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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Average guys? Arent all guys average? Women too for that matter :D Just think you have to be patient on this site, dread to think what the ratio of men vs women is. Currently have 205 unread messages in my inbox and i'm certainly nothing special. Its a numbers game. Just be friendly, chatty and honest x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Average guys? Arent all guys average? Women too for that matter :D Just think you have to be patient on this site, dread to think what the ratio of men vs women is. Currently have 205 unread messages in my inbox and i'm certainly nothing special. Its a numbers game. Just be friendly, chatty and honest x"
Yeah, sorry about that. My enter key on my keyboard got stuck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do "
Maybe change your username to DB10guy and see if it helps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, we can but its not easy! The handsome hunks will generally have the pick of the site (as you'd expect on a casual sex site) but be sociable, take time to talk to people and don't necessarily dive straight in with naughty talk and the meets will (hopefully) follow.
Good luck fella! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are average , you need more than just your cock so extra effort is required compared to the well endowed ones .
If you are well endowed , you get winks and fabs on your pictures and it's easy to meet as well so I guess it's just the way it is.
Extra effort matey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are average , you need more than just your cock so extra effort is required compared to the well endowed ones .
If you are well endowed , you get winks and fabs on your pictures and it's easy to meet as well so I guess it's just the way it is.
Extra effort matey"
all well and good so what your saying is he should grow a bigger cock  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are average , you need more than just your cock so extra effort is required compared to the well endowed ones .
If you are well endowed , you get winks and fabs on your pictures and it's easy to meet as well so I guess it's just the way it is.
Extra effort mateyall well and good so what your saying is he should grow a bigger cock "
I don't do well endowed lol  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
If you mean average in regards to cock size, then yes, some of us prefer average. I don't meet WE or above guys - its painful.
If you mean average as in run of the mill, make no effort, then I am less interested. Everyone has a skill that makes them shine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you don't take the site seriously, just come on to chat and expect nothing, then that comes off in your conversation and I find leads to more opportunities.
Embrace going for a drink, nervous excitement but fun! |
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"Average guys? Arent all guys average? Women too for that matter :D Just think you have to be patient on this site, dread to think what the ratio of men vs women is. Currently have 205 unread messages in my inbox and i'm certainly nothing special. Its a numbers game. Just be friendly, chatty and honest x"
One message is mine |
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"I think if you don't take the site seriously, just come on to chat and expect nothing, then that comes off in your conversation and I find leads to more opportunities.
Embrace going for a drink, nervous excitement but fun!"
NOOOOOOOO!!! I don't drink......always alone  |
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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago
coventry/Leicestershire border |
"I think if you don't take the site seriously, just come on to chat and expect nothing, then that comes off in your conversation and I find leads to more opportunities.
Embrace going for a drink, nervous excitement but fun!"
I like that idea |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do "
if you think you are average and you don't stand out in any way at all....then i think that says more about how you perceive yourself than anything a swinging site can help you with...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a fan of 'average joes' a good honest meet is far better than a meet with someone who is so in love with themselves that they expect to be showered in compliments.
Good luck OP. Don't give up. |
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"I think if you don't take the site seriously, just come on to chat and expect nothing, then that comes off in your conversation and I find leads to more opportunities.
Embrace going for a drink, nervous excitement but fun!"
But worse by far is when your expectations on the site are WAY too high! |
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"I think if you don't take the site seriously, just come on to chat and expect nothing, then that comes off in your conversation and I find leads to more opportunities.
But worse by far is when your expectations on the site are WAY too high!"
In what way would that be? |
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"if you think you are average and you don't stand out in any way at all....then i think that says more about how you perceive yourself than anything a swinging site can help you with......"
This is very true. It's really not all about looks. Concentrate on your personality  |
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"I think if you don't take the site seriously, just come on to chat and expect nothing, then that comes off in your conversation and I find leads to more opportunities.
But worse by far is when your expectations on the site are WAY too high!
In what way would that be? "
Holy shit I think I'm developing a fetish cos this is the second time in as many days that I have said this "Love your shoes"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do "
Do all men like the same size or shape of woman? Ofcourse not. Everyone has different taste, so you might see yourself as average but there will be some people for whom you tick all the boxes.
Confidence is attractive.
Sasha x |
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In am an average guy, well a bit taller than most, and I do ok on here.
It's all about approach and being relaxed. Make friends way before asking about a meet.
It's a dating site with sex thrown in and no long term expectations. Treat it as such and you will be better off in the long run. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"It's really not all about looks. Concentrate on your personality
Many girls would disagree.............. "
you are right.... but for some looks are just part of the bigger picture....
the brain is the biggest sex organ we have, you capture that.. and you go a long long long way....
looks are cool... but by no means the be all and end all some people like to think, or should that be want it to be!!! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Not sure I am average or not; I would leave that for others to judge."
I would like to think that no one in average... and they are in fact the best person they can be.....
i think average is a mindset thing.... am i average? no bloody chance! i'm unique.... you may like me or hate me... but i am me!!! |
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"Not sure I am average or not; I would leave that for others to judge.
I would like to think that no one in average... and they are in fact the best person they can be.....
i think average is a mindset thing.... am i average? no bloody chance! i'm unique.... you may like me or hate me... but i am me!!! "
What a brilliant way to put it ! sums it up ..... 'I am me' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op If you believe you're average. Just go after ladies that you believe are below average. They will think you're a Greek god.
Then you have the upper hand. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Average guys? Arent all guys average? Women too for that matter :D ...
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I am certainly average and am looking for average people who I am attracted to
All the Hollywood stars have long ago left this site and gone to, erm, Hollywood |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Op If you believe you're average. Just go after ladies that you believe are below average. They will think you're a Greek god.
Then you have the upper hand. "
but I find women sexy an lustful in there own way an also where I live |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do "
One person's average is anotheretsons ecial treat m x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do "
of course! keep trying, get to socials and maybe a club - you need to make friends and connections as you would normally x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do "
I think it's down to luck of the draw plus location |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As a average couple wud say do alot better than average , no one is better than the next based on looks alone , expectation to do better may end up disappointment , be what u are and rest will follow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do
I think it's down to luck of the draw plus location "
Yeah going to London for a weekend is like turning easy mode on lol :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't believe anyone is "average" or above or below average, we are all the same. Anybody can fancy anybody, as long as there's a sexual attraction there then who cares xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh I prefer personality over looks but in today's day and age theres a lot of people who wont give you the time of day even though you make the effort. On the flip side saying hia enough times to people does make them stop and think. X |
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