sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why don't you ask her what would work best for her?

^This

Unfortunatley she said she didn't know hence why I'm here :/ if either of us knew we wouldn't be asking"

Save the shagging for when you're back in your own place.

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By *ilk_TreMan over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"...Or even - heaven forbid - skip the sex and hang out with her family?"

I literally LOLed at this!

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By *ilk_TreMan over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Hi guys

Going to the FWB for New Years, any tips on how I can keep her quiet enough so we don't wake the family while we have a bit of NYE fun?

I was thinking duct tape but don't wanna hurt her face. Her gag is too big for her mouth as well

Many thanks and happy Xmas!"

Just make sure the BJ lasts as long as possible. Unless she's the rude type who talks with her mouth full...

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Why don't you ask her what would work best for her?

^This

Unfortunatley she said she didn't know hence why I'm here :/ if either of us knew we wouldn't be asking"

There are literally hundreds of things you can use to gag her.

But to be honest, gagging is probably not going to muffle her loudness, as you can be just as loud through your nose? Gagging is normally used for other purposes than volume control...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Duct tape is a terrible idea on the face. She's likely to have at least a mild reaction to the glue and have a nice, attractive, square of red markings around her mouth."

Bondage tape may work but As Wasp Hunter says duct tape is a really bad idea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Skip the sex!!

Pillows,or kiss her,or shhhhh every couple of seconds. Or don't worry and smile at the in laws in the morning

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi guys

Going to the FWB for New Years, any tips on how I can keep her quiet enough so we don't wake the family while we have a bit of NYE fun?

I was thinking duct tape but don't wanna hurt her face. Her gag is too big for her mouth as well

Many thanks and happy Xmas!"

Sock?

Rohypnol?

Brick?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Use her sexy panties x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Umm I lived in my ex's parents house with him for the first 8 years we were together. Stick a DVD on loud is all you can do and hand over her mouth should be ok.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Just do what I do: be unbelievably terrible at sex. After sufficient practice you should be able to do it without even waking her

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bury her face down into a pillow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I forgot hand over her mouth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

go without sex for one night

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"go without sex for one night"

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By *etLikeMan over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

Step one: Buy a sow from a local farm

Step two: Buy a bacon slicer

Step three: Get the sow up to bed with you both.

Step four: Run sow across bacon slicer.

Step five: Have sex, regardless of sounds.

In the morning, when asked what the noise was, reply honestly by saying you were making seasonal "pigs in blankets"

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By *etLikeMan over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

*sex with your fwb not the pig

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I forgot hand over her mouth."
...2 hands better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just go for it and sod the noise....you can't actually think her family don't know you are fucking?

They have put you in same room after all!

My "friends" dad and his girlfriend turned up at her caravan one Sunday morning when I was staying over......she tried to pretend nothing had happened. Her dad just told her to stop being silly...he knew I was obviously fucking her...it would be more wrong if I wasn't. I just thought fair play! He got my respect if not hers lol!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Put eastenders on the telly op

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I suggest abstaining for the night you'll be pissed anyway

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By *nceinawhileCouple over a year ago

Ipswich

Get her to suck on your shoulder to help stifle the noise, that's what we do most nights to help prevent the neighbours complaining. Plus you end up with some rare old marks left on you as a pleasent reminder.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Knock the noisy bitch out. Ain't hard is it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

I quite like being made to be quiet during sex but never need anything severe as duct tape

we just make it part of our fun a little D/s play....he tells me to be quiet or there will be consequences....a hand over my mouth, or a pillow etc

Very hot

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By *adyA01Woman over a year ago

Wellington

I am naturally very noisy, however when the kids are in the house, a hand over the mouth works well or I grab a pillow! A certain amount of self restraint comes into it as well! No matter how noisy you are it is possible! Makes for more excitement too when you don't want to be heard!

my partner and I have just about perfected it lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am naturally very noisy, however when the kids are in the house, a hand over the mouth works well or I grab a pillow! A certain amount of self restraint comes into it as well! No matter how noisy you are it is possible! Makes for more excitement too when you don't want to be heard!

my partner and I have just about perfected it lol

Such a turn on hearing people. Not your mum or dad tho lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's all very well for the posters who tell the op to go without . But are you not forgetting something here ? She is is his fwb - so pray tell how that works if he goes with her to her family for new year and doesn't get any ?

Where's the benefit in that ?

Maybe the op could suggest to her that since he is going to the trouble of visiting her family with her , that she satisfies him that night and he repays her another night when it wouldn't cause any upset

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Garden shed?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's all very well for the posters who tell the op to go without . But are you not forgetting something here ? She is is his fwb - so pray tell how that works if he goes with her to her family for new year and doesn't get any ?

Where's the benefit in that ?

Well, I always work on the theory that if someone is a 'friend with benefits' then they're a friend first and foremost. So therefore hanging out with them and potentially their family wouldn't be such a hardship after all.

If they're just a casual fuck, then I could see how they might not want to socialise with them.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple over a year ago

Bristol

Where's the benefit in that ?

If they're just a casual fuck, then I could see how they might not want to socialise with them."

Does the OP not get to decide when sex is appropriate? He asked for ideas about how to muffle sound, not on the perceived morality of having sex in the chosen legal and cobsenting scenario.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple over a year ago

Bristol

Where's the benefit in that ?

If they're just a casual fuck, then I could see how they might not want to socialise with them.

Does the OP not get to decide when sex is appropriate? He asked for ideas about how to muffle sound, not on the perceived morality of having sex in the chosen legal and cobsenting scenario."

Consenting, sorry

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By *histler21Man over a year ago

Ipswich

"Hi guys

Going to the FWB for New Years, any tips on how I can keep her quiet enough so we don't wake the family while we have a bit of NYE fun?

I was thinking duct tape but don't wanna hurt her face. Her gag is too big for her mouth as well

Many thanks and happy Xmas!"

Bring along a friend with a bigger knob than you so she can gag on whilst you listen out for movements about the house...

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By *ollie1Couple over a year ago

murcia spain

why would you want to thats almost the best part the noises she makes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi guys

Going to the FWB for New Years, any tips on how I can keep her quiet enough so we don't wake the family while we have a bit of NYE fun?

I was thinking duct tape but don't wanna hurt her face. Her gag is too big for her mouth as well

Many thanks and happy Xmas!"

why not get all the family together for a gang bang, you can all make as much noise as you like then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi guys

Going to the FWB for New Years, any tips on how I can keep her quiet enough so we don't wake the family while we have a bit of NYE fun?

I was thinking duct tape but don't wanna hurt her face. Her gag is too big for her mouth as well

Many thanks and happy Xmas!

why not get all the family together for a gang bang, you can all make as much noise as you like then"

Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Car fun,?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where's the benefit in that ?

If they're just a casual fuck, then I could see how they might not want to socialise with them."

i would think more than fuck buddies if spending night at family home

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Well, I always work on the theory that if someone is a 'friend with benefits' then they're a friend first and foremost. So therefore hanging out with them and potentially their family wouldn't be such a hardship after all."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can be noisy but i can choose to be quiet, bite your lip, hand or pillow.. Unless you are getting fucked in the arse you can physically choose not to make noise.. Heck to piss someone off who kept telling me to scream i stayed deathly silent throughout so i can be done

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

Blimey...some of the sanctimonious on this thread....

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Personally, bearing in mind the time of year, I'm disappointed no-one has suggested going 'cold turkey'

(Not necessarily going without, just shoving a drumstick in her mouth

)

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi guys

Going to the FWB for New Years, any tips on how I can keep her quiet enough so we don't wake the family while we have a bit of NYE fun?

I was thinking duct tape but don't wanna hurt her face. Her gag is too big for her mouth as well

Many thanks and happy Xmas!

why not get all the family together for a gang bang, you can all make as much noise as you like then"

Hahahaha. Better than charades

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She can eat some chocolates whilst she get fucked lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be fair they are HER parents. If she wants to make noise in her parents she knows if she can or not. Personally I wouldn't out of respect, but she's not me.

I find it a bit sad that someone states she doesn't 'know' how to be quiet.

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