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Ok so me and my partner fantasis over me and 2 other guys fucking her, it's 1 of her biggest fantasies but when I try to set it up she backs out. I know the thought of it turns her on so much, any advise on how I go about it please . Thanks in advance |
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"Ok so me and my partner fantasis over me and 2 other guys fucking her, it's 1 of her biggest fantasies but when I try to set it up she backs out. I know the thought of it turns her on so much, any advise on how I go about it please . Thanks in advance"
If she's backing out when you set it up she isn't ready to do it and possibly never will be. Fantasy doesn't always have to be made reality.
If it's a case of nerves and she genuinely (and I mean genuinely not just to please you) wants to do it you should take it slowly and possibly go to a club and watch with no pressure to play. |
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Thanks guys, she does want to do it but then she gets scared and backs off, she has wanted this fantasy for a while now. And she gets so turned on at the thought but Maybe going to a club is a better option. Thank you all for your advice it's been taken onboard! |
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"Fantasy and reality are two different things 
This ^^ maybe wait for her to initiate the moves first rather than trying to arrange it for her"
Yep. This is reality.  |
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"Thanks guys, she does want to do it but then she gets scared and backs off, she has wanted this fantasy for a while now. And she gets so turned on at the thought but Maybe going to a club is a better option. Thank you all for your advice it's been taken onboard!"
I would say a club or sauna is a good option, but make it clear to her from the start that first time you only have sex together with people watching
Or even dogging , but as normal tell her and them no touching
There is a place near us called paradise spa Bournemouth that's an ideal place .
Failing that a organised group social , at a pub or other type place , set ground rules as chatting etc .
set your rules low, and that way it's easier to break them , and less stressful than having high rules , that you regret doing later
I like havin a woman that blokes and women fancy , same as Paula likes it that women and blokes fancy me |
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We'll arrange another guy to join u n just all get naked n just play soft swing . U could play strip poker have a few vinos without getting d*unk . Nothing worse than that . First time no sex just get naked n loosen up |
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"Ok so me and my partner fantasis over me and 2 other guys fucking her, it's 1 of her biggest fantasies but when I try to set it up she backs out. I know the thought of it turns her on so much, any advise on how I go about it please . Thanks in advance"
Go to a club, on a night with single guys and just go with the flow... We've generally found that trying to plan never pans out anyway. Just enjoy what comes around, one day it may happen.
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I was bi curious for years, my bf got a girl for us to meet a few times but I backed out each time. It's wasn't untill I started chatting to someone that I felt ready to do it. If I was you I would just ask her what it is that makes her back out and work with her on it. Just don't push her xx |
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"All great advice. I for one would not be impressed if I felt this was forced upon me.
Let her choose the pace. "
Hello Darling, I'm amused by our similar usernames and am tempted to ask when our anniversary is   |
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"Well you could always set it up without her knowing. 50/50 wether she'd be really thrilled or upset and scared but we don't know her as well as you."
Bad move I reckon, that could undermine her trust and freak her out.
To op, I think if she wants to it will happen but I have fantasies all the time, it doesn't mean I want to act upon them or if I do it would be with people I trust so I'd follow her lead and if she is backing out it seems to mean she ia not ready to act on it. It is important for her to be ready and not to push acting out her fantasy on her |
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Tell her she doesn't know what she is missing I am having a mmmf satirday night social first few drink and to make sure we all get on and are happy to go ahead then back to one of the males houses for some fun can't wait to be a greedy girl ) |
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