I asked about oral swabs at the clinic the other week as I don't use oral protection. They said they only offer those to guys and not women, and that I wouldn't need it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I asked about oral swabs at the clinic the other week as I don't use oral protection. They said they only offer those to guys and not women, and that I wouldn't need it."

How bizarre as women are more at risk than guys from what my clinic tells me. Although my clinic now you have to ask for oral swabs or they don't offer them x

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I asked about oral swabs at the clinic the other week as I don't use oral protection. They said they only offer those to guys and not women, and that I wouldn't need it."

My clinic said that too until I explained I was active with more than one partner again in the appointment (Not that I meet very often at all)

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By *riskynriskyCouple over a year ago

Essex.

It is a very very rare occasion for Frisky to give oral without a condom... Mainly because she hates the taste/texture of Cum...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have read that for safe oral sex condoms and dental dams should be used. Does anybody actually use them ?

Nope. And wouldn't meet if someone asked us too x"

This for us too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We know everyone at the gum clinic . We've been going every six weeks for almost 5 years and oral swabs are taken every time .

Hep a and hep b jabs , free .

Bloods every other visit .

They recommended corsodyl after a mouthfull of cum , or pussy and rimming .

Infact they are really helpful and non judgemental

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

"I asked about oral swabs at the clinic the other week as I don't use oral protection. They said they only offer those to guys and not women, and that I wouldn't need it.

My clinic said that too until I explained I was active with more than one partner again in the appointment (Not that I meet very often at all)"

They know I'm a swinger, I told them I was asking because of my lifestyle. It could vary region to region though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If never even seen a dental dam!

I will ask my dentist when have a check up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I asked about oral swabs at the clinic the other week as I don't use oral protection. They said they only offer those to guys and not women, and that I wouldn't need it.

My clinic said that too until I explained I was active with more than one partner again in the appointment (Not that I meet very often at all)

They know I'm a swinger, I told them I was asking because of my lifestyle. It could vary region to region though"

TBH if I met a lot, I would be pushing whether its usually only offered to men - I'm not sure they are allowed to discriminate like that. Firmly request it is done, or ask if they know of anywhere to get it done privately?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hate my phone!!!!!

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

"I asked about oral swabs at the clinic the other week as I don't use oral protection. They said they only offer those to guys and not women, and that I wouldn't need it.

My clinic said that too until I explained I was active with more than one partner again in the appointment (Not that I meet very often at all)

They know I'm a swinger, I told them I was asking because of my lifestyle. It could vary region to region though

I'll ask, thanks

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I have read that for safe oral sex condoms and dental dams should be used. Does anybody actually use them ?"

I'm all for playing safe but there comes a point where, to me, certain precautions render the act almost pointless. Use of a dental dam must surely reduce the sensation for a recipient of cunnilingus, and the ability of a lover's tongue to pleasure her. And as the giver, not being able to taste a lady and get my face a bit wet would spoil all the fun!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have read that for safe oral sex condoms and dental dams should be used. Does anybody actually use them ?

Simple solution to that - don't meet those people who don't play the way that you enjoy playing!

Some of us enjoy using barrier protection. Some people don't. If those parties don't play with each other, everyone is happy!

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By *LCCCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

"We know everyone at the gum clinic . We've been going every six weeks for almost 5 years and oral swabs are taken every time .

Hep a and hep b jabs , free .

Bloods every other visit .

They recommended corsodyl after a mouthfull of cum , or pussy and rimming .

Infact they are really helpful and non judgemental

Do you ever try the corsodyl before to give them a cool sensation?

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By *arry247Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

"I asked about oral swabs at the clinic the other week as I don't use oral protection. They said they only offer those to guys and not women, and that I wouldn't need it."

Use a different clinic or ask the to educate themselves about sexual health.

Syphilis, gonorrhoea, HIV, HPV, genital herpes, chlamydia and hepatitis C do not discriminate between the sexes during oral sex.

It is true the incident rate of catching any of the above during oral sex is less than with vaginal or anal sex but they can spread in that manner.

The true incidence of STIs spread by oral sex is difficult to ascertain with any accuracy as more often than not a person who engages in oral sex also engages in some form penetrative sex.

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By *LCCCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

I personally would like to see some public health research done on the swinging community, that way we would have a much better understanding of the risks etc. that affect us.

I would imagine that from a public health perspective we are quite a unique group.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I personally would like to see some public health research done on the swinging community, that way we would have a much better understanding of the risks etc. that affect us.

I would imagine that from a public health perspective we are quite a unique group. "

I suspect that when more people come out as swingers there will be more research done. At the moment we're a minority demographic who don't want to be known in public.

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I have read that for safe oral sex condoms and dental dams should be used. Does anybody actually use them ?

Simple solution to that - don't meet those people who don't play the way that you enjoy playing!

Some of us enjoy using barrier protection. Some people don't. If those parties don't play with each other, everyone is happy!"

I totally agree, I'm sorry if my post came across as criticising those who choose to use oral protection, I was only intending to convey my own opinion on the subject!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why are cocks and fannys so riddled with disease.

Why not the elbow or big toe?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

". . .

They recommended corsodyl after a mouthfull of cum , or pussy and rimming .

Let's be VERY clear here. In NO way is "rimming" anything other than a health risk full stop . . what comes out your ass is truly unhealthy. Bizarrely you can drink somebodies piss and have no problems . . . but rimming?

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

"I asked about oral swabs at the clinic the other week as I don't use oral protection. They said they only offer those to guys and not women, and that I wouldn't need it.

Use a different clinic or ask the to educate themselves about sexual health.

Syphilis, gonorrhoea, HIV, HPV, genital herpes, chlamydia and hepatitis C do not discriminate between the sexes during oral sex.

It is true the incident rate of catching any of the above during oral sex is less than with vaginal or anal sex but they can spread in that manner.

The true incidence of STIs spread by oral sex is difficult to ascertain with any accuracy as more often than not a person who engages in oral sex also engages in some form penetrative sex.

There is no other clinic, the only one we have is at the hospital

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The risk of anything being transmitted orally is a fk ton higher is you are anorexic or bulimic.

The risk is reduced to catch anything orally but is possible.

Listerine original or cool mint is great as well as previously mentioned mouthwash x

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By *arehamMan over a year ago

handforth

I cannot think of anything less sexy than a dental damm

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By *arry247Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

"We know everyone at the gum clinic . We've been going every six weeks for almost 5 years and oral swabs are taken every time .

Hep a and hep b jabs , free .

Bloods every other visit .

They recommended corsodyl after a mouthfull of cum , or pussy and rimming .

Infact they are really helpful and non judgemental

Do they also tell you that mouth wash reduces the natural protection provided by saliva.

It is another of those urban myths such as the shaving being more hygenic.

For added protection do not shave any part of your body or wash any part of your body including your teeth before sex.

By doing so you are reducing the protection your body provides

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By *LCCCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

"I personally would like to see some public health research done on the swinging community, that way we would have a much better understanding of the risks etc. that affect us.

I would imagine that from a public health perspective we are quite a unique group.

I suspect that when more people come out as swingers there will be more research done. At the moment we're a minority demographic who don't want to be known in public."

That's one of the reasons why I hate those pointless Sydney University warnings. Academic or public health study could actually be of benefit to our community!

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