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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi All,
Been on here a while and I'll be honest finding it hard. Seems to be a lot of competition and most of my messages never get read.
Wondering if anyone had any tips, maybe my profile is no good, I had it filled out with more info but still the same results. Possibly too horny when I message hah but I'd just like to make a few connections. Most of the messages I get are from guys!!
What can I do? Should I change my picture or just give up due to the insane ratio. (Realise I'm also kinds young, hard to get experience when no one talks ha and I don't think clubs are for me?)   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have nothing on your profile which would make me want to know more about you to be honest. I would look at it then immediately move on.
Use it to tell people who you are, why they would want to meet you over all the other guys.
And the photo's? Lose the one with the mask and add more, doesn't have to be cock shots but photo's that show you: torso, ass etc. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Hi All,
Been on here a while and I'll be honest finding it hard. Seems to be a lot of competition and most of my messages never get read.
Wondering if anyone had any tips, maybe my profile is no good, I had it filled out with more info but still the same results. Possibly too horny when I message hah but I'd just like to make a few connections. Most of the messages I get are from guys!!
What can I do? Should I change my picture or just give up due to the insane ratio. (Realise I'm also kinds young, hard to get experience when no one talks ha and I don't think clubs are for me?) "
Far too much text on your profile; shorten it a bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have been on a year, you have pretty much nothing on your profile, you cant accommodate ...... I probably don't need to go on with that one ! might be an idea to get yourself to a social or 2, normally plenty being advertised around the forums, get some veris and see how you find things then .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From up North London must have a good social scene. Find a friendly club and get in with the crowd there the smaller the better. Just my observation from going to such a club as a couple and seeing single blokes there and chatting with them. Mr W |
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"You have nothing on your profile which would make me want to know more about you to be honest. I would look at it then immediately move on.
Use it to tell people who you are, why they would want to meet you over all the other guys.
And the photo's? Lose the one with the mask and add more, doesn't have to be cock shots but photo's that show you: torso, ass etc. "
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"Welcome to the many forums about this issue....."
Yep!
OP, your thread is longer than your profile text. You've obviously given it some thought. How about putting as much effort into your profile as this thread: the result may surprise you.
As for the masked picture: if you think it's effect will get the ladies moist and knickers dropped, keep it. (Just my humble opinion of course, I'd change it). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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From up North London must have a good social scene. Find a friendly club and get in with the crowd there the smaller the better. Just my observation from going to such a club as a couple and seeing single blokes there and chatting with them. Mr W |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi All,
Been on here a while and I'll be honest finding it hard. Seems to be a lot of competition and most of my messages never get read.
Wondering if anyone had any tips, maybe my profile is no good, I had it filled out with more info but still the same results. Possibly too horny when I message hah but I'd just like to make a few connections. Most of the messages I get are from guys!!
What can I do? Should I change my picture or just give up due to the insane ratio. (Realise I'm also kinds young, hard to get experience when no one talks ha and I don't think clubs are for me?) "
nothing on your profile women want to know a lot about you before they ignore you give them something to go on at least ,pics are bland a dust mask ? You're not telling them what you want or advertising yourself with decent pics ,it takes a lot of messaging thoughtful messaging based on the woman's profile ,good luck    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi All,
Been on here a while and I'll be honest finding it hard. Seems to be a lot of competition and most of my messages never get read.
Wondering if anyone had any tips, maybe my profile is no good, I had it filled out with more info but still the same results. Possibly too horny when I message hah but I'd just like to make a few connections. Most of the messages I get are from guys!!
What can I do? Should I change my picture or just give up due to the insane ratio. (Realise I'm also kinds young, hard to get experience when no one talks ha and I don't think clubs are for me?) "
Hey j12345s your profile text just reads "romantic domination"
I dont think from that alone people are going to get what your about or what you want so maybe could do with more profile to sell yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All,
Been on here a while and I'll be honest finding it hard. Seems to be a lot of competition and most of my messages never get read.
Wondering if anyone had any tips, maybe my profile is no good, I had it filled out with more info but still the same results. Possibly too horny when I message hah but I'd just like to make a few connections. Most of the messages I get are from guys!!
What can I do? Should I change my picture or just give up due to the insane ratio. (Realise I'm also kinds young, hard to get experience when no one talks ha and I don't think clubs are for me?) "
Read the above and make some changes. You asked. |
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"Hi All,
Been on here a while and I'll be honest finding it hard. Seems to be a lot of competition and most of my messages never get read.
Wondering if anyone had any tips, maybe my profile is no good, I had it filled out with more info but still the same results. Possibly too horny when I message hah but I'd just like to make a few connections. Most of the messages I get are from guys!!
What can I do? Should I change my picture or just give up due to the insane ratio. (Realise I'm also kinds young, hard to get experience when no one talks ha and I don't think clubs are for me?)
Hey j12345s your profile text just reads "romantic domination"
I dont think from that alone people are going to get what your about or what you want so maybe could do with more profile to sell yourself "
"Romantic domination" is a meaningless phrase but sounds scary and off-putting.
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
Please don't listen to anything the others are saying; they are all jealous of you
Take my advise: shorten the profile text, display about half a dozen photographs of your c**k from different angles. Some of these should be over a toilet bowl, the remainder, against a SKY remote control
And then fire up your outlook calender for you'll need it to schedule all the dates from eager women you will need to juggle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please don't listen to anything the others are saying; they are all jealous of you
Take my advise: shorten the profile text, display about half a dozen photographs of your c**k from different angles. Some of these should be over a toilet bowl, the remainder, against a SKY remote control
And then fire up your outlook calender for you'll need it to schedule all the dates from eager women you will need to juggle"
 hey you've already got 4 regular Food and Beverages don't be greedy are you grooming him ? |
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There's no information about you at all on your "profile" and you've been on the site for a while without any success so that tells people more than the two words or two photos.
You've also not followed any of the easy advice already given.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi All,
Been on here a while and I'll be honest finding it hard. Seems to be a lot of competition and most of my messages never get read.
Wondering if anyone had any tips, maybe my profile is no good, I had it filled out with more info but still the same results. Possibly too horny when I message hah but I'd just like to make a few connections. Most of the messages I get are from guys!!
What can I do? Should I change my picture or just give up due to the insane ratio. (Realise I'm also kinds young, hard to get experience when no one talks ha and I don't think clubs are for me?) "
Better! And the smiling pic? |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Please don't listen to anything the others are saying; they are all jealous of you
Take my advise: shorten the profile text, display about half a dozen photographs of your c**k from different angles. Some of these should be over a toilet bowl, the remainder, against a SKY remote control
And then fire up your outlook calender for you'll need it to schedule all the dates from eager women you will need to juggle hey you've already got 4 regular Food and Beverages don't be greedy are you grooming him ? "
He is way out of my age range 
But his profile is much better now. Don't you think so?
Sometimes the best advice to people is for them to think for themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I suggest you remove from your profile this line "but also a young teenage girl thing", doesn't sound 'right' and would put me of. Also, the selfie of you sitting in a vehicle, lose that one, the other 2 show you in a much better light. |
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Sometimes the best advice to people is for them to think for themselves"
In many ways, starting this thread and so many others just like it, is a cop out from some basic thinking.
Allowing others to shape a profile makes it less your own. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes but asking what women want to see on a sex site profile rather than a dating site is not always an easy thing to work out.
Thanks for all the advice though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes but asking what women want to see on a sex site profile rather than a dating site is not always an easy thing to work out.
Thanks for all the advice though "
It's great to see that you actually take the advice you've been given, many guys ask the same as you and totally ignore what's been said. |
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"Yes but asking what women want to see on a sex site profile rather than a dating site is not always an easy thing to work out.
Thanks for all the advice though
It's great to see that you actually take the advice you've been given, many guys ask the same as you and totally ignore what's been said. "
I agree. Well done OP. Join in on the chat rooms and forums and get yourself known. Just introduce yourself as the guy who had the paper mask pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha well it was good advice! The chat rooms dont really work too well on my phone  I'm a still a little shy compared to you long term swingers lol"
Profile is a lot better though on first photo looks like you got a really long selfie stick arm lol jk its 100% better good luck |
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