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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now I have not had a proper girlfriend for many years. Sure I have had a few flings but for some reason I push away and remain single. Now I know I am no oil painting, but just wondered if others on here are in a similar position. Maybe I am emotionally dead??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need to sort yourself out first before you can allow others onto your life. There is obviously a reason why you keep pushing people away and until you figure that out you won't ever be happy.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You need to sort yourself out first before you can allow others onto your life. There is obviously a reason why you keep pushing people away and until you figure that out you won't ever be happy.."
Well I was more open when I am abroad. I guess your partly right and also it's easy to get stuck on a rut and used to being single and I guess selfish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being single is actually great, i don't feel a need to couple up with anyone, every relationship i have had just happened and came from hook ups/one night stands. Last time i consdired being in a relationship i couldn't stop crying for 2 whole days and then told the guy i wasn't up for being with him.
It would take someone really special for me to give up my independence, and there's only been one guy like that who was worth it and i don't even wanna get back with him either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been single all my life and prefer it, bodybuilding and meal prep comes first in my life, the no commitment lifestyle suits me just fine with no strings attached  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't been in a relationship for 3 years. I don't want one at the moment.
I go through periods of thinking i would like to be with someone, but it would have to be the right person. And i like my life at the moment.
If i am undecided it probably means i am not ready for a serious relationship again. Plus my kids are more important than my love life. Took me over 12 months to get over my last one so i am in no rush.
I am definitely not going to sweat over it. When the time and person is right it'll happen.  |
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"Good for you. I tend to prefer the single life Christmas apart. I do have moments of weakness where it would be an easier life in a relationship"
Making life easier is no grounds for a relationship. And as some else said, you're not content in yourself atm for some reason.
If you can 'fix' you then a relationship will enhance life. |
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