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Sorry you're not my type

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No idea what type you are, is there such a thing? Presumably she meant there was a reason she didn't think you were compatible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No idea what type you are, is there such a thing? Presumably she meant there was a reason she didn't think you were compatible. "

I am not sure either??? Anyone else fancy a go? Have fabbed your pics as you're the first to reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not the type you are that matters

It's the type she's looking for that does

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By *xoticloverMan over a year ago

newcastle

"It's not the type you are that matters

It's the type she's looking for that does

Well said...

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

You're the type who likes regular meets and to keep fit. I didn't need a crystal ball it's all in your profile.

At least the lady answered you.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies."

i have not got a crystal ball but hubby has gorgeous big ones lol , seriously though its often due to the maleto female ratio, fems have to sometimes make a decision on profile alone due to number of messages they receive

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By *ucky78Woman over a year ago

liverpool

Maybe u don't wear the type of underpants she likes ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's not the type you are that matters

It's the type she's looking for that does

Got you, I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was it just a ploy on your part to get people to look at your profile and photos ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe u don't wear the type of underpants she likes ?"

Will have to switch to boxers I reckon lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You aren't my type either .

The pics are repetitive

3 meets on here , all with the same lady makes me think ' hands off he's mine '

Your profile states you are looking for a woman who wants regular meets with you .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She's saying she's not interested in meeting you.

She's not claiming to know what 'type' of person you are, nor is she denigrating you as a person.

She's saying, 'no thank you,' in a way she perceives as polite and inoffensive.

The issue you have with this response is your own issue. You are taking it in no way the way it was intended.

Let it go. For you more than anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't have a type myself but if i see someone, or they message me, i know if i'm interested or not, i guess if i'm interested then their my type.

You're the type who thinks they're attractive, according to your profile, and i didn't read further than that.

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By *urious fem ddWoman over a year ago

dublin

You wear y fronts... defo not my type! Lol

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By *rSwaggerMan over a year ago

Northants

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies."

Simple really...

She may not like tattoos or men in pants.. or she maybe looking for a smoker or someone who's a certain distance away.. interests play a part too.. might be she wants ransoms and not regular.

So many reasons... Don't overthink

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Was it just a ploy on your part to get people to look at your profile and photos ?

No this happened on Friday night, but nice try.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Light source goes behind the camera not behind the subject.

Helps them not be all dark.

Also why so many pictures of your waist region it's hard to get a picture of you as a whole.

You're 6'1"diwtance shots showing off the hight will help more than "here's a variety of unflattering shots of my belly and underpants"

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By *rSwaggerMan over a year ago

Northants

"You wear y fronts... defo not my type! Lol"

Haha... as stated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wonder if the op would have preferred "Fuck off your pics look awful and you make me vomit" as a response? You're not my type is a standard polite way of saying no.

Where do i get one of these Crystal balls btw?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Really appreciating your feedback, really interesting stuff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I wonder if the op would have preferred "Fuck off your pics look awful and you make me vomit" as a response? You're not my type is a standard polite way of saying no.

Where do i get one of these Crystal balls btw? "

I have two of them you're more than welcome to have one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was it just a ploy on your part to get people to look at your profile and photos ?

No this happened on Friday night, but nice try."

It could still be the reason

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By *rSwaggerMan over a year ago

Northants

"I wonder if the op would have preferred "Fuck off your pics look awful and you make me vomit" as a response? You're not my type is a standard polite way of saying no.

Where do i get one of these Crystal balls btw? "

There on the shelf next to the golden balls and hackysacks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Light source goes behind the camera not behind the subject.

Helps them not be all dark.

Also why so many pictures of your waist region it's hard to get a picture of you as a whole.

You're 6'1"diwtance shots showing off the hight will help more than "here's a variety of unflattering shots of my belly and underpants""

Thanks for this all taken on-board

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Was it just a ploy on your part to get people to look at your profile and photos ?

No this happened on Friday night, but nice try."

Obviously annoyed you if you're posting about it over a day later.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Was it just a ploy on your part to get people to look at your profile and photos ?

No this happened on Friday night, but nice try.

Obviously annoyed you if you're posting about it over a day later.

More curious than anything else tbh always good to get feedback about my profile us men are up against on here you know.

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By *ustcutieWoman over a year ago

edinburgh

The type that wears dodgy pants?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I say this.

Then they ask what that means.

Then I say I don't find you attractive.

At that point I get called shallow and egotistical and get blocked.

Hey ho.

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By *rSwaggerMan over a year ago

Northants

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not just concentrate on those who do want to meet you, on a side note I think your profile could do with an update

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By *rSwaggerMan over a year ago

Northants

"Was it just a ploy on your part to get people to look at your profile and photos ?

No this happened on Friday night, but nice try.

Obviously annoyed you if you're posting about it over a day later.

More curious than anything else tbh always good to get feedback about my profile us men are up against on here you know."

I don't really feel up against it at all to be honest. Conduct myself in a formal way and lots of fun had

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps she's not into guys who wear baggy grey pants.

She had a look, wasn't instantly attracted to you and was kind enough to say so.

What wording would you have preferred that still meant 'no'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why not just concentrate on those who do want to meet you, on a side note I think your profile could do with an update "

In what way?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Attraction isn't a choice. You either are or you're not. Also everyone has different tastes, again not out of choice or rational reason.

I like sprouts, for example. I hear they're terrible though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Was it just a ploy on your part to get people to look at your profile and photos ?

No this happened on Friday night, but nice try.

Obviously annoyed you if you're posting about it over a day later.

More curious than anything else tbh always good to get feedback about my profile us men are up against on here you know.

I don't really feel up against it at all to be honest. Conduct myself in a formal way and lots of fun had

Consider yourself very lucky, what's the ratio of men to women on this site? 40:1 or something like that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Right off out but will read replies later and fab some pics for best/most helpful replies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why not just concentrate on those who do want to meet you, on a side note I think your profile could do with an update

In what way?"

You start your text by saying back after a short break yet your profile is over a year old.

Can you accom now ? You state you hope to soon but this text was written some time ago now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Right off out but will read replies later and fab some pics for best/most helpful replies."

Who really gives a shit if there pic gets fabbed ?

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By *rSwaggerMan over a year ago

Northants

"Was it just a ploy on your part to get people to look at your profile and photos ?

No this happened on Friday night, but nice try.

Obviously annoyed you if you're posting about it over a day later.

More curious than anything else tbh always good to get feedback about my profile us men are up against on here you know.

I don't really feel up against it at all to be honest. Conduct myself in a formal way and lots of fun had

Consider yourself very lucky, what's the ratio of men to women on this site? 40:1 or something like that?"

Consider lucky ?... not at all.. never had an issue talking to women or couple be it private or club.. its nothing to do with ratio.. to funny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry but can't take offence, whewewe've bee told that we're not suitable or C isn't attractive enough for the other party it's just someone else's personal taste or preference. Just gotta move on!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies."

Quick look, it's the baggy pants that make you not my type. Didn't get any further sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Right off out but will read replies later and fab some pics for best/most helpful replies.

Who really gives a shit if there pic gets fabbed ?"

Might be his way of saying thanks?

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By *rSwaggerMan over a year ago

Northants

"Right off out but will read replies later and fab some pics for best/most helpful replies.

Who really gives a shit if there pic gets fabbed ?

Might be his way of saying thanks? "

Gone to buy boxers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Right off out but will read replies later and fab some pics for best/most helpful replies.

Who really gives a shit if there pic gets fabbed ?

Might be his way of saying thanks? "

He obviously didn't like my comment then

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Its a polite way of saying no.

For all we know, it could be something you wrote in her message that made her think, not my type.

It could be an old out of date profile that suggests a lazy attitude, and some frankly unflattering pictures.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I bet you're glad you asked now OP

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By *rSwaggerMan over a year ago

Northants

"Its a polite way of saying no.

For all we know, it could be something you wrote in her message that made her think, not my type.

It could be an old out of date profile that suggests a lazy attitude, and some frankly unflattering pictures."

Thank crunchie its sunday

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Right off out but will read replies later and fab some pics for best/most helpful replies.

Who really gives a shit if there pic gets fabbed ?

Might be his way of saying thanks?

He obviously didn't like my comment then

Never thought to check if he liked mine lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Right off out but will read replies later and fab some pics for best/most helpful replies.

Who really gives a shit if there pic gets fabbed ?

Might be his way of saying thanks?

He obviously didn't like my comment then

Never thought to check if he liked mine lol."

Nope. Mine wasn't what he was looking for either.

Gutted

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies."

If go for a type-M; you are more of the other type [A-L;N-Z]

I trust that the above satisfactorily addresses the issue and answers the query which you have raised. If however, you require any further information or clarification then do not hesitate to contact us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies."

I got that a couple of times I looked at their profile and looked at me and asked my friend who is also here

Her response was " stop offering charity shags then "

A woman can tell straight away if a guy a too good for them and won't meet them in case they get their confidence dented

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By *ubyrumCouple over a year ago

wigan

Literally can't get past the terrible pants

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

I got that a couple of times I looked at their profile and looked at me and asked my friend who is also here

Her response was " stop offering charity shags then "

A woman can tell straight away if a guy a too good for them and won't meet them in case they get their confidence dented "

Half the guys on here struggle because they're unappealing to anyone, for many reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've used this line before, it's another way of saying nooooooo & don't message again.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are pants really that important, as long as they're clean?

If the perfect man approached you, would you kick him to the kerb if his pants weren't perfect?

You pantist lot!

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman over a year ago

kinky land

"It's not the type you are that matters

It's the type she's looking for that does

I love tasteful ass pics but tight underwear please

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By *issy louWoman over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies."

You state that you are shaved and like the same of a lady....maybe she prefers 'au naturel' either for herself or a potential meet, and your comment would mean that you consider her 'nasty' - so no, you wouldn't be her type would you?

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

Flagrante

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies."

From your profile text I would say an over confident under achiever with a wide selection of underpants....

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By *eliciousladyWoman over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"Maybe u don't wear the type of underpants she likes ?"

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies."

Are you posting this OP because a fem said no?

She is allowed you know! And she was being nice about it too.

Just because you didn't like the reason!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmmm. Your profile states you shave down below because 'a mouthful of hair is NASTY' (your words). Just maybe she doesn't want to meet because shes a lady who isn't so smooth, and that's entirely her choice, as is saying 'No ta' rather than being thought of as 'nasty'.

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By *eliciousladyWoman over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Would like to add that your profile says 'tattoos' and perhaps she doesn't like men with them?

I'd love to see a glimpse of them in a pic or 2 please.

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By *issy louWoman over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies."

Those grey pants that are baggy round your arse could very well mean that you aren't most ladies 'type' - they must surely be an acquired taste!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

and that sort of ignorant bad mannered response is exactly why women on here stop bothering to say 'no thank you' and just delete messages!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"Maybe u don't wear the type of underpants she likes ?"

I'm sure he wouldn't mind if she took them of for him.

I know I wouldn't, especially if she was you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe u don't wear the type of underpants she likes ?

Will have to switch to boxers I reckon lol"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"and that sort of ignorant bad mannered response is exactly why women on here stop bothering to say 'no thank you' and just delete messages!"

Which response?

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

I got that a couple of times I looked at their profile and looked at me and asked my friend who is also here

Her response was " stop offering charity shags then "

A woman can tell straight away if a guy a too good for them and won't meet them in case they get their confidence dented

Half the guys on here struggle because they're unappealing to anyone, for many reasons."

God dam!! I was wondering what my problem was. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

I got that a couple of times I looked at their profile and looked at me and asked my friend who is also here

Her response was " stop offering charity shags then "

A woman can tell straight away if a guy a too good for them and won't meet them in case they get their confidence dented

Half the guys on here struggle because they're unappealing to anyone, for many reasons.

God dam!! I was wondering what my problem was. Thanks.

Omg wasn't naming names haha, doubt you'd be in there if there was a list.

That basically is what it is though. People find all kinds of things attractive and if you're not any of these things then you won't enjoy this site, or any site, or looking for someone.

Loads of guys lie because of this as well, that's how they get meets, sad really. They know they're unattractive so have to lie to become attractive.

Women only have to have a fanny...(half joking, half serious).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your profile text makes you seem slightly vain and arrogant and as others have stated wanting regular meets will put off those wanting one off's and your pics are repetitive.

So whatever type you are its not the type that interested the lady nor are u the type that would interest us. So its not what you are its what your not

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

I got that a couple of times I looked at their profile and looked at me and asked my friend who is also here

Her response was " stop offering charity shags then "

A woman can tell straight away if a guy a too good for them and won't meet them in case they get their confidence dented

Half the guys on here struggle because they're unappealing to anyone, for many reasons.

God dam!! I was wondering what my problem was. Thanks.

Omg wasn't naming names haha, doubt you'd be in there if there was a list.

That basically is what it is though. People find all kinds of things attractive and if you're not any of these things then you won't enjoy this site, or any site, or looking for someone.

Loads of guys lie because of this as well, that's how they get meets, sad really. They know they're unattractive so have to lie to become attractive.

Women only have to have a fanny...(half joking, half serious).

Would I lie just to get a meet with anyone? Probably not. Would I lie to get a meet with someone? Possibly. Would I lie to get a meet with you. If it was the only way, definitely.

LOL

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not the type you are that matters

It's the type she's looking for that does

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why should a woman have to give a reason, if it's NO it's NO!

If I say no, not interested or not my type all I get is a message back, asking WHY?

I'm not fucking anyone who doesn't do it for me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

I got that a couple of times I looked at their profile and looked at me and asked my friend who is also here

Her response was " stop offering charity shags then "

A woman can tell straight away if a guy a too good for them and won't meet them in case they get their confidence dented

Half the guys on here struggle because they're unappealing to anyone, for many reasons.

God dam!! I was wondering what my problem was. Thanks.

Omg wasn't naming names haha, doubt you'd be in there if there was a list.

That basically is what it is though. People find all kinds of things attractive and if you're not any of these things then you won't enjoy this site, or any site, or looking for someone.

Loads of guys lie because of this as well, that's how they get meets, sad really. They know they're unattractive so have to lie to become attractive.

Women only have to have a fanny...(half joking, half serious).

Would I lie just to get a meet with anyone? Probably not. Would I lie to get a meet with someone? Possibly. Would I lie to get a meet with you. If it was the only way, definitely.

LOL"

Aw, but lies leave me feeling disappointed and sad eventually.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
Forum Mod

My Own Little World

Sorry but your not my type also, lack of compatible interests.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

I got that a couple of times I looked at their profile and looked at me and asked my friend who is also here

Her response was " stop offering charity shags then "

A woman can tell straight away if a guy a too good for them and won't meet them in case they get their confidence dented

Half the guys on here struggle because they're unappealing to anyone, for many reasons."

it makes me think how bad the women are that are struggling with meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im noones type so i just have to wank amd suck my own cock its a nightmare being ugly lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Narcissistic?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

I got that a couple of times I looked at their profile and looked at me and asked my friend who is also here

Her response was " stop offering charity shags then "

A woman can tell straight away if a guy a too good for them and won't meet them in case they get their confidence dented

Half the guys on here struggle because they're unappealing to anyone, for many reasons.

it makes me think how bad the women are that are struggling with meets "

Most of them are struggling to get the meets they want, but i have seen some women say they get no interest yeah.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

I got that a couple of times I looked at their profile and looked at me and asked my friend who is also here

Her response was " stop offering charity shags then "

A woman can tell straight away if a guy a too good for them and won't meet them in case they get their confidence dented

Half the guys on here struggle because they're unappealing to anyone, for many reasons.

it makes me think how bad the women are that are struggling with meets

Most of them are struggling to get the meets they want, but i have seen some women say they get no interest yeah."

Yeap I struggle to meet on here, because I can't find anyone that appeals to me.

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"it makes me think how bad the women are that are struggling with meets "

I struggle to get meets. I live in a rural area in north east scotland, and I won't meet just for the sake of it. I would rather wait and find someone who floats my boat, and also having a lover, I am not desperate.

I struggle to find couples that don't see me as a box to tick off their fantasy list, and I struggle to find guys who don't just want an unpaid prostitute. I also struggle to find truly single ladies - all too often its going well, get to close to meeting and all of a sudden the boyfriend/partner must be there for her safety...

I don't think I am bad...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you seem fine to me, I don't have a "type" so long as the guy had a good personality, sence of humour, I'll chat to him, possibly meet on a social basis and take it from there. What I hate is chatting to someone, talk about arranging a meet only for that person to leave the site without warning... what is that all about? PS I'd chat to you, nice to see a few pics that aren't all cock ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

I got that a couple of times I looked at their profile and looked at me and asked my friend who is also here

Her response was " stop offering charity shags then "

A woman can tell straight away if a guy a too good for them and won't meet them in case they get their confidence dented

Half the guys on here struggle because they're unappealing to anyone, for many reasons.

it makes me think how bad the women are that are struggling with meets

Most of them are struggling to get the meets they want, but i have seen some women say they get no interest yeah."

I get Very little interest. I must be really bad. Good job i don't rely on the site or forum for a confidence boost really

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

I got that a couple of times I looked at their profile and looked at me and asked my friend who is also here

Her response was " stop offering charity shags then "

A woman can tell straight away if a guy a too good for them and won't meet them in case they get their confidence dented

Half the guys on here struggle because they're unappealing to anyone, for many reasons.

it makes me think how bad the women are that are struggling with meets "

Getting hundreds of guys asking to meet and finding those who one finds attractive enough to one to meet are not quite exactly the same thing

Not yet that desperate and not into giving out charity f**ks

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"She's saying she's not interested in meeting you.

She's not claiming to know what 'type' of person you are, nor is she denigrating you as a person.

She's saying, 'no thank you,' in a way she perceives as polite and inoffensive.

The issue you have with this response is your own issue. You are taking it in no way the way it was intended.

Let it go. For you more than anyone else."

I've not read any further than this.

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

I got that a couple of times I looked at their profile and looked at me and asked my friend who is also here

Her response was " stop offering charity shags then "

A woman can tell straight away if a guy a too good for them and won't meet them in case they get their confidence dented

Half the guys on here struggle because they're unappealing to anyone, for many reasons.

it makes me think how bad the women are that are struggling with meets

Most of them are struggling to get the meets they want, but i have seen some women say they get no interest yeah.

I get Very little interest. I must be really bad. Good job i don't rely on the site or forum for a confidence boost really

Nobody should rely on sites like this for confidence tbf coz you're more likely to be left ripped to shreds than boosted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women are inundated with millions of offers, so that not my type is a standard reply lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women are inundated with millions of offers, so that not my type is a standard reply lol."

this ^^^

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By *ome Social With UsCouple (FF) over a year ago

East Midlands

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies."

Just means you aren't their type. Good way for look at me post though

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

No way to tell if you are my type without a face pic so how can anyone judge from your profile.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Just read your profile and anyone who says they are good looking tend to put me off.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe u don't wear the type of underpants she likes ?"

this exactly wud put me off (jilly)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read your profile and anyone who says they are good looking tend to put me off.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

You changed your tune about not being able to tell from a profile!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

I got that a couple of times I looked at their profile and looked at me and asked my friend who is also here

Her response was " stop offering charity shags then "

A woman can tell straight away if a guy a too good for them and won't meet them in case they get their confidence dented

Half the guys on here struggle because they're unappealing to anyone, for many reasons.

it makes me think how bad the women are that are struggling with meets

Most of them are struggling to get the meets they want, but i have seen some women say they get no interest yeah.

I get Very little interest. I must be really bad. Good job i don't rely on the site or forum for a confidence boost really

Nobody should rely on sites like this for confidence tbf coz you're more likely to be left ripped to shreds than boosted."

Couldn't agree with you more if I tried tbh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I bet you're glad you asked now OP

he needs to realise that on sex sites, women can be a lot more picky, its not like on dating sites

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I bet you're glad you asked now OP

he needs to realise that on sex sites, women can be a lot more picky, its not like on dating sites"

Are women on dating sites not picky then?

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Just read your profile and anyone who says they are good looking tend to put me off.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

You changed your tune about not being able to tell from a profile!!

I'd not read the profile when I said that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tbh without a face pic in a profile no matter how well written n good the body pics are I would tend to decline as it's your face I will be speaking to not a torso or other body parts

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I bet you're glad you asked now OP

he needs to realise that on sex sites, women can be a lot more picky, its not like on dating sites

Are women on dating sites not picky then?"

I think they very much are but had more success on here than on POF

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Tbh without a face pic in a profile no matter how well written n good the body pics are I would tend to decline as it's your face I will be speaking to not a torso or other body parts

Ok and what about if they have private face pics that they could send to you ? Or do they need to be on the profile in public view?

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

I think I am picky wherever I am because I am the same old me .... I would be put off by three verifications from the same person. Don't see the need for it. As I only meet black guys or bi guys, you would not be my type ... so it would not be personal, just about types ...

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Tbh without a face pic in a profile no matter how well written n good the body pics are I would tend to decline as it's your face I will be speaking to not a torso or other body parts

Ok and what about if they have private face pics that they could send to you ? Or do they need to be on the profile in public view?"

For me they do not need to be public but I would expect one with your first message. If I liked the look of you I would read your profile. If I saw things in there that were off putting I would say "Sorry but you're not my type".

If I didn't like the look of your face pic I would reply straight away with "Sorry but you're not my type".

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Tbh without a face pic in a profile no matter how well written n good the body pics are I would tend to decline as it's your face I will be speaking to not a torso or other body parts

Ok and what about if they have private face pics that they could send to you ? Or do they need to be on the profile in public view?

If I didn't like the look of your face pic I would reply straight away with "Sorry but you're not my type"."

Sounds fair enough.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"Tbh without a face pic in a profile no matter how well written n good the body pics are I would tend to decline as it's your face I will be speaking to not a torso or other body parts

Ok and what about if they have private face pics that they could send to you ? Or do they need to be on the profile in public view?

If I didn't like the look of your face pic I would reply straight away with "Sorry but you're not my type"."

How about if I like the look of your profile can I say I think you're my type?

Just wondering like!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Tbh without a face pic in a profile no matter how well written n good the body pics are I would tend to decline as it's your face I will be speaking to not a torso or other body parts

Ok and what about if they have private face pics that they could send to you ? Or do they need to be on the profile in public view?

If I didn't like the look of your face pic I would reply straight away with "Sorry but you're not my type".

How about if I like the look of your profile can I say I think you're my type?

Just wondering like!!

If ya like lol but I'm as straight as a pin though

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"Tbh without a face pic in a profile no matter how well written n good the body pics are I would tend to decline as it's your face I will be speaking to not a torso or other body parts

Ok and what about if they have private face pics that they could send to you ? Or do they need to be on the profile in public view?

If I didn't like the look of your face pic I would reply straight away with "Sorry but you're not my type".

How about if I like the look of your profile can I say I think you're my type?

Just wondering like!!

If ya like lol but I'm as straight as a pin though"

It was directed at Kinky-Minx but what the hell.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Tbh without a face pic in a profile no matter how well written n good the body pics are I would tend to decline as it's your face I will be speaking to not a torso or other body parts

Ok and what about if they have private face pics that they could send to you ? Or do they need to be on the profile in public view?

If I didn't like the look of your face pic I would reply straight away with "Sorry but you're not my type".

How about if I like the look of your profile can I say I think you're my type?

Just wondering like!!

If ya like lol but I'm as straight as a pin though

It was directed at Kinky-Minx but what the hell.

Yes you can

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"Was it just a ploy on your part to get people to look at your profile and photos ?

I think that's plainly the case

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Nope

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

I sometimes get your not my type sorry.....and I am like ok thanks for that chat or mail exchange and leave it at that

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"Tbh without a face pic in a profile no matter how well written n good the body pics are I would tend to decline as it's your face I will be speaking to not a torso or other body parts

Ok and what about if they have private face pics that they could send to you ? Or do they need to be on the profile in public view?

If I didn't like the look of your face pic I would reply straight away with "Sorry but you're not my type".

How about if I like the look of your profile can I say I think you're my type?

Just wondering like!!

If ya like lol but I'm as straight as a pin though

It was directed at Kinky-Minx but what the hell.

Yes you can

Batting eyelids too

. You're definitely my type.

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

"Was it just a ploy on your part to get people to look at your profile and photos ?

No this happened on Friday night, but nice try.

Obviously annoyed you if you're posting about it over a day later.

More curious than anything else tbh always good to get feedback about my profile us men are up against on here you know."
. Hi. I don't think men are up against it on here. You just need really good pictures and a detailed well written profile . This might get you to the starting line of the race .

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"It was directed at Kinky-Minx but what the hell.

Yes you can

Batting eyelids too

. You're definitely my type.

I replied

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not the type you are that matters

It's the type she's looking for that does

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By *igertigerCouple (MM) over a year ago

nr Letterkenny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get the sane

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm flummoxed when a man asks me what my type is.

I'm not interested in average Joes. They bore me.

To the OP,I see an average man who doesn't really accommodate but wants regular meets. Someone said something about you shaving bare-I don't find that attractive. You won't like me (I won't be your type?) because I don't shave bare.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I get the sane"

Preferable to the insane?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

mayb because you havent got a face pic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I say this to men i dont find physically attractive. I dont understand how you dont understand what "not your type" means.

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By *rotiquexxxMan over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

Maybe she meant blood type and you had a lucky escape.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She's saying she's not interested in meeting you.

She's not claiming to know what 'type' of person you are, nor is she denigrating you as a person.

She's saying, 'no thank you,' in a way she perceives as polite and inoffensive.

The issue you have with this response is your own issue. You are taking it in no way the way it was intended.

Let it go. For you more than anyone else."

HERE HERE...just accept your not everyones cup of tea bud as everyone isnt yours, unless your not fussy that is?

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By *imply_SensualMan over a year ago

warrington

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies."

No need to look at your profile - the type you are is a sulk - she was polite, she let you know she wasn't interested. End of errand. She shouldn't have to give a reason. No need for a debate on types

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's because of your Slazenger pants

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By *otty69Couple over a year ago

bedford

One of the reasons we don't do the sorry your not are type as some people then ask why they ain't. .. so leave it as a non reply means no thanks and not us being rude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies."

Probably just meant that she/they didn't find your face or torso pic attractive!

Tbh I simply don't reply if I'm not interested - as I don't want a barrage of 'why's'!

And op - thanks but no need to fab my pics - I'm not insecure enough to need them as a 'reward'!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's because of your Slazenger pants

Nice pics!

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

Probably just meant that she/they didn't find your face or torso pic attractive!

Tbh I simply don't reply if I'm not interested - as I don't want a barrage of 'why's'!

And op - thanks but no need to fab my pics - I'm not insecure enough to need them as a 'reward'! "

Lol ahhhhh that's why I get no thanks the fat clown look is not in vogue this year

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Lol ahhhhh that's why I get no thanks the fat clown look is not in vogue this year

There are threads on here about phobias & fears and clowns feature a lot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

Totally this. And how come fabbing pics is a currency now?

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

"Lol ahhhhh that's why I get no thanks the fat clown look is not in vogue this year

There are threads on here about phobias & fears and clowns feature a lot

Tbh I am not really a clown or yoda

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

Probably just meant that she/they didn't find your face or torso pic attractive!

Tbh I simply don't reply if I'm not interested - as I don't want a barrage of 'why's'!

And op - thanks but no need to fab my pics - I'm not insecure enough to need them as a 'reward'!

Lol ahhhhh that's why I get no thanks the fat clown look is not in vogue this year

You're a nice guy and a friend Mike!

To me fab/swinging is about a whole lot more than just shagging!

Big hugs Hun! Xxx

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

Probably just meant that she/they didn't find your face or torso pic attractive!

Tbh I simply don't reply if I'm not interested - as I don't want a barrage of 'why's'!

And op - thanks but no need to fab my pics - I'm not insecure enough to need them as a 'reward'! "

I'm guessing it's OK, although still no need, to fab your pics because there good and I like them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies.

Probably just meant that she/they didn't find your face or torso pic attractive!

Tbh I simply don't reply if I'm not interested - as I don't want a barrage of 'why's'!

And op - thanks but no need to fab my pics - I'm not insecure enough to need them as a 'reward'!

I'm guessing it's OK, although still no need, to fab your pics because there good and I like them?

That's perfectly ok lovely!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's because of your Slazenger pants

Nice pics!

Hello and thank you! Try a messege

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think 'you're not my type' is a really nice and polite knock back for Fab.

I've had ..

'Urgggg no'

'You are the definition of ugly'

Lol

If you are on Fab and a bloke if you get a reply - even if it's a no - its like winning the lottery. If it's a polite, nice no then you should just enjoy the moment. Not complain about the wording lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I message a lady and get this reply back so as all you ladies have Chrystal Balls lets test your perception, look at my profile and pics and tell me what sort of type I am.

Be nice! Fabbed pics for the best replies."
it says your straight ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's better than just having the message deleted which I get alot. Not sure what I'm doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's better than just having the message deleted which I get alot. Not sure what I'm doing wrong "
many women click your name and view your profile before ever opening the message cap profile that says nothing about you =deleted unread message

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's better than just having the message deleted which I get alot. Not sure what I'm doing wrong many women click your name and view your profile before ever opening the message cap profile that says nothing about you =deleted unread message"

What can I do to sort it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not my type = she doesn't fancy you/is not interested.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe u don't wear the type of underpants she likes ?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does what it says on the tin mate every women man and couple have the right to say your not thier type after all there has to be some sort of connection between you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What can I do to sort it"

Well for one stop lying/trying to be everything to everyone you're not willing to try anything once if you are then you're bat shit insane and should be locked up for everyone's safety.

Write something about you remember you're looking for people to have sex with while some like the pure stranger thing most like to have an idea about the guy first.

What you're looking for (be more specific than just "sex" and less vague than "any kind of sex".

What you have to offer

And the generally a bit of humour and a wider array of pics. (Public face pics help loads)

A good test is read your profile and imagine you're a woman could you from what's in your profile write yourself a message?

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

"Was it just a ploy on your part to get people to look at your profile and photos ?

No this happened on Friday night, but nice try.

Obviously annoyed you if you're posting about it over a day later.

More curious than anything else tbh always good to get feedback about my profile us men are up against on here you know.

I don't really feel up against it at all to be honest. Conduct myself in a formal way and lots of fun had

Consider yourself very lucky, what's the ratio of men to women on this site? 40:1 or something like that?"

no not at all, around 10:1 is close to it, those looking for a cop out claim a grossly exaggerated ratio.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was it just a ploy on your part to get people to look at your profile and photos ?

No this happened on Friday night, but nice try.

Obviously annoyed you if you're posting about it over a day later.

More curious than anything else tbh always good to get feedback about my profile us men are up against on here you know.

I don't really feel up against it at all to be honest. Conduct myself in a formal way and lots of fun had

Consider yourself very lucky, what's the ratio of men to women on this site? 40:1 or something like that?

no not at all, around 10:1 is close to it, those looking for a cop out claim a grossly exaggerated ratio."

Depends where you are using my post code there are 21 women within 20 miles and 6 of them haven't logged in in over 4 months :p

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

"Was it just a ploy on your part to get people to look at your profile and photos ?

No this happened on Friday night, but nice try.

Obviously annoyed you if you're posting about it over a day later.

More curious than anything else tbh always good to get feedback about my profile us men are up against on here you know.

I don't really feel up against it at all to be honest. Conduct myself in a formal way and lots of fun had

Consider yourself very lucky, what's the ratio of men to women on this site? 40:1 or something like that?

no not at all, around 10:1 is close to it, those looking for a cop out claim a grossly exaggerated ratio.

Depends where you are using my post code there are 21 women within 20 miles and 6 of them haven't logged in in over 4 months :p"

yes but that means theres 210 men in your area, and these woman are only the ones that show up on your searches, taking filters into account, and going for an overall number, it was nearer 8:1 but 10:1 is a fair enough overall average.

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman over a year ago

Swansea

Are we still not at the stage on Fab where you just can't accept you're not quite her cup of tea, delete and move on to the next lady?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Are we still not at the stage on Fab where you just can't accept you're not quite her cup of tea, delete and move on to the next lady?

"
don't think you understand the effort that goes into getting a woman to reply xx hugs

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"Are we still not at the stage on Fab where you just can't accept you're not quite her cup of tea, delete and move on to the next lady?

don't think you understand the effort that goes into getting a woman to reply xx hugs

All the effort in the world isn't going to force someone to take an interest in you, nor should it be the intention to do so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was it just a ploy on your part to get people to look at your profile and photos ?

No this happened on Friday night, but nice try.

Obviously annoyed you if you're posting about it over a day later.

More curious than anything else tbh always good to get feedback about my profile us men are up against on here you know.

I don't really feel up against it at all to be honest. Conduct myself in a formal way and lots of fun had

Consider yourself very lucky, what's the ratio of men to women on this site? 40:1 or something like that?

no not at all, around 10:1 is close to it, those looking for a cop out claim a grossly exaggerated ratio.

Depends where you are using my post code there are 21 women within 20 miles and 6 of them haven't logged in in over 4 months :p

Nope same search but men looking for women instead of women looking for men gets 300+ (the display maxes out at 300)

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

"Was it just a ploy on your part to get people to look at your profile and photos ?

No this happened on Friday night, but nice try.

Obviously annoyed you if you're posting about it over a day later.

More curious than anything else tbh always good to get feedback about my profile us men are up against on here you know.

I don't really feel up against it at all to be honest. Conduct myself in a formal way and lots of fun had

Consider yourself very lucky, what's the ratio of men to women on this site? 40:1 or something like that?

no not at all, around 10:1 is close to it, those looking for a cop out claim a grossly exaggerated ratio.

Depends where you are using my post code there are 21 women within 20 miles and 6 of them haven't logged in in over 4 months :p

Nope same search but men looking for women instead of women looking for men gets 300+ (the display maxes out at 300)"

this did have a whole thread to itself, you will never get a true number because of the amount of factors to take into account, one that I already mentioned filters, but its safe to say that as an overall number, 10:1 is a fair number.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Are we still not at the stage on Fab where you just can't accept you're not quite her cup of tea, delete and move on to the next lady?

don't think you understand the effort that goes into getting a woman to reply xx hugs

Some are very persistent!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have to appeal to people,physically and sex appeal. If I wasn't appealing to anyone I'd have to leave.

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By *abloversCouple over a year ago

London

Your pics need updating. Something other than pants!

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By *abloversCouple over a year ago

London

You also say you don't reply to messages without a face pic attached. My hubby and I would never just send our pics out without establishing some kind of connection first. Just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This thread should be made a compulsory read for all members!!

Wow, so many perfect replies I would clog up the system by doing this

to all of them!!

Please guys, if you get a reply at all, be grateful! And ffs there is no reason to ask 'why?' Or 'well what is your type then?' Because the next reply (if you don't get deleted or blocked) won't be as polite! Just take no for an answer and move on, there are literally thousands more to move on to!!

And I just don't get how anyone feels the need to put unflattering midsection pics up, I have done everything I can in my pics to AVOID showing my unattractive mid section

ITS A NO BRAINER!!!! Lmao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My God.... at least she repied haha

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By *rben112Man over a year ago

worcester

Your not my type....I get that often on here

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman over a year ago

Swansea

"Are we still not at the stage on Fab where you just can't accept you're not quite her cup of tea, delete and move on to the next lady?

don't think you understand the effort that goes into getting a woman to reply xx hugs

Some are very persistent!

You don't have to tell me that

Could do with clobbering some of them!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe u don't wear the type of underpants she likes ?"

I doubt you're many people's type with those pants mate!

New pics in sexy pants I think.

Good luck

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By *stwo80Couple over a year ago

yorkshire

Now your profile says having a break from Fab , FFS!!

Teddy is out of the cot then !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Now your profile says having a break from Fab , FFS!!

Teddy is out of the cot then !!

How is having a status saying he's taking a break throwing he's toys out, you realise that life gets in the way at times right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

not really my type hun

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By *adja_lazloCouple over a year ago

Solihull

"It's not the type you are that matters

It's the type she's looking for that does

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Now your profile says having a break from Fab , FFS!!

Teddy is out of the cot then !!

How is having a status saying he's taking a break throwing he's toys out, you realise that life gets in the way at times right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What type you are.. Pictures do no justice. Mine are hidden. Like you say people here collect photos n make fake profiles. Yes they are repeats hope you change them lol.

You strike me as one who fears rejection. Yes just get over it.. Move on. Attention seeking me thinks or low esteem

Have fun finding women..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You've got to have a thick skin on fab, don't let the rejection affect you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Attraction isn't a choice. You either are or you're not. Also everyone has different tastes, again not out of choice or rational reason.

I like sprouts, for example. I hear they're terrible though! "

What?!? Who said they're terrible point me towards them we need words lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What type you are.. Pictures do no justice. Mine are hidden. Like you say people here collect photos n make fake profiles. Yes they are repeats hope you change them lol.

You strike me as one who fears rejection. Yes just get over it.. Move on. Attention seeking me thinks or low esteem

Have fun finding women.. "

Ahhh I see we are moving to the douchbaggery portion of the threads lifespan.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"This thread should be made a compulsory read for all members!!

Wow, so many perfect replies I would clog up the system by doing this

to all of them!!

And I just don't get how anyone feels the need to put unflattering midsection pics up, I have done everything I can in my pics to AVOID showing my unattractive mid section

ITS A NO BRAINER!!!! Lmao"

I don't know what you think you're hiding but I found plenty of great pics on your profile to fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

^^^ why, thank you kind sir

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're the type who likes regular meets and to keep fit. I didn't need a crystal ball it's all in your profile.

At least the lady answered you."

Sounds like a goalless draw

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

'Half the guys on here struggle because they're unappealing to anyone, for many reasons.'

This!! So true.

Most have a deluded sense of entitlement which I find infuriating at times. I've not felt comfortable enough to meet anyone in months. Can't get past the first few messages without them starting to get rude/dirty/pushy/clingy/weird.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

.........T H E E N D.......

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