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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys..
Any couples that have only done same room sex and thought about slowly going into soft swap?
How did you go about it and get any awkwardness out of the way .. We are thinking of mixing it a little but only with the male half of the other couple.. How does this go down? |
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When i was on here with a partner we did want soft sex...we called couple back to ours and it got very uncomfortable as we wanted sex.. they wanted full! Wrong of them to say yes to soft then ask for full. A no is a no |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
with soft swap on fab, it is very important to clearly define exactly what is on offer, and what you mean...
so if you want the 2 ladies to play, then can swap for oral with each others partners but no penetration - clearly state that - not just "mixing it up" as that could mean absolutely anything.
Be clear and state what you want - with your guidelines and boundaries defined so that anyone reading it can understand - it saves so many misunderstandings, and gets the awkward conversation started. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's what's happened to us before we've set ground rules and it's gone further and hard to get out of that situation without being rude :/
We don't want that to happen again x |
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After that meet we decided to nail meeting privately... we just ended up going to chams and had more no pressure fun there.
People sometimes think they can change peoples mind... well we did dissapoint them lol |
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We started our swinging that way, in La Chambre many years back. First visit we just played together in crowded playrooms, No swapping that time, but on our second and later visits we swapped with other couples and just soft-swung. If they wanted to fuck we just said we were soft swingers and we didn't get any negative reactions. We got used to swapping and playing with other people then swapping back for fucking. When Rose was ready we did our first full swap. That's how we play most of the time these days but we still do soft swinging if that's what others prefer. We have some friends who never go further than that. You can have a lot of really sexy fun without a full swap. |
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"We started our swinging that way, in La Chambre many years back. First visit we just played together in crowded playrooms, No swapping that time, but on our second and later visits we swapped with other couples and just soft-swung. If they wanted to fuck we just said we were soft swingers and we didn't get any negative reactions. We got used to swapping and playing with other people then swapping back for fucking. When Rose was ready we did our first full swap. That's how we play most of the time these days but we still do soft swinging if that's what others prefer. We have some friends who never go further than that. You can have a lot of really sexy fun without a full swap."
We met a lovely couple at AbFabs for soft swing and it was indeed very sexy!  |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
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"We started our swinging that way, in La Chambre many years back. First visit we just played together in crowded playrooms, No swapping that time, but on our second and later visits we swapped with other couples and just soft-swung. If they wanted to fuck we just said we were soft swingers and we didn't get any negative reactions. We got used to swapping and playing with other people then swapping back for fucking. When Rose was ready we did our first full swap. That's how we play most of the time these days but we still do soft swinging if that's what others prefer. We have some friends who never go further than that. You can have a lot of really sexy fun without a full swap."
Pretty similar to our own experience. We had a great meet at Partners recently,lots of fun in the water and elsewhere but definitely soft swap. Penetrative sex is by no means our main objective. Meeting genuine, nice, sexy people, socialising (for a while at least) and then enjoying what a club, or a bedroom, has to offer is what we like.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey guys..
Any couples that have only done same room sex and thought about slowly going into soft swap?
How did you go about it and get any awkwardness out of the way .. We are thinking of mixing it a little but only with the male half of the other couple.. How does this go down?"
In a club environment I have enjoyed watching my hubby have mfm with a couple - always with a smile on my face knowing that I can participate in some fun myself afterwards. No problem. Is just a matter of agreeing and respecting boundaries.
Seeing my partner enjoy himself is a great aphrodisiac for me! x |
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