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I'm new on here and need help.... I dont know if it's because I have a badly presented profile or just because I'm nobody's type but I'm having no look taking to women /couples What can I do Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks |
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"I'm new on here and need help.... I dont know if it's because I have a badly presented profile or just because I'm nobody's type but I'm having no look taking to women /couples What can I do Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks "
You only joined a week ago, some patience will be needed. Men greatly outnumber women on this site so you will have to put a lot of effort in to stand out from the crowd. |
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"I'm new on here and need help.... I dont know if it's because I have a badly presented profile or just because I'm nobody's type but I'm having no look taking to women /couples What can I do Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks "
You have two words in your profile!!
What on earth do you expect?
Way way too much is the answer....
You need to make some effort. |
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over a year ago
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Try you....try you for what? You are sayong nothing about yourself. Think of your profile as your shop window, you are the goods and have to seel yourself on here. |
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"Thanks people. I'll take a bit more care into my profile. Shame about the age thing because I'm sure I have a lot more go in me then ye older gents on here. And I'm up for most things ??"
Oh but with age comes experience, longevity etc. I really don't recommend dissing people if you are looking for help  |
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"Thanks people. I'll take a bit more care into my profile. Shame about the age thing because I'm sure I have a lot more go in me then ye older gents on here. And I'm up for most things ??"
Don't assume that women want "go" above anything else and make no assumptions about older men. |
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"I'm sorry if I made it sound like I was "dissing" people it wasn't ment like that honest "
I am really not sure why you were asking. Did "Try me" ever work for you in a face-to-face meeting? It doesn't cut the mustard here either. |
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over a year ago
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Your entire profilt text is five letters...what did you expect?
The choice women have here is ridiculous...so many blokes with detailed profiles they've put some thought into and let's people know something about who they are and what they're looking for and what They have to offer.
Yours says 'too lazy to bother actually getting past two words' (you gonna be that lazy in bed?.. there's no way to tell) 
Imagine you go to a library of ten thousand books, all beautiful covers, descriptive titles that hint at the story inside...And there's one plain book, blank cover, just says 'book' on the cover.
Which one you gonna leave with?
(Loosely nicked this analogy from someone's profile btw, but it's still true) |
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"Thanks people. I'll take a bit more care into my profile. Shame about the age thing because I'm sure I have a lot more go in me then ye older gents on here. And I'm up for most things ??"
One. Way to piss off your fellow guys on here.
And two, I doubt it. |
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"Oh, and a verification by a man (even on cam) may warrant a bi classification as opposed to straight. Most people prefer honesty."
Nah....I've been in the bisexual chat room and it's full of straight men wanking on cam to other straight men. |
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"Thanks people. I'll take a bit more care into my profile. Shame about the age thing because I'm sure I have a lot more go in me then ye older gents on here. And I'm up for most things ??
Oh but with age comes experience, longevity etc. I really don't recommend dissing people if you are looking for help "
 a little rude to ask for help then diss others on site. ... Some older men have better bodies and nor to offer than some a lot younger... And vice versa... Should never judge anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Congratulations, you have one of the most rubbish, non existent profiles I've ever seen on here, well done my lovely
Sell yourself, say what you are looking for, why you're here and what you can offer whilst trying to get a little personality and humour across. Picture this, you're looking through car ads, you see one with a comprehensive description and lots of nice pics from different angles then you see one that has 2 standard pics and the words try me on it. Which one is more appealing???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know something OP? You might of cracked a funny that didn't quite come off but you're obviously quite literate. Far more than some of the messages we get from older members.
I would suggest when you message couples make the message relevant to their profile and take time over it. It might be disheartening when you don't get replies but as someone else said...patience and you will get a breakthrough.
Good luck. |
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"Thanks people. I'll take a bit more care into my profile. Shame about the age thing because I'm sure I have a lot more go in me then ye older gents on here. And I'm up for most things ??"
Seriously doubt that young man. I'm 42 and in the best shape of my life. I thought I knew about sex when I was younger too but it's really small minded of you to think that you won't learn anything new in the next twenty years. |
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Constructive criticism please. I'm new to this site and was asking for help. Yes I was wrong to say what I did about the older guy/girls. I I fact have had great fun with older women/couples I didn't mean it in a "Dissing" say and I did apologise . And now I feel I'm been set about for it. I appreciate all the advice I'm getting but honestly I'm not here to start wars. Again i apologise for saying what I did . |
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My advice is treat this as a type of dating site. There has to be an attraction, a connection, a feeling of respect and trust.
Be polite and show that you're happy with yourself and then sit and wait. This is a couples domain and single guys typically get thrown a bone every now and then. Or just try to go to a club. |
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"Constructive criticism please. I'm new to this site and was asking for help. Yes I was wrong to say what I did about the older guy/girls. I I fact have had great fun with older women/couples I didn't mean it in a "Dissing" say and I did apologise . And now I feel I'm been set about for it. I appreciate all the advice I'm getting but honestly I'm not here to start wars. Again i apologise for saying what I did . "
Take it on board in a positive manner and move forwards. |
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Yea I was seeking help not to have ppl making me out to be a duck head. Yea I'm new I didn't realise everybody was going to start a war with the new young lad. All I say is thanks to the people who actually gave me some constructive advice that's all I was after not a word war |
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"Yea I was seeking help not to have ppl making me out to be a duck head. Yea I'm new I didn't realise everybody was going to start a war with the new young lad. All I say is thanks to the people who actually gave me some constructive advice that's all I was after not a word war "
Quack Good luck sweetie x |
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"Yea I was seeking help not to have ppl making me out to be a duck head. Yea I'm new I didn't realise everybody was going to start a war with the new young lad. All I say is thanks to the people who actually gave me some constructive advice that's all I was after not a word war
Quack Good luck sweetie x"
Behave you  |
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"Yea I was seeking help not to have ppl making me out to be a duck head. Yea I'm new I didn't realise everybody was going to start a war with the new young lad. All I say is thanks to the people who actually gave me some constructive advice that's all I was after not a word war "
Honestly I was not trying to start anything at all. I was trying to point out that you shouldn't criticise others, you apologised straight away which was good.
I love this site but we all have to make the effort to get the rewards on here  |
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"Yea I was seeking help not to have ppl making me out to be a duck head. Yea I'm new I didn't realise everybody was going to start a war with the new young lad. All I say is thanks to the people who actually gave me some constructive advice that's all I was after not a word war "
You'll be alright. Some guys your age take a tight strop to some forum banter but you're taking it well. |
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"Yea I was seeking help not to have ppl making me out to be a duck head. Yea I'm new I didn't realise everybody was going to start a war with the new young lad. All I say is thanks to the people who actually gave me some constructive advice that's all I was after not a word war "
A duck head eh? |
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"Yea I was seeking help not to have ppl making me out to be a duck head. Yea I'm new I didn't realise everybody was going to start a war with the new young lad. All I say is thanks to the people who actually gave me some constructive advice that's all I was after not a word war
Quack Good luck sweetie x"
Someone just told me to Duck off.  |
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"Yea I was seeking help not to have ppl making me out to be a duck head. Yea I'm new I didn't realise everybody was going to start a war with the new young lad. All I say is thanks to the people who actually gave me some constructive advice that's all I was after not a word war
Quack Good luck sweetie x
Someone just told me to Duck off. "
Waddle away then |
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"Yea I was seeking help not to have ppl making me out to be a duck head. Yea I'm new I didn't realise everybody was going to start a war with the new young lad. All I say is thanks to the people who actually gave me some constructive advice that's all I was after not a word war
Quack Good luck sweetie x
Someone just told me to Duck off.
Waddle away then "
Waddle or Hoddle?  |
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It doesn't matter how long your profile is or what pictures you have or how good and time you spend on your messages I think it's just luck and it's being patient a lot of woman don't even give guys the time of day on here to even have a chance of getting there attention good luck |
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"Yea I was seeking help not to have ppl making me out to be a duck head. Yea I'm new I didn't realise everybody was going to start a war with the new young lad. All I say is thanks to the people who actually gave me some constructive advice that's all I was after not a word war
Honestly I was not trying to start anything at all. I was trying to point out that you shouldn't criticise others, you apologised straight away which was good.
I love this site but we all have to make the effort to get the rewards on here "
be nice to the kid or I'm telling santa |
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"Yea I was seeking help not to have ppl making me out to be a duck head. Yea I'm new I didn't realise everybody was going to start a war with the new young lad. All I say is thanks to the people who actually gave me some constructive advice that's all I was after not a word war
Quack Good luck sweetie x
Someone just told me to Duck off.
Waddle away then
Waddle or Hoddle? "
Omg i loved their song... have no shame.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7WACF8ID-To |
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"Yea I was seeking help not to have ppl making me out to be a duck head. Yea I'm new I didn't realise everybody was going to start a war with the new young lad. All I say is thanks to the people who actually gave me some constructive advice that's all I was after not a word war
Honestly I was not trying to start anything at all. I was trying to point out that you shouldn't criticise others, you apologised straight away which was good.
I love this site but we all have to make the effort to get the rewards on here
be nice to the kid or I'm telling santa"
Haha, tell away, I'm already on the naughty list |
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"Yea I was seeking help not to have ppl making me out to be a duck head. Yea I'm new I didn't realise everybody was going to start a war with the new young lad. All I say is thanks to the people who actually gave me some constructive advice that's all I was after not a word war
Honestly I was not trying to start anything at all. I was trying to point out that you shouldn't criticise others, you apologised straight away which was good.
I love this site but we all have to make the effort to get the rewards on here
be nice to the kid or I'm telling santa
Haha, tell away, I'm already on the naughty list "
Bad santa is more fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Again i apologise for saying what I did .
Fair enough. Do a search... Loads of single guys in the same boat"
As above.. Search other profiles get an idea of what others say about themselves then do same for yourself.. Personally I only reply to people if I know they have read profile, include a face pic.. And are pleasant.. Patience is key though.. Good luck |
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"Yea I was seeking help not to have ppl making me out to be a duck head. Yea I'm new I didn't realise everybody was going to start a war with the new young lad. All I say is thanks to the people who actually gave me some constructive advice that's all I was after not a word war
Honestly I was not trying to start anything at all. I was trying to point out that you shouldn't criticise others, you apologised straight away which was good.
I love this site but we all have to make the effort to get the rewards on here
be nice to the kid or I'm telling santa
Haha, tell away, I'm already on the naughty list
Bad santa is more fun "
He most certainly is |
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"Just checking back in to see how the new improved profile is looking.............I'll pop back tomorrow!"
Just passing again, anything changed now? Nope, impending UNLOS predicted |
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"Try me...."
Why would anyone want to? You give not reason other than you are capable of holing a piece of paper up.
Did someone tell you it's a sex site and you have to do is stand there and a ton of desperate woman would be grateful for your presence?
If so, you've been had  |
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""Try me...."
Why would anyone want to? You give not reason other than you are capable of holing a piece of paper up.
Did someone tell you it's a sex site and you have to do is stand there and a ton of desperate woman would be grateful for your presence?
If so, you've been had "
He should have drawn a big cock on it!! |
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"I'm new on here and need help.... I dont know if it's because I have a badly presented profile or just because I'm nobody's type but I'm having no look taking to women /couples What can I do Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks "
Your profile is very poor, tells me nothing at all about you, type woman or couple your looking for, what experiences your hoping to achieve.
Effort in equals rewards |
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"Nah....I've been in the bisexual chat room and it's full of straight men wanking on cam to other straight men.
Me too, found a great straight guy in there
It's a ladies meat market "
He's hotter than meat |
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