We see this as no doubt you do too that "hotels are sleazy".
Given that modern chain hotels are usually efficient, clean and well appointed where does the sleaze element creep in. After all it is but a room so does four (or chose your preferred combination) people having sex in a living room make it not sleazy but in a paid for room it is?
Puzzled over this one.
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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I'm likewise puzzled. Of course hotel rooms aren't sleazy. Unless you choose a sleazy hotel of course. But the major chains (e.g. Premier Inn) are clean and comfy with lovely big beds, and by booking well in advance you can get a room for under £30 a night. |
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The hotel I stayed in last weekend was pure luxury
I don't think they're sleazy,they serve a good purpose for a lot of people and I find them more comfortable than being in someone's lounge that has a quilt chucked on the floor which I once encountered
Some people are always ready to look down their noses at other people's choices,maybe they need a good fuck in a Premier Inn  |
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"The hotel I stayed in last weekend was pure luxury
I don't think they're sleazy,they serve a good purpose for a lot of people and I find them more comfortable than being in someone's lounge that has a quilt chucked on the floor which I once encountered
Some people are always ready to look down their noses at other people's choices,maybe they need a good fuck in a Premier Inn "
A good seeing to right up the ibis! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Think clandestine meets in hotels have a bad rep though, you see the movies, the run down motels and rooms in those, with the passing trains and blinking sign lights..
Stuff seeps into the psyche I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The hotel I stayed in last weekend was pure luxury
I don't think they're sleazy,they serve a good purpose for a lot of people and I find them more comfortable than being in someone's lounge that has a quilt chucked on the floor which I once encountered
Some people are always ready to look down their noses at other people's choices,maybe they need a good fuck in a Premier Inn
A good seeing to right up the ibis! "
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
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Guess it depends on the situation really, If a Guy offers to pay for a Hotel to meet and have Sex, does it make you feel your Services have been paid for ?
or if you happen to be staying away, that would be the same as inviting someone over to where you are living...Does it not ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guess it depends on the situation really, If a Guy offers to pay for a Hotel to meet and have Sex, does it make you feel your Services have been paid for ?
or if you happen to be staying away, that would be the same as inviting someone over to where you are living...Does it not ? "
I've paid for hotels specifically for meets before now, I never felt I was paying for a service..
If folk are Miles away, it's just a means to an end ya know?
No place to play? Remove the obstacle and rent one..
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By (user no longer on site)
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Might go back to the time when people had affairs and met in hotels to have sex? Same with prostitution.
Just a way of stigmatising certain groups of sexual people, that's all. Wouldn't worry about it.
I think hotels look nice, ours had a squeaky bed lol. |
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"Guess it depends on the situation really, If a Guy offers to pay for a Hotel to meet and have Sex, does it make you feel your Services have been paid for ?
or if you happen to be staying away, that would be the same as inviting someone over to where you are living...Does it not ? "
I don't offer services so no,and always pay my way
Some people have nowhere else to meet other than hotel rooms,so they're a perfect neutral meeting place,especially if 2 sets of people are coming from quite a distance which is usually my case and can meet halfway for the night,it seems like a fair compromise
But if some see it as sleazy it's not going to affect me in anyway  |
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Not at all sleazy, some have awkward staff (eg one in Buxton where the reception lady walked us to the room to show us around it and smirked "there's the bed"!  )but neutral ground,safe clean venues generally. I went to Las Vegas once where the non-casino end of town had really sleazy "rooms by the hour" motels, scary looking places |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hotels can add to the whole meet!!!
Go to the bar separately, tell the barman to see if the hot lady at the bar would like a drink
Etc etc
Rooms are better by far
Only baths are dead small |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The hotel I stayed in last weekend was pure luxury
I don't think they're sleazy,they serve a good purpose for a lot of people and I find them more comfortable than being in someone's lounge that has a quilt chucked on the floor which I once encountered
Some people are always ready to look down their noses at other people's choices,maybe they need a good fuck in a Premier Inn "
Or worse. One meet I went to was just a mattress in a living room with cigarette butts around it  had to walk out of that one.
Hotels = good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a Radisson Blu regular, though I'm pretty sure they charged me 6 quid for getting body fluids on a bed throw last time
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Really? Travelodge must earn a fortune out of my buddy then
I'm more careful in posh hotels and I never nick the towels. |
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"Montcalm regular if I'm in London
I really want to stay at the Mondrian on the South Bank too
The Shangri-Lah hotel in The Shard is on the agenda too "
Shangri-la is beautiful |
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