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To accommodate or not to accommodate that is the question
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Until recently we haven't accommodated as we don't want random people turning up at my door. However, we've started to for people we know now, it's just what you're comfortable with really.
Plus my neighbours are lazy gits and always leave the building in a mess and as I work 2 jobs I don't always have the time to clean it. I'd be embarrassed for people to see that!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If u accommodate does that mean breakfast in bed is provided
You wish 
You don't even get a bed for the night. You turn up, chat, drink, have fun, chat some more, then go on your merry way."
Doh no bacon buttie then !! Still would x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we meet people in clubs - we only accomodate or visit other peoples homes when we know them very very very well - because when inviting people to our home or entering another persons home we want to be able to relax,trust them and enjoy the evening completely |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"I'm happy to accommodate as I keep a baseball bat under the bed!
Only for emergencies or for people who refuse to leave!! "
Ike a baseball bat for (adventurous) women who would like to stay!  |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
"I'm happy to accommodate as I keep a baseball bat under the bed!
Only for emergencies or for people who refuse to leave!!
Ike a baseball bat for (adventurous) women who would like to stay! "
Judging from some of the photos people post on here you may need a barge pole for that!! |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"I'm happy to accommodate as I keep a baseball bat under the bed!
Only for emergencies or for people who refuse to leave!!
Ike a baseball bat for (adventurous) women who would like to stay!
Judging from some of the photos people post on here you may need a barge pole for that!!"
you may being the deletion of your profile lolo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm happy to accommodate as I keep a baseball bat under the bed!
Only for emergencies or for people who refuse to leave!!
Ike a baseball bat for (adventurous) women who would like to stay! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I wouldn't accommodate someone from FAB into my home. For safety reasons and plus since I have children at home, I will feel that I'm disrespecting their private space."
Exactly this! I personally thinks it's wrong to invite strangers into your child's home and to top it off bonk them while your child is in the next room or upstairs. Tut Tut. Just my opinion though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't dare accommodate, ever.
Not only do I have a very small flat - and a single bed! - but I like to keep my personal space exactly that. I've had one person, apart from my landlord, in my flat in the past year & a half so I certainly don't want any other people in my home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I wouldn't accommodate someone from FAB into my home. For safety reasons and plus since I have children at home, I will feel that I'm disrespecting their private space."
This is exactly our reason. Also we have parents/in-laws four doors away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We use too ,grandma isn't an option anymore . . teenage/adult kids here ,who are never out when they say they're gonna be  Too risky ! "
Same here. In fact get raised eyebrows when going out again.. even got a phone call the other night when we weren't home by 10am
That's fooled up lol |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
We accomodate. We prefer a quick drink in the local pub first to confirm they are not nutters. I think if the chemistry isn't there, its easier to say goodbyes in a pub, rather than have to try to throw them out of your house.
We are a couple meeting couples, and dont have children to worry about, so its a suitable arrangement for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I wouldn't accommodate someone from FAB into my home. For safety reasons and plus since I have children at home, I will feel that I'm disrespecting their private space."
This is exactly why I don't accommodate ever, it's my children's home.... |
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I have done in the past, but have now decided against it after falling out with someone who advised me they knew where I lived. It winds me up when guys persistently invite themselves round, which I find rather rude. |
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