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I seldom if ever send a message unless I've already been chatting with the person either in the chat rooms, on the forum or they have messaged me first. The chances are any first message, however brief and blunt or in-depth is going to have little to no impact if you're just massaging woman at random. It's just junk mail and spam for them, and you know what you normally do with most of that yourselves. |
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"Looking too see what other people have sent too other people in there first messages"
There's no perfect answer or message. Try and make yours memorable and refer to their profile and attach a pic and don't hassle them for a reply....send and forget. |
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This is why many single guys fail. They don't personalise their message. I definitely try to make mine personal so that the recipient feels special.
i.e. I don't use 'fancy a fuck?'
I use 'Hello (insert name here), fancy a fuck?'  |
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When I do send a msg I am always informative so they kinda know who I am and can form a mental pic in their mind.
Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x. |
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"Thats a fair point Unleashed but I always try to tailor my message to the woman or couple were I can to show I have read the profile."
 Works for us...Doesn't guarantee a meet but unless we're snowed under it will always get a reply. |
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"Thats a fair point Unleashed but I always try to tailor my message to the woman or couple were I can to show I have read the profile.
Works for us...Doesn't guarantee a meet but unless we're snowed under it will always get a reply."
Well I always appreciate a reply. Even if its a no thanks. |
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""Dirty bitch...do you want dick cum all over your pussy"......naturally no reply and blocked haha xxxx
Don't see the problem with that lol  "
Me either... That's kinda hot lol |
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For shits and giggles i just sent this to a random woman.
"Right, there is two of us, you must like one of us enough to fuck the other as well?"
Sent with face pics.
I'm not expecting a reply. |
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"Fancy a fuck "
Oh, go on then. I thought you were having a break, having a kit kat, but seeing as how you made such an effort in the message....!
I'm in Sevenoaks if you fancy a drink btw |
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"When I do send a msg I am always informative so they kinda know who I am and can form a mental pic in their mind.
Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x."
i have norwegian blood in me and im all for putting plats in my hair lol |
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"When I do send a msg I am always informative so they kinda know who I am and can form a mental pic in their mind.
Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x. i have norwegian blood in me and im all for putting plats in my hair lol"
lol yes, that is a good one, yeah nice place Norway is too, do you visit it to? |
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"When I do send a msg I am always informative so they kinda know who I am and can form a mental pic in their mind.
Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x. i have norwegian blood in me and im all for putting plats in my hair lollol yes, that is a good one, yeah nice place Norway is too, do you visit it to?"
no sadly never been...but i will one day. Id love to do a nowegian cruise thru the ffjords |
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"My first message is always polite and introduce myself and ask them to look at my veris to show I am genuine. Nothing rude and just face pics."
Funnily enough this bugs me. I know if I want to look at veris or not |
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"When I do send a msg I am always informative so they kinda know who I am and can form a mental pic in their mind.
Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x."
FFS Shag, we're not bloody yanks. What's with 180lbs?
 Try 12st 12lbs.
(Jesus.. )  |
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" Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x."
Not a bad message as such but I always think your profile tells us your name and height so why tell me something I already know?
Everyone says they read the profile even if they didn't. Are you specific about why you think you are a good match? |
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"When I do send a msg I am always informative so they kinda know who I am and can form a mental pic in their mind.
Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x. i have norwegian blood in me and im all for putting plats in my hair lollol yes, that is a good one, yeah nice place Norway is too, do you visit it to?no sadly never been...but i will one day. Id love to do a nowegian cruise thru the ffjords"
Yes I have never been to them ffjords either, would be fun to be in a boat to see them one day as well. Nice scenery too. |
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"When I do send a msg I am always informative so they kinda know who I am and can form a mental pic in their mind.
Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x.
FFS Shag, we're not bloody yanks. What's with 180lbs?
Try 12st 12lbs.
(Jesus.. ) "
lol I know, cos I prefer to use lbs you know as its what we do in bodybuilding and as well use kg's. |
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" Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x.
Not a bad message as such but I always think your profile tells us your name and height so why tell me something I already know?
Everyone says they read the profile even if they didn't. Are you specific about why you think you are a good match?"
Thanks and yes as well if they don't got time to look at your profile maibe so good to point it out I think.
No I wasn't specific as to why we was a match more like we like the same things, but good idea to point it out as well in the msgs isn't it to? |
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"For shits and giggles i just sent this to a random woman.
"Right, there is two of us, you must like one of us enough to fuck the other as well?"
Sent with face pics.
I'm not expecting a reply. "
Today was your lucky day then seeing as I replied to it. I like originality  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Hello, your fanny reminds me of a knocked over trifle, I'm hungry lets eat"
Always seems to work for me
That is so funny..am giggling out loud"
Alas I can't see yours so not sure it would work but glad you like my humour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Humour humour humour... Make us laugh with an opening message and you stand a much better chance... The one liners are ignored( unless c is in the mood to wind people up).And to be honest the ' hi I am xxxxxxxx and ' cue their life story can be boring.xxxx |
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""Hello, your fanny reminds me of a knocked over trifle, I'm hungry lets eat"
Always seems to work for me
Mmm trifle "
That's just reminded me, I have a mini trifle in the fridge for later! |
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"Thats a fair point Unleashed but I always try to tailor my message to the woman or couple were I can to show I have read the profile."
Best way its a shame more dont. We get a lot say they have, pick out bits as proof but totally ignore the parts that rule them out from the word go. |
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Some of these are class
We had a great one today, which pulled us in and got us chatting, nothing rude, not massively long but it had a kick to it...
We tend to ignore the "hi how are you" ones.... Snooze fest....
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