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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have had a few really enjoyable dungeon sessions - usually felt in safe hands. Always felt honoured to be able to explore my kinky side.
I have seen some people play bdsm style in a very mild way, others much more extreme.
Question for fellow kinky people - when planning to play in a dungeon with a particular fetish or level of domination in mind - do you check with the club first that what you want to do is within their guidelines or do you take the stance that as long as all the participant don't disturb other people and all the participants are fully consenting and fully capable of observing their own boundaries then it is bound to be perfectly acceptable.
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I think it best to check.
I have been to a club before where people were doing needle play and blood play which as a customer didnt sit well with me. The rooms are dark so there is no way of telling where any blood may have spilt and so you could bot be sure it was cleaned up properly |
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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago
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It would be polite to check with the Club first. Some don't like wax play because in the past people enjoying this haven't cleaned up after themselves. Some things maybe to extreme for their normal clientele.
Asking first avoids awkward scenes later. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Always read rules, club, event, party or dungeon 
Always clean up too
Respect other people, their things, dynamics & places  "
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Thank you night garden - that is very sensible advice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it best to check.
I have been to a club before where people were doing needle play and blood play which as a customer didnt sit well with me. The rooms are dark so there is no way of telling where any blood may have spilt and so you could bot be sure it was cleaned up properly "
yes - good point - not into blood at all myself and I wouldn't watch it - but I know that some people love that kind of thing ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It would be polite to check with the Club first. Some don't like wax play because in the past people enjoying this haven't cleaned up after themselves. Some things maybe to extreme for their normal clientele.
Asking first avoids awkward scenes later."
Yes Andy, I totally agree with you about the need to look after the cleanliness of the area - I hate it when people leave a mess for others. And I think I know what you mean about one person's extreme being another person's turn off x. |
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