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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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am i doing wrong? ive been on here a few months now and some good chats with some wonderful people, yet still struggling to get that 1st meet. all help will be greatfuly received thanks guys x |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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try getting yourself along to some of the socials organised, a great way to meet people with no pressure.
or a club.
and post more, chat more and getting yourself known.
good luck
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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im always in the chat rooms, yet they always seem hectic and its quite hard to chat to the 1 person, and the socials i always end up on a waiting list as there are always a large number of single males |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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Is your glass always half empty too? 
Not meant as a big critisism but you were given some good advice but just came back with negative comments on why that advice wouldn't work.
You will only get something out of here if you actually want to put in a wee bit of effort and try harder rather than just give up if chat is "hectic" and also get in earlier for putting your name down for a social.  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"im always in the chat rooms, yet they always seem hectic and its quite hard to chat to the 1 person, and the socials i always end up on a waiting list as there are always a large number of single males "
a club then |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"im always in the chat rooms, yet they always seem hectic and its quite hard to chat to the 1 person, and the socials i always end up on a waiting list as there are always a large number of single males
a club then "
They wll probably only let in 28 year old single males and not a 27 year old one!   |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"im always in the chat rooms, yet they always seem hectic and its quite hard to chat to the 1 person, and the socials i always end up on a waiting list as there are always a large number of single males
a club then
They wll probably only let in 28 year old single males and not a 27 year old one! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im always in the chat rooms, yet they always seem hectic and its quite hard to chat to the 1 person, and the socials i always end up on a waiting list as there are always a large number of single males "
As a single woman, I know this sounds strange, but I hate it when a single guy in chat comes out with "Hi do you want to chat" - it feels so contrived and wooden. It's better when someone is just joining in the banter, taking part in what's happening in the room and a conversation develops naturally like it would in the real world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a single woman, I know this sounds strange, but I hate it when a single guy in chat comes out with "Hi do you want to chat" ...... It's better when someone is just joining in the banter, taking part in what's happening in the room and a conversation develops naturally like it would in the real world."
I completely agree, brightbabe, I'm in the chat room to have a laugh and a banter with everyone, and I don't want to have 1 on 1 chats with a single male, unless he has chatted for some time. I use the chatroom as a space for socialising, and I like to see how the men I am interested in interact with others, as well as with me. I'm afraid that those who go for the 'three compliments and she'll drop her knickers' approach get nowhere with me (and some of 'em don't even bother with the three compliments LOL) |
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"im always in the chat rooms, yet they always seem hectic and its quite hard to chat to the 1 person, and the socials i always end up on a waiting list as there are always a large number of single males
As a single woman, I know this sounds strange, but I hate it when a single guy in chat comes out with "Hi do you want to chat" - it feels so contrived and wooden. It's better when someone is just joining in the banter, taking part in what's happening in the room and a conversation develops naturally like it would in the real world."
this
worked fro me on another site, just joined in the chat rooms, went to a few socials, ended up with a good few playy meets
aint been in chat much on this site yet, am working all hours, but will be soon |
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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago
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"Is your glass always half empty too?
Not meant as a big critisism but you were given some good advice but just came back with negative comments on why that advice wouldn't work.
You will only get something out of here if you actually want to put in a wee bit of effort and try harder rather than just give up if chat is "hectic" and also get in earlier for putting your name down for a social. "
..... and get Fabs 'Speedy Social', which lets you jump the queue .. |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"Is your glass always half empty too?
Not meant as a big critisism but you were given some good advice but just came back with negative comments on why that advice wouldn't work.
You will only get something out of here if you actually want to put in a wee bit of effort and try harder rather than just give up if chat is "hectic" and also get in earlier for putting your name down for a social.
..... and get Fabs 'Speedy Social', which lets you jump the queue .."
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