FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Support and Advice > what is this site about
what is this site about
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do.
"
On behalf of shag, be patient.
In seriousness, if it's been 2 years maybe it's time to review your profile, your photo's and your approach.
Alternatively delete the profile and start again. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do.
On behalf of shag, be patient.
I'd delete and start again because unfortunately after being here so long without being verified you will be classed as a time waster by some. The other option will be get to a few of the socials to get yourself verified. Best of luck which ever way you choose to go.
In seriousness, if it's been 2 years maybe it's time to review your profile, your photo's and your approach.
Alternatively delete the profile and start again."
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do.
"
Resist sagging others off, ie comparing your looks to theirs .... seriously though, op, what she said e.g...get out and about, there are some friendly people out there. We have managed to hit a few clubs in the last few weeks, and got a small spattering of veris from just being our charming social selves .... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do.
"
Beg |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do.
"
But you have met people so.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do.
"
mollie your verification says she has met you loads though. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Do you suit what people that you message are looking for though?
I ask because apparently you've messaged me previously even though at that time my profile stated that I wasn't meeting or looking for single men. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It looks like something is wrong, you have a meet veri. so your approach worked once, try reviewing your profile / approach, get out to socials and get known. etc... search the forums this question has been asked dozens of times. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do.
"
It's not all about looks. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do.
Beg"
That's never worked for me!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Get to the York social. You look like you'd fit right in  "
The Socials don't seem to be well advertised, if they where every couple and single lady would understand and get to know guys properly! I think we should have a Social Chatroom!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Get to the York social. You look like you'd fit right in
The Socials don't seem to be well advertised, if they where every couple and single lady would understand and get to know guys properly! I think we should have a Social Chatroom!!"
They're advertised widely on the meets forum and the UK forum, plus on various organisers statuses, and in the meets & events page.
We are the ones who make the effort to find them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I am not allowed to the York social, because the first ever one I went To, to try and meet new people, it was my downfall for the next one. "
Oooh controversy! Must have been bad because they let me go back any time.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I am not allowed to the York social, because the first ever one I went To, to try and meet new people, it was my downfall for the next one. "
That bad were they  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Get to the York social. You look like you'd fit right in
The Socials don't seem to be well advertised, if they where every couple and single lady would understand and get to know guys properly! I think we should have a Social Chatroom!!"
I don't go to socials. I get to know men on here. I'm unsociable |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Your profile tells me pretty much nothing about you other than you want sex, it also doesnt make me want to know anything else about you either.
Try writing a proper one rather than "meh that should be enough to hit the minimum character limit" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Your profile tells me pretty much nothing about you other than you want sex, it also doesnt make me want to know anything else about you either.
Try writing a proper one rather than "meh that should be enough to hit the minimum character limit""
It does seem a tad bullet pointed. Though you have at least made an effort to show what you can offer to potential meets, it doesn't really showcase your personality. That's important to us, to get on with anyone we might meet. Just a pointer |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Haha! Tell me about it. 2 years ago, when I was last on here, I seemed to be able to get meets galore.
Now I suck... Haha!
It's just the way you word things. Remember that the ratios on here are crazy. It's like 50:1!
I totally get you though. I had a whinge before (and a subsequent roasting) about being ignored. Looooool! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Haha! Tell me about it. 2 years ago, when I was last on here, I seemed to be able to get meets galore.
Now I suck... Haha!
It's just the way you word things. Remember that the ratios on here are crazy. It's like 50:1!
I totally get you though. I had a whinge before (and a subsequent roasting) about being ignored. Looooool!"
Bump |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do.
"
I don't know you. At all  But after this short post I can say....your attitude stinks |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
Also get yourself to social and clubs I find that the site compliments that for example if you meet someone in a club say hello ask are they on fab then ask do you mind if I veri you
I find also I would say I have the odd meet just from forums but most I have met in clubs and then got to know
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Pretend your a couple works for me, oops I mean us. "
Yup, turn up and tell then your wife is parking the car. Say it's best to get down to business and not wait for her, after all she has an early start tomorrow. Wham, bam thank you mama and then when you've cum say that she's just text you saying she's got a flat tyre and you need to go help her.
I should really charge for this tried and tested advice. 50% of the time it works every time. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do.
"
Go to swingers clubs, be sociable. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Pretend your a couple works for me, oops I mean us.
Yup, turn up and tell then your wife is parking the car. Say it's best to get down to business and not wait for her, after all she has an early start tomorrow. Wham, bam thank you mama and then when you've cum say that she's just text you saying she's got a flat tyre and you need to go help her.
I should really charge for this tried and tested advice. 50% of the time it works every time. "
....making a note of this one.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do.
I don't know you. At all But after this short post I can say....your attitude stinks "
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do.
"
Add some info about yourself, your profile tells people nothing much and add some new photos and lose some of the current ones |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do.
"
What you need to realise is that being polite and not bad looking is not enough. Women do not go to bed with someone because they look ok and they are polite. They have sex with men who are sexy and exciting. Politeness is important, but it should go without saying - it's certainly not an aphrodisiac. So turn up the sex appeal in how you sell yourself.
I had a look at your profile. It's not obvious what you are looking for from this lifestyle, nor is it clear what you can offer. Your profile is also very similar to so many other male profiles, so you will blend in somewhat in a ladies inbox.
I see you are only looking for female couples and female singles. Most men exploring the swinging lifestyle would be looking to play with MF couples. As there are limited FF couples on this site, I'm guessing you just want to meet single women. If that's the case you may find casual dating sites more geered up for one on one meets. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Pretend your a couple works for me, oops I mean us.
Yup, turn up and tell then your wife is parking the car. Say it's best to get down to business and not wait for her, after all she has an early start tomorrow. Wham, bam thank you mama and then when you've cum say that she's just text you saying she's got a flat tyre and you need to go help her.
I should really charge for this tried and tested advice. 50% of the time it works every time. "
It works! I said my hubby was outside... had a fab shag.... left.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Get to the York social. You look like you'd fit right in
The Socials don't seem to be well advertised, if they where every couple and single lady would understand and get to know guys properly! I think we should have a Social Chatroom!!
They're advertised widely on the meets forum and the UK forum, plus on various organisers statuses, and in the meets & events page.
We are the ones who make the effort to find them."
Y socials are well advertised, some like us have there own profile |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
You are in a majority when it comes to people looking for sex. But a minority when it comes to people who are being sort after.
Ie
Supply and demand.
You are not the only minority but it will effect your chances.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
