"Behave as you would at any social meeting although the conversation might be slightly broader 
Broader, do you have examples? Lol"
Well if I was meeting a non swinger couple or single man for the first time I wouldn't expect to discuss bondage or spanking with them |
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By *ogue78Man
over a year ago
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"Behave as you would at any social meeting although the conversation might be slightly broader
Broader, do you have examples? Lol
Well if I was meeting a non swinger couple or single man for the first time I wouldn't expect to discuss bondage or spanking with them "
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It depends, I think you need to approach this with the person or people you're meeting and venue in mind. I would be very uncomfortable discussing detailed scenarios at a social or where we could be overheard but likes, dislikes, boundaries etc would be fine.
We have had really enjoyable social meets with only one at which I was made to feel extremely uncomfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah a little more blue then got you"
Remember this depends on the person though! For instance when chatting to a lady - some of us don't like the conversation to get too sexually direct!
I'd let the people you're chatting to take the lead to an extent there! Just relax and have fun!
If you've never been to a social before, the only thing I can liken it to is a birthday party, house-warming et cetera - where you may barely know anybody, but you will have something in common so you can make an effort to chat to lots of people there and people will be friendly! Hope that makes some sense? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ah a little more blue then got you
Remember this depends on the person though! For instance when chatting to a lady - some of us don't like the conversation to get too sexually direct!
I'd let the people you're chatting to take the lead to an extent there! Just relax and have fun!
If you've never been to a social before, the only thing I can liken it to is a birthday party, house-warming et cetera - where you may barely know anybody, but you will have something in common so you can make an effort to chat to lots of people there and people will be friendly! Hope that makes some sense?"
That sounds very good, just chill and be ourselves.
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"If you've never been to a social before, the only thing I can liken it to is a birthday party, house-warming et cetera - where you may barely know anybody, but you will have something in common so you can make an effort to chat to lots of people there and people will be friendly! Hope that makes some sense?"
Great analogy |
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