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"Be possibly too polite or not forward enough .."
Well, which is better?
"Hey ya flaccid loser, can I jam me vag-spear up ya wife's cum-bucket'?
Or
"Dear couple, please may I take this opportunity to advise you of the availability and willingness of my penile equipment to slide up your lovely wife's vaginal canal" |
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"Be possibly too polite or not forward enough ..
Well, which is better?
"Hey ya flaccid loser, can I jam me vag-spear up ya wife's cum-bucket'?
Or neither of them would get my attention.lol
"Dear couple, please may I take this opportunity to advise you of the availability and willingness of my penile equipment to slide up your lovely wife's vaginal canal""
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"Be possibly too polite or not forward enough ..
Well, which is better?
"Hey ya flaccid loser, can I jam me vag-spear up ya wife's cum-bucket'?
Or
"Dear couple, please may I take this opportunity to advise you of the availability and willingness of my penile equipment to slide up your lovely wife's vaginal canal""
see this is the approach that gets results  |
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"Is being to nice a good thing or does it hinder getting any meets "
Do you think you're too nice because you don't get replies to your messages?
If so, then that nothing to do with being too nice, but because there are hundreds of guys competing with you... |
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"I find offering money & gifts doesn't really pay any dividends so now i'm just trying to catch them with my caveman personality...club to the head  you can buy me gifts.x"
So can your wife Mr! Leave it! |
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What sometimes works best (and always wins me over!) is to be warm, polite and interesting on here - with the clear option to switch once the bedroom door closes...!
It's nice to have a guy who can go into "caveman" attitude in private (by agreement!), hold me down, spank my bum and ride me hard - but who can manage to be polite and respectful at all other times.
Unfortunately, this seems to be too close to multi-tasking for most guys - honestly, starting off with the crude tarzan role doesn't always make you look your best...!
Be nice now - you can be naughty later...!!!
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"What sometimes works best (and always wins me over!) is to be warm, polite and interesting on here - with the clear option to switch once the bedroom door closes...!
It's nice to have a guy who can go into "caveman" attitude in private (by agreement!), hold me down, spank my bum and ride me hard - but who can
manage to be polite and respectful at all other times.
Unfortunately, this seems to be too close to multi-tasking for most guys - honestly, starting off with the crude tarzan role doesn't always make you look your best...!
Be nice now - you can be naughty later...!!!
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Why thank you for the advice..
I like to say i am very naughty behind closed doors ???? |
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"What sometimes works best (and always wins me over!) is to be warm, polite and interesting on here - with the clear option to switch once the bedroom door closes...!
It's nice to have a guy who can go into "caveman" attitude in private (by agreement!), hold me down, spank my bum and ride me hard - but who can manage to be polite and respectful at all other times.
Unfortunately, this seems to be too close to multi-tasking for most guys - honestly, starting off with the crude tarzan role doesn't always make you look your best...!
Be nice now - you can be naughty later...!!!
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Well said. I agree completely here |
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I don't get the too nice?
Not sure how being nice would hinder anyone.
For us being nice is the 2nd requirement.
First we need to like the look of you, secondly we need to find you pleasant and easy going.
Now there is a difference between being nice and being mute.
If you don't say hi or talk then chances are we would never end up in bed with you. But if you are prepared to talk and chat like a normal human being, without any expectations of pressure to fuck. Well your chances go up massively from that.
I can't speak for everyone, but being nice and friendly is a massive turn on for us. |
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"Dear couple, please may I take this opportunity to advise you of the availability and willingness of my penile equipment to slide up your lovely wife's vaginal canal""
HAHAHAHHAHA OH GOD. This is MINT. I'd kill to find out if you managed to get ANYONE at all using that line. Would make for an epic Fab story! |
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If you're nice as in a sycophantic simpering twit then yes that would hamper you in my book. But if you're just nice as in not a cock, then you're fine. |
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"Dear couple, please may I take this opportunity to advise you of the availability and willingness of my penile equipment to slide up your lovely wife's vaginal canal"
HAHAHAHHAHA OH GOD. This is MINT. I'd kill to find out if you managed to get ANYONE at all using that line. Would make for an epic Fab story! "
You're welcome to use it yourself.   |
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"But I personally agree there is no such thing as too nice.
Some people have low self esteem and allow others to steamroller over them. Not sure that is too nice.
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It's also equally unattractive. |
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"What sometimes works best (and always wins me over!) is to be warm, polite and interesting on here - with the clear option to switch once the bedroom door closes...!
It's nice to have a guy who can go into "caveman" attitude in private (by agreement!), hold me down, spank my bum and ride me hard - but who can manage to be polite and respectful at all other times.
Unfortunately, this seems to be too close to multi-tasking for most guys - honestly, starting off with the crude tarzan role doesn't always make you look your best...!
Be nice now - you can be naughty later...!!!
Well said. I agree completely here "
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"How bout just be yourself and stop trying to please everyone..."
this is a good point, you'll get the meets you want and enjoy them and so will the other person you're with.
guys pretty much have to be polite to me to make me interested in them, but i don't talk to a lot of guys any more anyway. loads of things turn me off even when they're being polite also. |
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"Is being to nice a good thing or does it hinder getting any meets "
90% of messages we get dont stand out and are utterly boring
Hi im a profesional well mannered gentleman.hard working and reliable .....bla bla bla
1 dont really care if your profesional we want to fuck not write a will.
Hard working again its not a cv
So yeah in our opinion you can be too polite.we want exitement not a cup of tea and a scone |
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"Is being to nice a good thing or does it hinder getting any meets "
The only thing I would say is just be yourself. On here there are loads more guys than ladies so your messages are going to be in heavy competition. My personal philosophy is if people don't like me for who I am, the way I am then that's their problem. So, if you're a bit cheeky be cheeky. I am!! Lol. Just be yourself and go with the flow!!! |
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"Is being to nice a good thing or does it hinder getting any meets
The only thing I would say is just be yourself. On here there are loads more guys than ladies so your messages are going to be in heavy competition. My personal philosophy is if people don't like me for who I am, the way I am then that's their problem. So, if you're a bit cheeky be cheeky. I am!! Lol. Just be yourself and go with the flow!!! "
Yeah this |
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