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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously, I have a lot more views than that, and so few actually message. Same for everyone on here.
But if your so worried already, then this isn't the place for you. |
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Like it says above of its winding you up go don't overly see what your problem is as you've had meets and tbh having what this post says as a status is kinda off putting and like loads of people on here would say patients is the key plus messages work both ways |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a shame when the expected five meets a week never works out for people, just go!
Mr"
I demand no less than 12 meet requests...never happened yet but I live in hope  |
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"Omg
I asked a simple question
Was not looking for anyone to say
There there its alright
Wanted an honest opinion"
Why do you want a bunch of strangers to tell you what to do? 
Out of interest... is your wife having more or less luck than you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"@1145hrs today I have had 25 people view me, with a grand total of
0 winks
0 messages
I dont messages much as it is
SO
Should I bother or give up? "
We delete our profiles and still come back again lol I have ........
To be fair you only been here 8 weeks 3 meet verifications is pretty good! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well honestly, men have it hard on here.
Reality is that women, and possibly couples, get a fair amount of messages and can pick and choose who they want from here, men hardly get any replies because of this. I don't think there's too many guys on here even, but do think there's a lack of women meeting for sex. |
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Hi. Honest opinion. I'm attracted to happy smiling positive people who send me a message that shows they've read my profile and think we could have fun together. Occasionally, I will send messages to folk I'm attracted to. I don't sit back and wait for the world to come to me. I don't update my profile with whiny words and dont expect 15 meets a weeks - don't have time anyway! Fab isn't the be all and end all of my life - it's a tiny bit of me time fun occasionally. Try the search function - you never know - you might just find what you're looking for after a bit of reading and sending messages Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP your expectations are too high. The chances of a meet are proportionate to your ability to work out how to succeed. You don't get to be the judge of how good you are. Your results will do that for you.
If you're keen for sex then you may want a plan B because there's no reason why this site will beat some of the more traditional methods. If anyone gave you a guarantee I suggest you try for a refund (£5 was it?)
You'll probably need to do lots of things you're not doing or do some things better than you are. If you think results should be a mathematical thing based on number of mails you send or number of people who have 'committed' by viewing your profile you have massively missed the point on how people choose who to have sex with!
Bx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Omg
I asked a simple question
Was not looking for anyone to say
There there its alright
Wanted an honest opinion
Why do you want a bunch of strangers to tell you what to do?
Out of interest... is your wife having more or less luck than you?"
Simple answer is she's a woman!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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8 weeks, 3 verified meets. You're doing ok.
I'm looking at my views to message / wink ratio and it's even worse than that and I'm sure the same is true of most on here - so do whatever is right for you but are you sitting back waiting for the action to come to you or are you being proactive? Good luck fella!
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"8 weeks, 3 verified meets. You're doing ok.
I'm looking at my views to message / wink ratio and it's even worse than that and I'm sure the same is true of most on here - so do whatever is right for you but are you sitting back waiting for the action to come to you or are you being proactive? Good luck fella!
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I just assumed from the extremely plaintive nature of the OP that he was getting no attention at all, but it seems that's not at all the case, which makes it all the more baffling... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people wanna be fucked every day i reckon, or at least talk to people every day coz they're bored. Glad i'm female is all i'm saying, i get what i want from this site. |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
it's a bit sad you have worked out the number of hours you have been active online, you look like a good looking lad but unfortunately unless you got the other goods then your pushed to back of the line.
go out to Clubs go to the webcam (yes you cant get a word in edge ways) with your cam on it prove to people you are a real person with personality, and they are more likely to verify you.
Varies are key they give the person an indication a to what you are like and weather you are a real person sage enough to play with.
lastly would it be fair to say you came here thinking you were going to meet lots of women and couples and be getting lots of sex, or am I just assuming too much? |
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"@1145hrs today I have had 25 people view me, with a grand total of
0 winks
0 messages
I dont messages much as it is
SO
Should I bother or give up? "
It's not important! It's a swing site ffs!
Stay
Go
No one really gives a fuck : ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"@1145hrs today I have had 25 people view me, with a grand total of
0 winks
0 messages
I dont messages much as it is
SO
Should I bother or give up? "
I've only had 4 people view me in the last week, no winks but a handful of messages.... I'm staying. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
"Just wondering why your wife hasn't verified you?"
To be fair, I don't think that people can verify others users who they share an internet connection with. To stop people setting up fake profiles and verifying themselves. I don't think it's a reflection of his wife's views on his sexual prowess. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
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I've only had 4 people view me in the last week, no winks but a handful of messages.... I'm staying."
But remember that a lot of women browse profiles in 'stealth mode' And I never message someone whose profile says "if you've looked then please message me"  |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"@1145hrs today I have had 25 people view me, with a grand total of
0 winks
0 messages
I dont messages much as it is
SO
Should I bother or give up? "
Personally, I'd stick to fucking your wife.
Not sure what YOU should do though! |
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So you have a wife , law of averages would say more couples looking for couples .So here is a idea ,its a bit left field but make a couples profiles and play together . Just might work on this site for you . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"@1145hrs today I have had 25 people view me, with a grand total of
0 winks
0 messages
I dont messages much as it is
SO
Should I bother or give up?
Personally, I'd stick to fucking your wife.
Not sure what YOU should do though! "
You're Fucking his wife?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"@1145hrs today I have had 25 people view me, with a grand total of
0 winks
0 messages
I dont messages much as it is
SO
Should I bother or give up?
Personally, I'd stick to fucking your wife.
Not sure what YOU should do though!
You're Fucking his wife?? "
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"@1145hrs today I have had 25 people view me, with a grand total of
0 winks
0 messages
I dont messages much as it is
SO
Should I bother or give up?
Personally, I'd stick to fucking your wife.
Not sure what YOU should do though!
You're Fucking his wife?? "
Anything's possible...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So you have a wife , law of averages would say more couples looking for couples .So here is a idea ,its a bit left field but make a couples profiles and play together . Just might work on this site for you . "
?? ?? ?? ??
I asked her to think about a couple profile last night
Waiting.......................................................... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You probably get more views than that as it doesn't include all the stealth pervs like me. Sorry, that probably doesn't make you feel any better
If this site causes you angst for any reason then its time to leave, its supposed to be fun. |
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"@1145hrs today I have had 25 people view me, with a grand total of
0 winks
0 messages
I dont messages much as it is
SO
Should I bother or give up? "
Stop looking at who has viewed you. Problem solved.
NEXT! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Dude, we regularly have 100 people view our profile in a 24 hour period, and often get 0 messages in the same period.
If its bugging you this much, I'd say you need to leave."
Yeap, I constantly have over 100 views in 24 hrs, and hardly anyone contacts me either....Doesn't make me wonder why, in most cases it makes me think thank fuck   |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
You could have any number of people view you, but if none of them like you, they won't message.
Also, I sometimes check profiles of people I see on the forum... but I'm in stealth mode as I got pissed off with the I saw you look messages... and having to tell them, yes I can't decide I don't like you til I look!
And if its counting views, you will drive yourself insane... delete if you want, but it may be the next person who views who thinks you float their ocean going liner... |
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I've been on here over a year and had no messages even though i've sent messages out myself following what they've written in their profiles which is have a face pic
luckily someone i met on another site was on here too to verify me
what you need to remember OP is people are allowed to say no
there are other sites available.....use them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Omg
I asked a simple question
Was not looking for anyone to say
There there its alright
Wanted an honest opinion"
Ok here you are one very simple honest reply
GO!!!!!!! |
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Imagine OP that you're stood in a bar and make eye contact with 10 people and 30 people look at you as you stand sipping your Guiness or cider.
Out of those 40 people, none of them winked you and none of them came to chat with you.
Guess what? C'est la vie |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"As of 9:30 this evening, I've had ten folk view me.. 
0- winks..
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0 friend requests.. 
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I've had 4 messages though.. "
Just noticed..2 x as well... 
Think I'm staying.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lots of views today on the forum
Livestock say thank you to everyone who has spent time posting and those who have messaged me direct
Alot to consider now
JUST
Stealth mode??????
How you do that ?? ?? ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of views today on the forum
Livestock say thank you to everyone who has spent time posting and those who have messaged me direct
Alot to consider now
JUST
Stealth mode??????
How you do that ?? ?? ?? "
Privacy settings, hide on looked at me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots of views today on the forum
Livestock say thank you to everyone who has spent time posting and those who have messaged me direct
Alot to consider now
JUST
Stealth mode??????
How you do that ?? ?? ??
Privacy settings, hide on looked at me "
Thank you hun xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Didn't you have an almost identical post to this up 2 weeks ago op?
Also remember that thread you were very fuzzy and confused about wether you were married or not and said you "played married" with a FB
The whole thread stinks of attention seeking tbh.
M&M
X
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Didn't you have an almost identical post to this up 2 weeks ago op?
Also remember that thread you were very fuzzy and confused about wether you were married or not and said you "played married" with a FB
The whole thread stinks of attention seeking tbh.
M&M
X
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Oh, I've just discovered the green arrow thingy, interesting read! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Didn't you have an almost identical post to this up 2 weeks ago op?
Also remember that thread you were very fuzzy and confused about wether you were married or not and said you "played married" with a FB
The whole thread stinks of attention seeking tbh.
M&M
X
Oh, I've just discovered the green arrow thingy, interesting read!"
Interesting was one word for it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not getting wound up just want an opinion
That's all"
He was being direct and telling you to leave. How unfriendly is that. Up to you to stay.. Why go on just a few views. You message people? It means ive viewed but not interested most of the time.
Stay... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I cannot understand how guys have so much difficulty meeting females on FAB. I mean every single day 200 new females sign up. There are simply loads of them to choose from. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cannot understand how guys have so much difficulty meeting females on FAB. I mean every single day 200 new females sign up. There are simply loads of them to choose from."
This has always had me scratching my head too :/
It's such a great place for getting chatting to folk on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cannot understand how guys have so much difficulty meeting females on FAB. I mean every single day 200 new females sign up. There are simply loads of them to choose from."
Yes, but that is, if you are prepared to travel 100+ miles to meet them all lol.
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
"I cannot understand how guys have so much difficulty meeting females on FAB. I mean every single day 200 new females sign up. There are simply loads of them to choose from."
Yes but they have to choose you too. And they actually have to be women not just a bloke looking to expand his wank bank |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cannot understand how guys have so much difficulty meeting females on FAB. I mean every single day 200 new females sign up. There are simply loads of them to choose from.
Yes but they have to choose you too. And they actually have to be women not just a bloke looking to expand his wank bank"
There are TONS of people looking for single guys....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Given that the op is still here I'm thinking this is just a 'look at me' thread..... Do I win the Internet? "
Actually it wasn't but strangely enough some people I messaged ages ago and not had replies have now messaged me
I have adjusted my profile again and this seems to have done it with the help of some feedback from people in the forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cannot understand how guys have so much difficulty meeting females on FAB. I mean every single day 200 new females sign up. There are simply loads of them to choose from.
Yes but they have to choose you too. And they actually have to be women not just a bloke looking to expand his wank bank
There are TONS of people looking for single guys....
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Yes i agree...every single day 200 new women join FAB with their profiles,,thats 73000 new women every year. They must surely be outnumbering the men by now...well if you cant find a woman on here, its a pretty poor show with so many of them around and all seeking a nice guy to pleasure them |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"What's you wife's username?
Any chance you can but a good word in for me?I promise I'll take good care of her."
You are looking to arrange a meet with someone you don't know who they are or what they look like
Sounds very desperate to me!  |
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BRO STOP MOANING!
MESSAGE ALOT MORE LADIES AND COUPLES. take it slowly but put alot more effort. Delete those messages when they dont reply.
And dont ever expect to meet because people can be time wasters. Dont put excessive effort but put alot of effort and stop moaning
Ive been on it for 1 year and still find it hard to meet.
Good luck lad |
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"I cannot understand how guys have so much difficulty meeting females on FAB. I mean every single day 200 new females sign up. There are simply loads of them to choose from.
Yes but they have to choose you too. And they actually have to be women not just a bloke looking to expand his wank bank"
Original quote said by someone with two meets in over a year...
We agree with this response though. There are a ton of new fakes every day.
To the OP, yes you should leave. No you won't leave. |
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By *onesal20Couple
over a year ago
North East England |
I think the fact you claim to be Bi- Curious, yet your Veris suggest you are well passed the curious stage may put some off, and the age range of 19-99 may give the impression to some that you would fuck a Barber Shop's floor, may limit your appeal, however whiney updates are the biggest turn off for most, regardless of how you feel.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"@1145hrs today I have had 25 people view me, with a grand total of
0 winks
0 messages
I dont messages much as it is
SO
Should I bother or give up? "
Still here then? |
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